I have put almost £750k of savings/inheritance into our relationship in order to support STBXH business.
I’ve paid off the mortgage on our joint property, and own a smaller rental myself.
With the exception of the properties, I have nothing left. Not a penny once the solicitors have been paid.
STBXH earns about £8k a year. He refuses to give up on the business as it means he can do what he wants, when he wants.
I work part time as well as being the main carer to two young children (plus DSC when here) and the person doing all the housework, etc.
We’re in the early stages of divorce, completing our Form E. My solicitor said his needs will be assessed and that he needs somewhere to live.
AIBU to think this is unfair given he’s choosing to pursue a business that’s making no money?
Has anyone experienced anything like this before?
I have loads of evidence whereby I’ve begged him to get a job!