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Name something unhygienic/disgusting but people do it

334 replies

stoow · 02/07/2025 06:43

I start off:
. Holding money their mouths. It’s mainly an elderly person thing. Friends working in retail see this often. Even in mask wearing days, customers lowered masks to do this, yet denied it.
. Going to the toilet and not flushing
. Washing chicken out. People don’t realise that this can spray bacteria around. Cooking it properly will kill bacteria.
. Coughing without covering mouth. Even with Covid, people are still doing this.
. Not washing hands after using loo. In public toilets, I use hand sanitiser as seen people from certain cultures spit and mums letting their toddler DS to wee in the basins.
. On planes, people walking barefooted especially in toilets. With the quick turnaround of planes, the staff can’t clean everywhere

OP posts:
K0OLA1D · 02/07/2025 19:33

Arran2024 · 02/07/2025 18:05

Also, I should add, I have 2 large breed, very hairy dogs, so I don't think I have a disorder. I just dont agree with the idea of keeping a germ laden cloth around to reuse.

I use my cloth multiple times but I do leave it in soak in bleach each night.

Audiprettier · 02/07/2025 19:34

InMyOpenOnion · 02/07/2025 06:56

Sitting on the train sniffing for ages and not blowing their nose so we can all hear them sucking up their snot the entire journey.

JC, Thankfully I've been spared this one 🤢...
Err, all of the above (except doggies on the bed), but men spitting on the street is just vile!

K0OLA1D · 02/07/2025 19:36

AngelinaFibres · 02/07/2025 18:21

Had a conversation with my SiL about flannels. She doesn't ever wash hers because it gets washed everyday in the shower. Errr nope.
Customers dogs being fussed in cafes by members of staff. Then they go back to making sandwiches, picking up plates etc with their dog shit - bacteria covered hands because it never occurs to them to wash them.
People carrying small dogs with the dogs backside resting on their arm That shirt/ jumper sleeve is covered in dog shit particles from your dog's anus. Revolting.

I honestly couldn't live my life thinking like this. I bet its so tiring!

Arran2024 · 02/07/2025 19:37

Pinkrabitt · 02/07/2025 19:19

But a teatowel just dries clean dishes/cutlery that have literally just been washed! How is it germy?

It gets wet. I dont like a wet tea towel hanging about.

BananaCaramel · 02/07/2025 19:44

K0OLA1D · 02/07/2025 19:36

I honestly couldn't live my life thinking like this. I bet its so tiring!

It isn’t tiring but it is extremely stressful when so many people seem to have zero concern for the impact that their hygiene habits have on other people around them

Pinkrabitt · 02/07/2025 19:52

Arran2024 · 02/07/2025 19:37

It gets wet. I dont like a wet tea towel hanging about.

But if you hang up the tea towel it dries!

aWeeCornishPastie · 02/07/2025 20:00

I honestly never knew about the toilet lid down when flushing thing till on here about 2 weeks ago

emziecy · 02/07/2025 20:19

So firstly I'm clearly a dirty bastard by some people's standards.

Secondly, I'd put money on the fact that the extremely obsessive sanitary police have generally more sickly and less robust offspring because they have been given no chance to build up any natural immunity to any germs

Finally, for the people clutching their pearls about 'filthy animals' in beds, on furniture, breathing the same air and just actually having the audacity to exist etc, you do realise that humans are animals, right?

LifeandLemons40 · 02/07/2025 20:25

Not sure if it has been mentioned but number 1 is wiping your bottom after doing a number 2 with just tissue.

Incase you ask what the alternative is. Washing your bottom!! Washing your bottom is the alternative!! Literally most other cultures do this!!!
You wouldn't just have poo on any other part of your body and wipe with tissue, you would wash it, why is the bottom any exception?!?
Phew, been meaning to get that off my chest for a while....

Notashamed13 · 02/07/2025 20:28

Not rtft but the first thing that springs to my mind is go swimming. I can't wear goggles because seeing all the fluff and debris on the bottom literally makes me gag. Praise the lord for chlorine!

Notashamed13 · 02/07/2025 20:30

Notashamed13 · 02/07/2025 20:28

Not rtft but the first thing that springs to my mind is go swimming. I can't wear goggles because seeing all the fluff and debris on the bottom literally makes me gag. Praise the lord for chlorine!

As in hundreds, literally hundreds over the course of a day sharing that pool water..... wet bogies, smeg, pubes ugh

Imisssleep2 · 02/07/2025 20:37

I used to go to school with a girl, who when it was her birthday we used to go to her house for a party and after singing happy birthday, all her family started grabbing handfuls of cake and feeding each other. Even at my young age of like 6/7 I was repulsed by this and never ate the slice of cake I was sent home with in my party bag. I get that it was probably a cultural thing, but no thanks.

Bubblebubblepoppop · 02/07/2025 20:41

ComtesseDeSpair · 02/07/2025 17:06

I presume so you can put your things waiting to be washed in the washing up bowl, so that if you need to use the sink to drain pasta, rinse vegetables, or wash your hands you just lift the bowl and its contents out of the sink first. Can also leave things to soak without having the entire sink out of action. Probably not an issue if you have a dishwasher, but not everyone does.

No I mean specifically using a washing up bowl to wash up. All the plates etc are scrubbed together in the soapy water that increasingly becomes filthy with all the food remnants then taken out to drain without being rinsed in fresh water, at least that's how I've seen it be done. Makes no sense.

landlordhell · 02/07/2025 20:45

Imisssleep2 · 02/07/2025 20:37

I used to go to school with a girl, who when it was her birthday we used to go to her house for a party and after singing happy birthday, all her family started grabbing handfuls of cake and feeding each other. Even at my young age of like 6/7 I was repulsed by this and never ate the slice of cake I was sent home with in my party bag. I get that it was probably a cultural thing, but no thanks.

I’ve heard of that. Which culture / nationality?

landlordhell · 02/07/2025 20:47

LifeandLemons40 · 02/07/2025 20:25

Not sure if it has been mentioned but number 1 is wiping your bottom after doing a number 2 with just tissue.

Incase you ask what the alternative is. Washing your bottom!! Washing your bottom is the alternative!! Literally most other cultures do this!!!
You wouldn't just have poo on any other part of your body and wipe with tissue, you would wash it, why is the bottom any exception?!?
Phew, been meaning to get that off my chest for a while....

I agree. I just wish our toilets were set up for this.

LakieLady · 02/07/2025 20:48

SparklyGlitterballs · 02/07/2025 07:22

That's me off to hell then. My little dog won't sleep anywhere else and as I'm otherwise alone in bed, I'm happy to have him there.

I'm looking after a friend's whippet at the moment. She's the most delightful bedmate, doesn't snore, doesn't smell, doesn't steal the covers and doesn't fidget.

landlordhell · 02/07/2025 20:48

Arran2024 · 02/07/2025 19:37

It gets wet. I dont like a wet tea towel hanging about.

I hang it up. It dries. I change it every other day. It’s only dried water!

Imisssleep2 · 02/07/2025 20:53

landlordhell · 02/07/2025 20:45

I’ve heard of that. Which culture / nationality?

I think they were Hindu from memory

LakieLady · 02/07/2025 21:00

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 02/07/2025 10:28

Our dog used to do an excellent pre-dishwasher scouring of various pans and dishes. A roasting tin - with a little gravy added - was probably her favourite, or a fish pie dish. Now we no longer have her, I have to resort to a Brillo pad or good old steel wool. 🐶❤️

When I had dogs, I always regarded the plate-licking as a pre-wash cycle before the plates went in the dishwasher.

They're amazingly efficient at getting plates clean, and I reckon the dishwasher water is hot enough to kill almost any germs.

Idontjetwashthefucker · 02/07/2025 21:54

Am I the only person who doesn't wash their arse every time they have a poo?

IdaGlossop · 02/07/2025 21:54

Bubblebubblepoppop · 02/07/2025 20:41

No I mean specifically using a washing up bowl to wash up. All the plates etc are scrubbed together in the soapy water that increasingly becomes filthy with all the food remnants then taken out to drain without being rinsed in fresh water, at least that's how I've seen it be done. Makes no sense.

The British are reviled in some other countries (which I choose not to name) for not rinsing their plates etc once they've been washed. All you have to do is rinse them under the tap. Not hard. Who wants soapy food? My mum was fastidious about the order in which things were washed up: cutlery, cups and saucers, side plates, desert plates, dinner plates, serving dishes, saucepans, roasting tins. Many years after her insisting on this and supervising me, I can't bring myself to do it any other way.

RaraRachael · 02/07/2025 22:00

Idontjetwashthefucker · 02/07/2025 21:54

Am I the only person who doesn't wash their arse every time they have a poo?

Em no. I never have. Goodness knows how you'd do it in a public toilet.

Never rinsed dishes after they're washed - just dry them.

Solongtoshort · 02/07/2025 22:03

Biting/chewing on pens then leaving them for others to use……..eugh!!!

stoow · 02/07/2025 22:05

takealettermsjones · 02/07/2025 17:19

Sorry if it's already been covered but can someone explain to me like I'm 5 what the issue is with being barefoot on a plane? My feet only ever touch the floor, the insides of my socks, or the insides of my shoes (if I'm going rogue and no socks). I don't think I ever even touch my feet unless to wash them? I don't get it 🙈🤣

Don’t know how often the floors are cleaned properly.

The flights such as EasyJet have a 50 min turnaround before the return flight goes.

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Crikeyalmighty · 02/07/2025 22:24

Personally I find buffet food at big impersonal hotels a bit rank - I’ve seen people pick stuff up with hands and then just put it back -dip fingers into stuff to taste it first, cough all over it, sweat dripping onto stuff - hence why I rarely eat in big hotels where it’s not individual orders - I even sometimes go out for breakfast when it’s included if it feels like a giant messy free for all .

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