Help me

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Would you date a man who leers at young women he’s 51!

No.

Only just met him about a month ago, every time we go out he stares at them, it’s weird and creepy.

Dump him.

Absolutely not. My DH is that age, he’d view it as massively inappropriate, they’re kids to him.

Exactly, something else he done about a month ago, we took a picnic to a park, I like my food can’t help it, he brought this video up on facebook of someone being horrible about fat people basically shaming them, he was laughing but I didn’t find it funny, I felt as though he was trying to say if I carry on the way I’m going I will get fat, or am I overthinking?

No. I would not. That’s frightening behaviour

He sounds like an absolute wanker. Why would you want to be around him?

i’m not I’m going to stop seeing him.

He’s awful. Get rid.

Red. Flag.

Well you originally asked if people using MN would date someone who “leers at young women” and now say you won’t stop seeing him, so what else can you hope for from this thread?
that’s not being unkind but you then switch to nasty remarks he made about weight - unrelatedly to the leering - so I suppose there isn’t anything anyone can reasonably add to what has already been said. Your choice of partner at the end of the day…

I said I was going to stop seeing him

Good for you! He doesn’t even deserve a chance to try. He’s a creep.

wish I could find someone nice and normal, I tend to look for mr perfect though, but I think these things he’s doing would put any woman off.

He sounds vile.

Well of course not. I wouldn't see anyone again if I found them to be weird and creepy for any reason. Why do you even need to ask?