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Neighbours having their own Glasto this evening

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Otins · 28/06/2025 21:27

About 4 houses along on the adjoining road (our back gardens join on to each other) are having their own version of Glastonbury this evening. They have a music system set up and a DJ. Bizarrely, I can’t hear the sounds of partying / people as such.

it is ridiculously loud and I can’t even have a conversation in my back garden without shouting.The gardens are tiny, only about 10m x 20m so it is less than 50m away.

I have all my windows shut and can still hear it perfectly in every room.

my only hope is that they started at 6.30pm so maybe it’ll finish early. [clutches at straws]

I accept it is a 1 off, and don’t mind the occasional party, but the noise levels are totally inappropriate for the middle of a residential area whatever time of day it is. There are kids around trying to get to sleep now, and they’ll have no chance. .

I can’t even give up and dance to it, as it is shit european folky stuff. Lots of wailing and accordions and the like.

I rang 101 for advice, and they gave me the local out of hours number for the council, but the answerphone message said they were closed when I called them.

aibu for being really pissed off - not at the party as such - just the ridiculously loud music?

OP posts:
whatcanthematterbe81 · 28/06/2025 22:30

I don’t understand how they can’t feel paranoid. I had people over today, music on quiet but I still kept turning down because I don’t want to piss neighbours off. My partner keeps saying “it’s not even loud” and I know he’s right but I just don’t think we need it any louder than background music. I like my neighbours , I want them to like me too

whatcanthematterbe81 · 28/06/2025 22:31

PyongyangKipperbang · 28/06/2025 22:26

Give it another half an hour, ring 101 and say that you can hear fighting and screaming. Not ethical but might just do the job.

How dramatic 😂

alexalisten · 28/06/2025 22:33

Op has disappeared do you think she gone to join the fun or do you think she's stole a riot van

EmiliaRuusuvuori · 28/06/2025 22:34

Our local park, about five minutes away, has had an event going on all day playing drum and bass and house music loudly since about 12 o'clock.
Not my favourite type of music but it appears to have finished now.
They're having a country music one next weekend I'm not looking forward to that one either.

MimiSunshine · 28/06/2025 22:37

Those saying chill out, it’s a summer Saturday night.

do you genuinely think it’s acceptable to play music so loud that your neighbours can’t have a conversation in their own garden because it’s so loud?

I don’t, that’s a ridiculous volume.

NormasArse · 28/06/2025 22:38

There’s a music festival in my town and I’m sandwiched between three venues. I wish I could just hear one song at a time… it’s chaotic to my brain!!

alexalisten · 28/06/2025 22:40

MimiSunshine · 28/06/2025 22:37

Those saying chill out, it’s a summer Saturday night.

do you genuinely think it’s acceptable to play music so loud that your neighbours can’t have a conversation in their own garden because it’s so loud?

I don’t, that’s a ridiculous volume.

I think noise levels are subjective

Otins · 28/06/2025 23:08

Summersunshinebliss · 28/06/2025 21:51

I am all for people having fun and good times but if its as bad as you say it is, then I would have popped along and asked them to turn it down a little rather than stewing over it.

Found one out of the other neighbours did…and got punched in the face.

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ReadingSoManyThreads · 28/06/2025 23:10

Otins · 28/06/2025 23:08

Found one out of the other neighbours did…and got punched in the face.

Well then I hope the police have now been called and attended for the assault,

Otins · 28/06/2025 23:11

afaloren · 28/06/2025 21:47

It is annoying when you can hear other people’s music but it’s Saturday night in summer. I would try not to get too worked up about it as a one off. Stewing won’t make it stop any sooner - I speak from experience!

This is way more than other people’s music levels though. This is a sound system and DJ in a garden the size of a postage stamp!

At least it’s stopped now though. My windows are back open. I can hear general chit chat and a baby crying but that is all acceptable noise and to be expected.

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Otins · 28/06/2025 23:12

PatMustardsBigTool · 28/06/2025 22:02

Our neighbours (they do this very regularly) have been hosting their party since 4pm with incredibly loud music. So loud that my friend who lives at the end of the street, approximately 20 houses away, text me earlier to ask if it was them again because she could hear the music. It’s inconsiderate and entitled. All our windows are shut now because it’s so loud and it’s hot. We have a white noise machine in the children bedrooms to help a bit.

I hope your neighbours cut it out soon, you have my sympathy, OP!

Oh god that sounds awful. I hope you get some peace soon.

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Lardychops · 28/06/2025 23:14

alexalisten · 28/06/2025 22:11

I cant believe you rang 101 on a one of party on a weekend in the summer in the early evening. What did you want to happen for the police to go round and shut it down

Same

it was 9.30 when she posted …
sheesh !

Lardychops · 28/06/2025 23:15

Otins · 28/06/2025 23:08

Found one out of the other neighbours did…and got punched in the face.

Shark. Jumped.

Otins · 28/06/2025 23:19

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i would have been chill about it if it had just been hearing music through open windows. But to have a sound system with a DJ in a garden th size of a postage stamp in a residential area is entitled and inconsiderate. Hire a hall if you want a party like that. Or at the very least, warn your neighbours in advance so they can make plans to go out if they want.

And I wanted to sit inside with the windows closed because there was very little else I could do. I couldn’t sit inside my garden, I couldn’t hear my TV. I couldn’t read as I couldn’t concentrate over the noise.

No children here but all my direct neighbours do have children under 5 (7 of them in total) so yes, they were trying (and failing) to get to sleep.

OP posts:
Otins · 28/06/2025 23:25

alexalisten · 28/06/2025 22:11

I cant believe you rang 101 on a one of party on a weekend in the summer in the early evening. What did you want to happen for the police to go round and shut it down

I rang for advice, to see if there was anything that could be done, as it was antisocial behaviour.

And no, I didn’t want it shut down completely but maybe the police could have attended and asked them to turn it down to an acceptable level. This was nightclub / festival noise levels. Not simply volume up loud / windows open.

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MimiSunshine · 28/06/2025 23:25

alexalisten · 28/06/2025 22:40

I think noise levels are subjective

I’m fairly certain that not being able to hear a person next to you talk over music is universally accepted to mean that music is extremely loud

Otins · 28/06/2025 23:30

ReadingSoManyThreads · 28/06/2025 23:10

Well then I hope the police have now been called and attended for the assault,

They were called and they have attended.

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PyongyangKipperbang · 28/06/2025 23:33

whatcanthematterbe81 · 28/06/2025 22:31

How dramatic 😂

Not really given that there was in fact violence towards another neighbour.

@Otins has the party been stopped now?

PyongyangKipperbang · 28/06/2025 23:39

Lardychops · 28/06/2025 23:15

Shark. Jumped.

Just because you have never witnessed this doesnt mean it didnt happen.

When I bought this house it was all owner occupied apart from some council owned properties at the top of the road who had lifetime tenancies. Everyone was considerate and it was a nice place to live. From abou 20 years ago all the properties that went up for sale were bought up by the BTL crowd. Now its very much "fuck everyone else" because whilst most of the residents are respectful of each other, there have always been one or two who have the "fuck them I can do what I like as I wont be here forever" attitude.

This is exactly the sort of thing that has happened on my street occasionally over the years.

BitOutOfPractice · 28/06/2025 23:42

Otins · 28/06/2025 23:19

i would have been chill about it if it had just been hearing music through open windows. But to have a sound system with a DJ in a garden th size of a postage stamp in a residential area is entitled and inconsiderate. Hire a hall if you want a party like that. Or at the very least, warn your neighbours in advance so they can make plans to go out if they want.

And I wanted to sit inside with the windows closed because there was very little else I could do. I couldn’t sit inside my garden, I couldn’t hear my TV. I couldn’t read as I couldn’t concentrate over the noise.

No children here but all my direct neighbours do have children under 5 (7 of them in total) so yes, they were trying (and failing) to get to sleep.

Oh op really? I mean I live in a city centre so I’m used to noise. I like hearing people enjoying themselves within reason. You don’t need to worry about other people’s kids.

whatcanthematterbe81 · 28/06/2025 23:43

PyongyangKipperbang · 28/06/2025 23:33

Not really given that there was in fact violence towards another neighbour.

@Otins has the party been stopped now?

That was said before the update . Either way, you can’t lie about something serious like that

AlertEagle · 29/06/2025 00:13

Otins · 28/06/2025 21:27

About 4 houses along on the adjoining road (our back gardens join on to each other) are having their own version of Glastonbury this evening. They have a music system set up and a DJ. Bizarrely, I can’t hear the sounds of partying / people as such.

it is ridiculously loud and I can’t even have a conversation in my back garden without shouting.The gardens are tiny, only about 10m x 20m so it is less than 50m away.

I have all my windows shut and can still hear it perfectly in every room.

my only hope is that they started at 6.30pm so maybe it’ll finish early. [clutches at straws]

I accept it is a 1 off, and don’t mind the occasional party, but the noise levels are totally inappropriate for the middle of a residential area whatever time of day it is. There are kids around trying to get to sleep now, and they’ll have no chance. .

I can’t even give up and dance to it, as it is shit european folky stuff. Lots of wailing and accordions and the like.

I rang 101 for advice, and they gave me the local out of hours number for the council, but the answerphone message said they were closed when I called them.

aibu for being really pissed off - not at the party as such - just the ridiculously loud music?

My neighbours are still going with the loud music, they have a live singer as well and a stage. Its someones birthday, kids are crying 😂😂

PyongyangKipperbang · 29/06/2025 00:32

whatcanthematterbe81 · 28/06/2025 23:43

That was said before the update . Either way, you can’t lie about something serious like that

You can lie about anything. Whether you should is another conversation.

And given that the "Just go round and ask them to turn it down" ended with violence and the police ended up attending anyway, my way was quicker and less painful.

Morgenrot25 · 29/06/2025 00:36

alexalisten · 28/06/2025 22:11

I cant believe you rang 101 on a one of party on a weekend in the summer in the early evening. What did you want to happen for the police to go round and shut it down

I can't believe you think it's ok to annoy the whole neighbourhood. It's incredibly entitled.

minnienono · 29/06/2025 00:54

I think it’s quite different if it’s a one off vs regular parties. For a one off, even if it’s a loud rock band in a tiny garden it’s fine until 10pm on weekends, but I’m talking about once a year at most.

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