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Where is the money going to come from to meet the UK people expectations?

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Pandersmum · 28/06/2025 14:46

So assuming that:

  • everyone who receives disability benefits needs them and may actually believe they should be entitled to more
  • pensioner benefits are non negotiable and again many believe they should be greater than current
  • working people (most) believe they are already taxed highly and believe they cannot be taxed any more without further impact to their feeling of unfairness and resentment of the system
  • it is unreasonable to expect young people with ADHD or other similar ND disorders / mental health challenges to work, even if they have qualifications and therefore they must be financially supported by the state
  • Mental health challenges are very real in any age of person and therefore they must be financially supported by the state and if in work, by their employers
  • rent (whatever level) should be supported by the state because it is a basic right to have a home
  • NHS treatment (& the best treatment) should be free be all, no matter how expensive it is or whatever their age because people pay their taxes
  • businesses are businesses and are there to make profits for their owners - therefore they can choose which country they operate in / pay their taxes in - if they don’t like the UK tax system, they can move somewhere else
  • ’in work benefits’ are necessary to support ‘low paid workers, often in essential jobs’ to gain similar amounts of financial remuneration to those on benefits
  • high net worth individuals can move if they don’t like the UK tax system

So just where is the money going to come from to fund the UK population of financial expectation of what the state should provide?

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rainingsnoring · 02/07/2025 22:39

BIossomtoes · 02/07/2025 19:03

Don’t patronise me, please. And you can’t have it both ways. Either you drop the entire net contributor schtick and stop moaning about people not contributing enough to cover their pensions or you accept the (correct) societal approach you outlined above.

@BIossomtoes current pensioners have not contributed enough in aggregate. Obviously, some individuals have paid a lot of tax but, as this is a society and there is no personal NI piggy bank, it isn't relevant. We could argue that this should be the case but it hasn't been so far. It's you that seems to be arguing that those who die at 70 or those with no children at net contributors. @taxguru is right that everyone benefits from other people's children, most of who work, pay taxes and provide services, to those with and without children.

I'm a bit puzzled as I've seen you say that you are a Labour voter on similar threads and I therefore would have assumed that you would verge more towards collectivism, yet you often seem to make remarks that suggest the opposite. I'm non partisan so it doesn't matter to me either way btw.

rainingsnoring · 02/07/2025 22:44

C8H10N4O2 · 02/07/2025 19:31

Self respect? Prospects? Even if you are not a penny better off initially its easier to get a better job from a job, to make progress to better wages or opportunities. Sitting on your arse waiting for something you will nobly contemplate getting out of bed for just gives you a worsening work record and even less change of a decent job.

When it comes to those able to work this language of “we must motivate poor little Peter/Jane to feel work is worth their valuable time” simply hands voters to Reform on a plate who are already ploughing the populist left in this vein.

My WC parents and their friends would share their last penny with a friend or relative down on their luck, it was common where I grew up for families to sub each other when one had a tough week (and by sub I mean pennies not pounds or more often a bag of tea or sixpences for the meter).

However they and all their friends had absolute contempt for those who would not work and chose to live off the work of others. They were considered scroungers who damaged the good will within a community by taking advantage. Everyone has met such people, everyone recognises the reality of that minority who are happy to live off others. Its a really easy message for Reform to push at the next election.

I understand your parent's perspective but, as I have tried to explain in several previous posts, it doesn't really work like that nowadays.
The prospects of a large percentage of the population have been destroyed by fiscal and financial decisions. Society has become divided and unpleasant. You only need to read a lot of the comments on here to see how much people hate each other. This isn't just about individuals, although I'm sure we have all made a few piss takers. It's about the mistakes that have been made over several decades, not just in the UK, that have led to the current mess.

BIossomtoes · 02/07/2025 22:45

rainingsnoring · 02/07/2025 22:39

@BIossomtoes current pensioners have not contributed enough in aggregate. Obviously, some individuals have paid a lot of tax but, as this is a society and there is no personal NI piggy bank, it isn't relevant. We could argue that this should be the case but it hasn't been so far. It's you that seems to be arguing that those who die at 70 or those with no children at net contributors. @taxguru is right that everyone benefits from other people's children, most of who work, pay taxes and provide services, to those with and without children.

I'm a bit puzzled as I've seen you say that you are a Labour voter on similar threads and I therefore would have assumed that you would verge more towards collectivism, yet you often seem to make remarks that suggest the opposite. I'm non partisan so it doesn't matter to me either way btw.

Maybe I just don’t fit your stereotype of a Labour voter. Or perhaps I see both sides clearly enough to successfully play devil’s advocate.

Obviously I believe in collectivism which is why it amuses me that posters like @taxguru clearly understand it yet still wang on about net contributors.

rainingsnoring · 02/07/2025 22:54

BIossomtoes · 02/07/2025 22:45

Maybe I just don’t fit your stereotype of a Labour voter. Or perhaps I see both sides clearly enough to successfully play devil’s advocate.

Obviously I believe in collectivism which is why it amuses me that posters like @taxguru clearly understand it yet still wang on about net contributors.

That's not how I read those posts by @taxguru that I've seen.
I'm not sure what a typical Labour voter is now. Urban, middle class professional probably as they have deserted the old 'working class' that they used to represent. Perhaps you are more 'New Labour' than Labour! They are all the same now as far as I'm concerned.

BIossomtoes · 02/07/2025 22:58

In fact I’m left leaning rather than Labour. I’m quite keen on the Greens these days.

fanmepls · 03/07/2025 00:35

That “outrage” was largely political point scoring. Quite a large number of pensioners said they didn’t need it.

Yea, absolutely no pensioner felt they were entitled to it 🙄. Next you'll be telling me hardly any of them voted Brexit 😆

MyObservations · 03/07/2025 06:59

I've noticed how this thread has most moved towards the funding of the NHS rather than the expectations we have of the NHS. Clearly both areas are of interest although I picked up a news item this morning if 28 (people I think) who are receiving hospital treatment as a consequence of illegal use of a particular drug (not from the NHS) for a beauty treatment.

It does seem to me, to an extent at least, that our expectations of the NHS have blossomed enormously over the last 50 or 60 years. In that respect it might be an oblique expectation in so far as we are doing things now that we'd never dreamt of and sometimes the NHS has to pick up the pieces when it all goes horribly wrong. I'm not suggesting it is right or wrong but merely reinforcing the notion that our expectations have changed quite dramatically but, broadly, the NHS and it's funding has been running to catch-up.

rainingsnoring · 03/07/2025 07:00

Katypp · 02/07/2025 17:49

I have not said young people should be sacrificial lambs. I have no idea where you get that from.
I would not be so presumptuous to think you are that interested, but if you looked, you would find I have actually been quite vocal about advocating for pensioners to lose some of their benefits and always suggest losing the triple lock in discussions such as this one.
Only earlier this week, I said we need to lose the romanticism around pensioners fighting in the war when the vast majority alive today haven't.
What I was responding to is the assertion that all pensioners should be subject to means testing to get their pension. Over timer yes, but it is completely unfair to take away something that people already have or could reasonably expect to be getting in the near future.
Do you not plan your finances? Would you be OK with losing some of your wage with ho warning?
And finally, I was referencing some really nasty posts on MN about 'greedy boomers' as if pensioners had planned all the luck they have had and were enjoying seeing younger people suffer.

No one suggested that the pensions for current pensioners should be means tested now, although it could be considered. The point was being made that current pensioners have contributed far less than they are receiving and are the most privileged of the generations.

When I stated that your post was ironic, etc and that you were happy for young people to be sacrificial lambs, that's already happening. It's already happened wrt pensions and Uni fees, for example. And look at housing!
What you said specifically was this 'I would very much encourage a discussion around changing the state pension for people entering the workplace now'
I interpret that to mean that you are happy for young people to be the sacrificial lambs yet again, so that they have less advantageous pensions. Having complained about the possibility of less advantageous pensions for current pensioners, you advocate it for those who are younger. What other way could it be interpreted?
Still, I'm pleased to hear that you support some review of current pensioner benefits. The massive outcry over the WFA just showed how entitled some pensioners are and how it is essentially politically impossible for any government to cut back. Whatever they suggest, and even though the UK cannot afford what it spends, people will stick the knife in even with a small change.

Apart from that, the way in which young people will clearly receive far less advantageous 'terms' than their parents goes a long way to explain why some have just given up. I've said this in several posts and you and one or two others have perhaps not taken the point.

Katypp · 03/07/2025 07:10

OK. So you have said pensions for those already receiving them should not change. And young people's pension should not be worse than what people get now. So exactly whose pensions should change then?
The post you were quoting for was specifically around pension credit. I said anyone my age (58) and younger have had plenty of opportunity to take up workplace pensions and should not be bailed out by the taxpayer with pension credit if they chose not to do so.
The reason I said this should start from people entering the workplace was again, to give notice, although thinking about it, it's extra money so maybe it could change earlier.
The problem with tinkering with pensions is that it's something people should plan for all their working life, and once retired, there are few chances to change your income. You can't just pull the rug from people's feet with the core pension entitlement with no notice.
Woukd you be happy to lose a chunk of your income? You haven't answered that.

BIossomtoes · 03/07/2025 07:30

fanmepls · 03/07/2025 00:35

That “outrage” was largely political point scoring. Quite a large number of pensioners said they didn’t need it.

Yea, absolutely no pensioner felt they were entitled to it 🙄. Next you'll be telling me hardly any of them voted Brexit 😆

That wasn’t what I said, was it? 🙄

fanmepls · 03/07/2025 08:43

Woukd you be happy to lose a chunk of your income?

Workers and particularly young people are loosing a chunk of their income due to wage stagnation & frozen tax bands.

"The share of adults paying higher rates has increased enormously in recent decades. In 1991–92 just 3.5% of UK adults paid the 40% higher rate of income tax. By 2022–23 11% were paying higher rates, with that figure set to reach 14% by 2027–28"

"As a result, while in the 1990s essentially no nurses and just 5–6% of teachers paid higher-rate tax, income tax thresholds failing to keep up with average wages means that by 2027–28 more than one in eight nurses and one in four teachers are set to be higher-rate taxpayers."

fanmepls · 03/07/2025 08:48

That wasn’t what I said, was it?

No you said "Quite a large number of pensioners said they didn’t need it." & the outrage was largely due to politicians. I think that is bullshit, plenty of pensioners felt aggrieved even if they didn't need it.
We will likely get Reform in next and a large chunk of their voters will be pensioners but this will likely be minimised because we can't seem to ever hold pensioners responsible for their political actions. Everything is the fault of the boat people and young people having mobile phones. It's tedious.

RowsOfFlowers · 03/07/2025 09:11

MyObservations · 03/07/2025 06:59

I've noticed how this thread has most moved towards the funding of the NHS rather than the expectations we have of the NHS. Clearly both areas are of interest although I picked up a news item this morning if 28 (people I think) who are receiving hospital treatment as a consequence of illegal use of a particular drug (not from the NHS) for a beauty treatment.

It does seem to me, to an extent at least, that our expectations of the NHS have blossomed enormously over the last 50 or 60 years. In that respect it might be an oblique expectation in so far as we are doing things now that we'd never dreamt of and sometimes the NHS has to pick up the pieces when it all goes horribly wrong. I'm not suggesting it is right or wrong but merely reinforcing the notion that our expectations have changed quite dramatically but, broadly, the NHS and it's funding has been running to catch-up.

I wholeheartedly agree. People take the absolute piss out of the NHS, and really take it for granted, and it’s not right.

I have hirutism as a result of PCOS and this often can lead to ingrown hairs and infection, but the NHS wouldn’t cover laser hair removal for me as they considered this a cosmetic treatment, and I’ve had to pay it for myself but can no longer afford it. Then you have people who abuse drugs, alcohol, food, beauty treatments gone wrong. It seems completely unfair. I barely ever use the NHS, as I go private through work, but I have paid taxes all my life.

fanmepls · 03/07/2025 09:16

Then you have people who abuse drugs, alcohol, food, beauty treatments gone wrong. It seems completely unfair.

I think this is way too simplistic & I think it's pretty hard to quantify who deserves treatment & who doesn't.

BIossomtoes · 03/07/2025 09:32

fanmepls · 03/07/2025 08:48

That wasn’t what I said, was it?

No you said "Quite a large number of pensioners said they didn’t need it." & the outrage was largely due to politicians. I think that is bullshit, plenty of pensioners felt aggrieved even if they didn't need it.
We will likely get Reform in next and a large chunk of their voters will be pensioners but this will likely be minimised because we can't seem to ever hold pensioners responsible for their political actions. Everything is the fault of the boat people and young people having mobile phones. It's tedious.

I didn’t say that either. I said a lot of the outrage was confected to make political capital. There was loads of it on MN from people who used it as a stick to beat the government and who, on other occasions, are all too ready to complain about intergenerational unfairness. As for not holding pensioners responsible for their political actions, I have one word for you - Brexit.

RowsOfFlowers · 03/07/2025 09:35

fanmepls · 03/07/2025 09:16

Then you have people who abuse drugs, alcohol, food, beauty treatments gone wrong. It seems completely unfair.

I think this is way too simplistic & I think it's pretty hard to quantify who deserves treatment & who doesn't.

So, why was I refused treatment then?

Katypp · 03/07/2025 09:38

fanmepls · 03/07/2025 08:43

Woukd you be happy to lose a chunk of your income?

Workers and particularly young people are loosing a chunk of their income due to wage stagnation & frozen tax bands.

"The share of adults paying higher rates has increased enormously in recent decades. In 1991–92 just 3.5% of UK adults paid the 40% higher rate of income tax. By 2022–23 11% were paying higher rates, with that figure set to reach 14% by 2027–28"

"As a result, while in the 1990s essentially no nurses and just 5–6% of teachers paid higher-rate tax, income tax thresholds failing to keep up with average wages means that by 2027–28 more than one in eight nurses and one in four teachers are set to be higher-rate taxpayers."

To take a slight swerve, it's strange how teachers and nurses still manage to com most of the public into believing they are underpaid

Katypp · 03/07/2025 09:43

I am a worker by the way. Still have 9 years to go in fact.
Pensions are not the same as wages. Workers are worse off, but they have the ability to work more, longer hours, change jobs etc. Not ideal I know but the opportunity is there.
Pensioners by and large can not do this. I am not arguing that means testing should not be introduced but it should be with plenty of notice.
So would you be happy to lose a chunk or even all of your income?

Alexandra2001 · 03/07/2025 09:46

Katypp · 03/07/2025 09:38

To take a slight swerve, it's strange how teachers and nurses still manage to com most of the public into believing they are underpaid

Are you being serious?

I'll take it you are.... my DD is band 6, 37k, takes home 2k pm, car parking and loan repayments for her degree... the level of responsibility is out of this world, as are the conditions she sees and treats.

Should you be unfortunate enough to suffer a serious brain injury, say a stroke, it'll be someone like her that you can tell "You should earn less"

Her BF works in IT, 2 days a week in the office, 3 days wfh, rarely works more than 35hrs per week... salary is 52k, no loan, no parking charges, company car, very much stress free.

RowsOfFlowers · 03/07/2025 09:48

Katypp · 03/07/2025 09:38

To take a slight swerve, it's strange how teachers and nurses still manage to com most of the public into believing they are underpaid

That’s because they absolutely are!!!!

User37482 · 03/07/2025 09:52

Alexandra2001 · 03/07/2025 09:46

Are you being serious?

I'll take it you are.... my DD is band 6, 37k, takes home 2k pm, car parking and loan repayments for her degree... the level of responsibility is out of this world, as are the conditions she sees and treats.

Should you be unfortunate enough to suffer a serious brain injury, say a stroke, it'll be someone like her that you can tell "You should earn less"

Her BF works in IT, 2 days a week in the office, 3 days wfh, rarely works more than 35hrs per week... salary is 52k, no loan, no parking charges, company car, very much stress free.

Everyone has to pay back their student loan and has costs associated with employment such as commuting. The public sector gets generous pensions to offset lower wages. Thats the trade off. At the end of her working life she can sit down and figure out exactly how much she would have had to save to get a similar annuity to match her pension, it will be substantial.

Alexandra2001 · 03/07/2025 09:59

User37482 · 03/07/2025 09:52

Everyone has to pay back their student loan and has costs associated with employment such as commuting. The public sector gets generous pensions to offset lower wages. Thats the trade off. At the end of her working life she can sit down and figure out exactly how much she would have had to save to get a similar annuity to match her pension, it will be substantial.

Edited

Not everyone has a loan at all, why do you think that? until the 2010s, healthcare workers got free tuition... no real notice given and has created a 2 tier wage system in the NHS.
Many workers do not pay car parking, public transport isn't an option, due to no buses late at night etc.

Pensions? pays in a substantial % every month.... does that offset lower wages? 40years of a lower standard of living VS 10 or 15 years of a better one but at a time when you might well expect to have failing health, certainly your best years are behind you.

BUT and its a huge BUT... her job satisfaction is huge and she has skills that are transferable to other countries and other industries.

I'm challenging the poster who clams they are conning the public over their relative low pay.

BIossomtoes · 03/07/2025 10:01

Personally I think it’s appalling that we expect healthcare care professionals to pay student loans. We might retain more of these incredibly expensively trained people if we wrote their loans off if they work for the NHS for a specified period after qualifying.

RowsOfFlowers · 03/07/2025 10:02

BIossomtoes · 03/07/2025 10:01

Personally I think it’s appalling that we expect healthcare care professionals to pay student loans. We might retain more of these incredibly expensively trained people if we wrote their loans off if they work for the NHS for a specified period after qualifying.

Agreed.

Retrolife · 03/07/2025 10:10

Badbadbunny · 30/06/2025 12:42

I agree. My OH was offered ridiculously expensive and risky stem cell transplant for his cancer. He properly thought through the alternative options and basically, his life expectancy was the same whether they did it or not, but the risks were far greater.

It was basically a choice of stem cell transplant which was risky as it was high strength chemotherapy to kill all his cells then transplant his "cleaned" cells back into him without any immunity for anything, which would give him a life expectancy of 10 years, but still on ongoing drug based chemotherapy every month.

OR

Continue on his existing drug based chemotherapy which was working well as his body responded so well to it, he could be on the minimum dose. Where the life expectancy was 10 years!

He couldn't see the benefit of the stem cell transplant. He asked the stem cell consultant, who likewise couldn't really lay out any benefits over what he was already on, just some minor comments about "what if the current drug regime stops working so well" - and he couldn't answer my OH when he said "what if the new drug regime after stem cell transplant" stops working so well?

The cost on the stem cell transplant wasn't explicitly said to him, but they were talking a couple of hundred thousand!

What we gleaned was that the hospital had been set up with a stem cell transplant unit, and they wanted patients to fill it, as the hospital got the funding from central funds "per patient". I think there was also an element of wanting "guinea pigs" for research purposes to improve the stem cell transplant procedures etc!

OH is now 7/8 years into his ongoing chemotherapy without the stem cell transplant and the drugs are still working well and he's still on minimum dose, so highly likely to hit the same 10 year lifespan target as if he'd had the risky stem cell transplant.

I am so glad your OH made this decision. My DF had a stem cell transplant and died from complications from it. We therefore only had 6 months with him, rather than the probable 5 years without it. And the process was very, very grim.
I hope your OH continues to respond well to the chemo.

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