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To refuse to provide bank statement to my work to prove I was in the office

977 replies

HanExplorer · 26/06/2025 09:07

I’ve found myself in a very unusual situation and am standing firm so far despite pressure.

I work in a hybrid role with a requirement to attend our office twice a week, this is measured monthly based on card swipe data. On one of the days in May, I forgot my pass so was issued a temporary one to use that day.

Earlier this month my manager flagged I was showing a day short for office attendance in May and said I’d need to make up a further day in June. I looked at the dates they had on record and quickly realised the missing one was when I had the temporary pass so that obviously hadn’t registered on the system.

I explained this to my manager and she still maintained I’d need to attend an extra day to balance the totals on the system as there ‘wasn’t any record of me attending’.

I realised I’d spent money in the on site restaurant that day and there’d be a record on my bank showing the company name. I screenshotted this on my phone, cropped it so you could see the date and sent it to my manager.

She has checked with her manager and told me that I need to provide a copy of a bank statement which shows my name and the transaction - that would of course also show all my other activity!!

This has been dragging on and I’m standing firm so far, but I’ve had a call booked in with my manager and her manager for tomorrow and I’m wary of what they are going to say.

My office is over an hours train journey each way so not a case of driving 5 minutes down the road to work a further day - regardless, I don’t feel I should do out of principle.

OP posts:
Isobel201 · 28/06/2025 19:35

HanExplorer · 27/06/2025 13:10

I’ve spoken with my Union rep and the matter is closed. For those who are interested:

-The hybrid policy was jointly signed off by the Union and nowhere in this did it state employees should be asked to provide personal information such as bank statements to prove attendance. My manager and their own manager have gone ‘rogue’ in asking for this.

-The policy confirms the adherence to the required office days is to be measured via pass swipe data. The company have a blind spot here with temporary passes which the Union will demand is addressed urgently.

-The rep pointed out my exemplary record of 100% adherence to this policy historically, and that a common sense approach should have been applied - they even cited that this would have been a PR disaster had it got out.

I won’t be too smug - apologies to the anti WFH brigade who will no doubt be disappointed by this victory for common sense. You know what, you could always search for roles which are hybrid/WFH - you might get even more time to post nonsense on MN 😉

Anyway, 3 hours to go and then I can crack open a bottle of wine to toast my fan club on here!

Edited

that's great, it goes to show that going to the union does pay off sometimes.

thepariscrimefiles · 28/06/2025 19:43

Itallcomesdowntothis · 28/06/2025 16:25

Wrong. I said it was bound to happen. Sorry I didn’t realise you were the OP’s protector.

Not at all. I'm not OP's protector. I was just challenging your blatant hypocricy and double standards. It's fine for you to be rude to people but you get really offended if people are rude back and you accuse them of personally attacking you.

BrickBiscuit · 28/06/2025 20:57

rockstarshoes · 28/06/2025 17:28

And then reading some of these comments it is clear that the sort of manager that would enforce such a stupid, time wasting policy exist in real life & are here attacking the OP for having the audacity to stand up for herself 🙄

  1. Managers are employed to enforce policies, no matter how stupid or time-wasting. It's their job.
  2. They are enforcing the policy that swipe cards confirm attendance. This policy is neither stupid nor time-wasting, but reasonable, secure and efficient. OP breached it.
  3. There is no policy for recording temporary passes. Managers must therefore decide how to achieve alternative confirmation of attendance.
  4. There is no policy on alternative confirmation of attendance. The OP has offered a generic record. Managers have asked for a specific record, which the Op could have provided safely redacted for privacy (PPs have described how).
The only policy being enforced here is 'swipe cards confirm attendance'. The rest is decision-making to resolve the OP's breach. In fairness to other staff, they need confirmation of attendance, not an unsubstantiated claim. A record of temporary passes would certainly have helped.
rockstarshoes · 28/06/2025 21:07

i disagree! Only a line manager with minimal experience would blindly follow a shit policy!

I’ve managed various numbers of people for the last 25 years! I would not enforce something like this!

i’d tick a box if I had to to say no further action or whatever the process is!
Managers should be empowered to make their own decisions about their own staff!

BIossomtoes · 28/06/2025 21:37

It’s a policy thrashed out between management and the union. Regardless of whether you think it’s shit or not managers are expected to enforce company policy and take collective responsibility. At no time in the decades I managed people would I have risked my job by failing to adhere to a policy. I suspect you actually have very little if any management experience @rockstarshoes.

Lalaloope · 28/06/2025 21:46

The only person who'd have an issue with a simple request to provide a quick online/paper statement (with everything else completely blurred or painted over except the necessary transaction and details) is either someone who's hiding something or someone who enjoys making a mountain out of a molehill.

Maddy70 · 28/06/2025 23:01

Jellycatspyjamas · 26/06/2025 09:11

I’d print the bank statement and blank out all the other transactions, if it was important to me not to have to make up the day. I don’t have head space to get into a stand off when it could be easily fixed.

This...you're making this way too complicated

BrickBiscuit · 28/06/2025 23:03

rockstarshoes · 28/06/2025 21:07

i disagree! Only a line manager with minimal experience would blindly follow a shit policy!

I’ve managed various numbers of people for the last 25 years! I would not enforce something like this!

i’d tick a box if I had to to say no further action or whatever the process is!
Managers should be empowered to make their own decisions about their own staff!

The only policy here is 'swipe cards confirm attendance'. That is reasonable, secure and efficient. There is no policy for alternative confirmation of attendance. The managers are therefore left to decide how to do so (in other words, "empowered to make their own decisions about their own staff"). The OP breached the policy. The managers are dealing with that in a policy vacuum, not 'following a shit policy'.

Codlingmoths · 28/06/2025 23:06

BIossomtoes · 28/06/2025 21:37

It’s a policy thrashed out between management and the union. Regardless of whether you think it’s shit or not managers are expected to enforce company policy and take collective responsibility. At no time in the decades I managed people would I have risked my job by failing to adhere to a policy. I suspect you actually have very little if any management experience @rockstarshoes.

The policy has a clear gap. You escalate to the policy owner, a quick circular determines suitable action , a decision on immediate policy update or at a later date…. I write and update lots of policies for large corporates. Instead they’ve determined their own actions which are not in policy and are very much the ones in fault. I can imagine the policy owners faces that I know. ‘Do we authorise demanding bank accounts in this document? No? Then I do not understand why you are saying according to the policy. Nothing you’ve done is according to the policy. Don’t you think if it’s inadequately addressed by policy X that the first thing to do was to inform me?? Because that is the only course of action open to you here, so it’s confusing as to why you’ve instead gone vigilante.’

Codlingmoths · 28/06/2025 23:06

BrickBiscuit · 28/06/2025 23:03

The only policy here is 'swipe cards confirm attendance'. That is reasonable, secure and efficient. There is no policy for alternative confirmation of attendance. The managers are therefore left to decide how to do so (in other words, "empowered to make their own decisions about their own staff"). The OP breached the policy. The managers are dealing with that in a policy vacuum, not 'following a shit policy'.

The op hasn’t breached anything

BrickBiscuit · 28/06/2025 23:13

Codlingmoths · 28/06/2025 23:06

The op hasn’t breached anything

"-The policy confirms the adherence to the required office days is to be measured via pass swipe data." (OP)

"On one of the days in May, I forgot my pass" (OP)

rockstarshoes · 28/06/2025 23:31

BrickBiscuit · 28/06/2025 23:13

"-The policy confirms the adherence to the required office days is to be measured via pass swipe data." (OP)

"On one of the days in May, I forgot my pass" (OP)

i Have never met a person who hasn’t one day forgotten their pass!

The official policy hasn’t written in a clause about what happens when you don’t have your own pass!

There is a process in place for people who have forgotten their pass to get a temporary one but somehow that hasn’t been included in the overarching one!

Therefore the overarching policy is not fit for purpose, as picked up on by the union!

Honestly as a line manager have none of you ever thought this is a pile of shit & I’m not doing it?

BrickBiscuit · 28/06/2025 23:41

rockstarshoes · 28/06/2025 23:31

i Have never met a person who hasn’t one day forgotten their pass!

The official policy hasn’t written in a clause about what happens when you don’t have your own pass!

There is a process in place for people who have forgotten their pass to get a temporary one but somehow that hasn’t been included in the overarching one!

Therefore the overarching policy is not fit for purpose, as picked up on by the union!

Honestly as a line manager have none of you ever thought this is a pile of shit & I’m not doing it?

No, we've thought the policy has gaps and the temporary pass system lacks record-keeping, so what reasonable action might be taken to ensure business continuity?

rockstarshoes · 28/06/2025 23:45

BIossomtoes · 28/06/2025 21:37

It’s a policy thrashed out between management and the union. Regardless of whether you think it’s shit or not managers are expected to enforce company policy and take collective responsibility. At no time in the decades I managed people would I have risked my job by failing to adhere to a policy. I suspect you actually have very little if any management experience @rockstarshoes.

But obviously not thrashed out in total because no one seems to have considered what happens if someone forgets their pass - even though there is a process in place for the forgotten pass!

I wouldn’t enforce that no, I’d enter what ever I needed to enter into what ever system I was using to tick a box & remind my member of staff to bring her pass in!

she hasn’t done anything wrong - she’s been in the office when she should have been in the office, she followed the process for a forgotten pass!

she shouldn’t have to be printing off bank statements or any other admin shit - she had followed the processes in place & if I was her line manager I would be doing everything I could to relieve the bloody admin burden to her and me!

hididdlyho · 28/06/2025 23:51

Glad your employer backed down on this non issue. But card transactions don't always show as debiting on the same date you make them, so I slightly despair at the number of posters who would quite happily provide this non proof to their employer without questioning their policies on issuing security passes!

BIossomtoes · 29/06/2025 00:04

she followed the process for a forgotten pass!

Did she? Is there any process for a forgotten pass? It certainly doesn’t look like it.

Codlingmoths · 29/06/2025 00:07

BrickBiscuit · 28/06/2025 23:41

No, we've thought the policy has gaps and the temporary pass system lacks record-keeping, so what reasonable action might be taken to ensure business continuity?

And that’s asking security to check the cameras, not requesting personal bank info.

rockstarshoes · 29/06/2025 00:23

BIossomtoes · 29/06/2025 00:04

she followed the process for a forgotten pass!

Did she? Is there any process for a forgotten pass? It certainly doesn’t look like it.

Well she was issued with a temporary pass so I presume so!

I’m glad you’re not my line manager Blossomtoes! 😀 I feel we would lock horns!

BrickBiscuit · 29/06/2025 00:24

Codlingmoths · 29/06/2025 00:07

And that’s asking security to check the cameras, not requesting personal bank info.

The OP said they ruled that out. I'd not have gone down the bank info route, but the OP introduced it themselves.

Codlingmoths · 29/06/2025 00:25

Itallcomesdowntothis · 28/06/2025 16:26

Many many many in my time? Have you never had an opinion that disagreed with you and you accepted that people think differently?

Not about interpreting a policy gap and handling it. Banks, energy, fund managers, they all take a reasonable approach to managing their qualified staff or they wouldn’t have any and good people are hard to find, plus there are very clear standards on who is at fault in the event of a claim when the policy was inadequate, unless the staff member has actually done something criminal. They save coming down hard for when someone has actually done something wrong, and focussing on fixing their own policy and controls gap when that is the cause.

levampire · 29/06/2025 00:48

Next time on Girl Bossing Your Way to the Bottom at Work!

AppUser · 29/06/2025 07:39

Just print the bank statement and redact all the bits that they don't need to see.

Havetheweekendoffreports · 29/06/2025 08:59

AppUser · 29/06/2025 07:39

Just print the bank statement and redact all the bits that they don't need to see.

😆

BeenzManeenz · 29/06/2025 09:37

BrickBiscuit · 28/06/2025 23:03

The only policy here is 'swipe cards confirm attendance'. That is reasonable, secure and efficient. There is no policy for alternative confirmation of attendance. The managers are therefore left to decide how to do so (in other words, "empowered to make their own decisions about their own staff"). The OP breached the policy. The managers are dealing with that in a policy vacuum, not 'following a shit policy'.

The policy doesn't cover temporary passes. The OP had a pass, a temporary one.

Have you bothered to read the OPs follow up? It clearly addresses what you're saying and you are wrong

BeenzManeenz · 29/06/2025 09:38

The amount of bootlickers on this thread, my god. No wonder we live in a country where wage isn't going up, half of you just want to kowtow to your bosses humiliating you. Madness

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