Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To refuse to provide bank statement to my work to prove I was in the office

977 replies

HanExplorer · 26/06/2025 09:07

I’ve found myself in a very unusual situation and am standing firm so far despite pressure.

I work in a hybrid role with a requirement to attend our office twice a week, this is measured monthly based on card swipe data. On one of the days in May, I forgot my pass so was issued a temporary one to use that day.

Earlier this month my manager flagged I was showing a day short for office attendance in May and said I’d need to make up a further day in June. I looked at the dates they had on record and quickly realised the missing one was when I had the temporary pass so that obviously hadn’t registered on the system.

I explained this to my manager and she still maintained I’d need to attend an extra day to balance the totals on the system as there ‘wasn’t any record of me attending’.

I realised I’d spent money in the on site restaurant that day and there’d be a record on my bank showing the company name. I screenshotted this on my phone, cropped it so you could see the date and sent it to my manager.

She has checked with her manager and told me that I need to provide a copy of a bank statement which shows my name and the transaction - that would of course also show all my other activity!!

This has been dragging on and I’m standing firm so far, but I’ve had a call booked in with my manager and her manager for tomorrow and I’m wary of what they are going to say.

My office is over an hours train journey each way so not a case of driving 5 minutes down the road to work a further day - regardless, I don’t feel I should do out of principle.

OP posts:
MoreDangerousThanAWomanScorned · 02/07/2025 18:06

Sage71 · 02/07/2025 15:35

Perhaps also raise your concern that temporary pass information is not held. Had there been an emergency that day such as a fire etc does that mean nobody would have looked for you. I smell a Health and Safety Issue.

I don't know why people keep saying this! Where I work we need passes to get into but not out of the building. I have worked in several places that are the same. No one can use pass data to know who's in the building (and who is doing that? Is someone grabbing a laptop and taking it out to check pass data if there's a fire?). There is no health and safety requirement to have a list of anyone in the building at any time.

Sage71 · 02/07/2025 18:10

MoreDangerousThanAWomanScorned · 02/07/2025 18:06

I don't know why people keep saying this! Where I work we need passes to get into but not out of the building. I have worked in several places that are the same. No one can use pass data to know who's in the building (and who is doing that? Is someone grabbing a laptop and taking it out to check pass data if there's a fire?). There is no health and safety requirement to have a list of anyone in the building at any time.

Then clearly there are different systems, we always needed to scan in and out and the information was used for drills. We also had to scan in and out if we left the premises for lunch. Just because it doesn’t happen where you worked does not mean it doesn’t happen.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page