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Temp accommodation unsafe - baby overheating - what can I do

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yoghurttops · 29/06/2025 01:20

I’ve been renting for years, but after my landlord decided to sell a year ago, I was evicted and just can’t afford anything on the private market.

We have a baby, and so received help from the council. Me and my partner do work, but we have been looking for better paying jobs for almost 2 years now.

The council have put us in temp housing, it’s on the 20th floor and the heat is absolutely awful! The aircon/heating system is controlled centrally and so I have zero control over it. The flat feels like an oven and the windows all have a plastic barrier with about 3mm gaps which let air in, but it’s just not enough. We get zero fresh air.

My baby has overheated about 3 times in this hot weather - once he was sick and threw everything up - the other times he is drowsy. In the past we have had to take him to A&E for not waking up without a prick from the nurse.

I don’t know what to do - who to complain to. My housing officer won’t help and doesn’t answer my emails and I am on stage 2 of a formal complaint via the housing ombudsman but the responses take weeks!

The building has negative reviews on Google and Housing websites - the lifts never work, it’s too hot and I am so so scared for my babies health. I can’t believe people are housed here.

Why can I do - I so wish I could afford to privately rent.

I saw that it is illegal to not live in the council flat - I want to stay with a friend for a while, at least until the weather cools down.

AIBU to leave the flat for a while - what do I need to do? Get council permission first? Can I ask them to move me on health grounds?

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Cassieskinsismad · 29/06/2025 01:50

Lots of people in London end up housed elsewhere in the country. If you'd be happy with that, make it known, you might end up housed permanently quicker.

Mainly though, you have to find some way of living with this situation because housing both temporary and permanent in London is in exceptionally short supply. You could be in temporary accommodation for decades if you're unlucky. A few years only, if you're very lucky. Unless you take fate into your own hands and move out into private rental, that is.

I work in the Midlands and I work with a few Londoners. Most have their extended families move up after a while as the standard of living is so much higher than they had in London.

One colleague had moved from a one bedroomed flat to a three bedroomed semi with a garden and can’t get over how much space she has.

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