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DP has just broke my dryer

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Pinkdreams · 24/06/2025 23:11

I asked DP to move the dryer whilst I clean under it as I spilt something, he couldn’t move it far enough so got annoyed and pulled it, which has now completely snapped the plug. I’m so angry. My dad says we can just change it ourselves, would you call an electrician?

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whynotmereally · 25/06/2025 04:56

PyongyangKipperbang · 25/06/2025 02:06

@Pinkdreams have to say that my biggest issue is that you called it "my" dryer.

I assumed you meant hair dryer. But a tumble dryer is co-owned surely? If its yours then how so? Doesnt he do laundry?
If it needs cleaning under, why is it just you doing the cleaning?

I guess that you have been brought up with "blue" jobs and "pink" jobs? YOur name being a bit of a giveaway.

ETA that the only time I clean under any kitchen appliance is when the knackered one goes out of the house and I do a quick scrub before the next one goes in!

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Why would her dp need to lift the hairdryer for her to clean underneath? Maybe he doesn’t live there or she bought it before they started living together ?

if you spill something sticky under your application you should clean underneath it otherwise you risk attracting bugs.

DeskJotter · 25/06/2025 05:00

Pinkdreams · 24/06/2025 23:35

Thank you everyone for confirming this can be done safely.

I am rather saddened by everyone’s response. I have never had a broken plug before, my dad has a tendency to do things with electrics that definitely require an electrician, hence why I asked for advice on here.

I was never taught at school or in brownies to change a plug, nor do I remember a time electricals were purchased without one. How would I possibly know something like this if I have never been taught, I do not appreciate people acting like I’m an idiot for not know something. Why can’t people use their knowledge to educate people instead of belittling and tearing them down.

You could just Google it, though? It's a basic life skill like changing a lightbulb.

Ponderingwindow · 25/06/2025 05:00

This is a fascinating snapshot into uk culture. In the U.S. we are taught that diy and electricity do not mix. Plugs have never come separately either.

DeskJotter · 25/06/2025 05:02

Pinkdreams · 24/06/2025 23:41

Yeah, my dad changes sockets regularly.. as stated below this is the reason I asked in the first place as I know he does things that he shouldn’t and I don’t want my home to become unsafe

It's absolutely fine to wire sockets yourself. It's a step above changing a plug, and I would only recommend wiring a socket if you can confidently Google how to do it.

DeskJotter · 25/06/2025 05:07

Mintsj · 24/06/2025 23:59

That is a very strange accident to have. I am quite confused as to which part is broken.

I thought that most supplied plugs on appliances these days are moulded shut so you can't rewire them.

Can you post a photo?

You can rewire a moulded plug. You simply cut the wire below where it goes into the plug, strip back the wire casing by a few cms, and off you go.

DeskJotter · 25/06/2025 05:13

IfYouPutASausageInItItsNotAViennetta · 25/06/2025 00:34

It's really unkind to berate OP for not knowing how to change a plug. I know how to, but that isn't because I'm better or smarter; I'm just of a certain vintage.

It's one of those life skills that used to be essential but is now never needed by the vast majority of people. It's a bit like mocking young people for not knowing how to write a cheque, or how to send a fax, or how to manually spool back a cassette tape with a pencil.

Plenty of young adults now have other instinctive skills that most people of my generation probably don't instantly know anything about; and maybe never will learn at all.

I think it's the absence of the life skill of knowing how to Google something that people are surprised by.

Bjorkdidit · 25/06/2025 05:24

DeskJotter · 25/06/2025 05:07

You can rewire a moulded plug. You simply cut the wire below where it goes into the plug, strip back the wire casing by a few cms, and off you go.

It's a simple job, but do they have the tools? Sounds like the DP is going to have to go out and buy wire strippers, a new plug and possibly a screwdriver.

Bjorkdidit · 25/06/2025 05:27

DeskJotter · 25/06/2025 05:13

I think it's the absence of the life skill of knowing how to Google something that people are surprised by.

Yes, if 'young people' should be good at something, it's Googling to find out the answer if they don't know something.

Because amongst all the pointless shite on Youtube, there is actually useful stuff like how to wire a plug.

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VeryStressedMum · 25/06/2025 05:42

Haggisfish3 · 24/06/2025 23:41

It has been on the school curriculum for decades. At least twenty five years.

I am 50 years old I was never taught in school to change a plug.
My children are in their twenties they weren't taught in primary or secondary school to change a plug.

PsychoHotSauce · 25/06/2025 05:43

AlwaysTheRenegade · 24/06/2025 23:48

I'm 35 and I would have to ask someone aswell! I didn't get taught this at school, I don't think I know anyone under 50 that did!

I'm 37 and we definitely were taught it, think it was GCSE but might have been Year 9.

We were all given a plug to wire and all I remember is that I didn't do it successfully. I wouldn't be able to do it now without YouTube but I like PPs mnemonic to remember it upthread!

TunnocksOrDeath · 25/06/2025 05:50

When I was at school, wiring a plug was only on the syllabus for combined science, and for physics, so if you did chemistry and biology separately, but not physics, you'd have missed it.
But chin-up. It's not tricky. You need to make sure you're got the right amp fuse in, especially for something that draws as much power as a kitchen appliance. Good luck.

chatgptsbestmate · 25/06/2025 05:52

My Dad could change a plug and he definitely taught me. I've forgotten now and would have to ask a neighbour or get an electrician in

MissJoGrant · 25/06/2025 05:59

AlwaysTheRenegade · 24/06/2025 23:48

I'm 35 and I would have to ask someone aswell! I didn't get taught this at school, I don't think I know anyone under 50 that did!

It was part of your physics GCSE.

Household electricity - Mains electricity - AQA - GCSE Physics (Single Science) Revision - AQA - BBC Bitesize https://share.google/a2Vk1gXkH2voT9eXK

Household electricity - Mains electricity - AQA - GCSE Physics (Single Science) Revision - AQA - BBC Bitesize

Learn about and revise mains electricity, current and the role of the National Grid with this GCSE Bitesize Physics.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/bitesize/guides/z3xv97h/revision/2

NameChange7890123 · 25/06/2025 06:02

I'm 43, UK, and have never been taught to change a plug in either school or brownies. I've never once in my life needed to either so hardly a 'life skill'.
For those saying why didn't you Google. Why would you Google something you didn't think possible?

I'd love to see a thread of someone older asking how to do something a 20 year old was taught in school and everyone jumping on it going 'you're pathetic not to know that'.

1984Winston · 25/06/2025 06:04

I'm 41 and I don't know how to re wire a plug, wasn't taught at school either (although was abroad for secondary school) my DH is a year older than me and went to the same primary and I don't think he knows either, I do remember my parents changing plugs though

Reallyneedsaholiday · 25/06/2025 06:05

Pinkdreams · 24/06/2025 23:35

Thank you everyone for confirming this can be done safely.

I am rather saddened by everyone’s response. I have never had a broken plug before, my dad has a tendency to do things with electrics that definitely require an electrician, hence why I asked for advice on here.

I was never taught at school or in brownies to change a plug, nor do I remember a time electricals were purchased without one. How would I possibly know something like this if I have never been taught, I do not appreciate people acting like I’m an idiot for not know something. Why can’t people use their knowledge to educate people instead of belittling and tearing them down.

You can safely change a plug on an appliance, as others have said, you can look up instructions online, but if in doubt, get an electrician. There’s no shame in playing it safe. Badly wired appliances can start fires.
But please don’t try to wire in sockets yourself.

party4you · 25/06/2025 06:08

OP how can you have a go at posters for berating you when you were annoyed at your DP for accidentally causing (repairable) damage whilst helping you?! Look in the mirror Jesus.

Bjorkdidit · 25/06/2025 06:10

NameChange7890123 · 25/06/2025 06:02

I'm 43, UK, and have never been taught to change a plug in either school or brownies. I've never once in my life needed to either so hardly a 'life skill'.
For those saying why didn't you Google. Why would you Google something you didn't think possible?

I'd love to see a thread of someone older asking how to do something a 20 year old was taught in school and everyone jumping on it going 'you're pathetic not to know that'.

Well you could google 'can you rewire a plug'?

Why wouldn't you think it's possible? Sometimes when the fuse blows there's sparks and the plug gets a bit burnt so that's another reason to change it.

MyLov · 25/06/2025 06:12

Pinkdreams · 24/06/2025 23:35

Thank you everyone for confirming this can be done safely.

I am rather saddened by everyone’s response. I have never had a broken plug before, my dad has a tendency to do things with electrics that definitely require an electrician, hence why I asked for advice on here.

I was never taught at school or in brownies to change a plug, nor do I remember a time electricals were purchased without one. How would I possibly know something like this if I have never been taught, I do not appreciate people acting like I’m an idiot for not know something. Why can’t people use their knowledge to educate people instead of belittling and tearing them down.

You are absolutely right @PinkdreamsThere was absolute no need for posters to talk to you the way they have.

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Wheech · 25/06/2025 06:16

PickAChew · 25/06/2025 00:13

Wiring a plug was part of the physics curriculum in the early noughties but that was pre-Gove.

That's where I learned, rather than primary school like others. I think we did it in Brownies or maybe Guides as well. I'm late 40s.

Youre not an idiot OP but it's appalling this is not taught now. You checked about an expensive tumble drier but I wonder how many smaller appliances are binned for this reason.

Icanttakethisanymore · 25/06/2025 06:17

Pinkdreams · 24/06/2025 23:43

and to add I’m 28 so I don’t think that it’s been taught in a while

I’m 40 and wasn’t taught how to change a plug in school. It’s not heard to work it out though op, you’ll be fine.

TimeForATerf · 25/06/2025 06:19

Three wires OP, bRown to the right bLue to the left (note the clue in the letters to help you remember) and the yellow/green which is the earth in the middle.

How to wire a plug - step by step guide with video

Easy step by step guide to rewiring a plug correctly. Find out how to wire a plug from a PAT testing expert who rewires plugs everyday.

https://www.draelectricals.co.uk/wire-plug/