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DP has just broke my dryer

266 replies

Pinkdreams · 24/06/2025 23:11

I asked DP to move the dryer whilst I clean under it as I spilt something, he couldn’t move it far enough so got annoyed and pulled it, which has now completely snapped the plug. I’m so angry. My dad says we can just change it ourselves, would you call an electrician?

OP posts:
Nanny0gg · 25/06/2025 00:58

Pinkdreams · 24/06/2025 23:35

Thank you everyone for confirming this can be done safely.

I am rather saddened by everyone’s response. I have never had a broken plug before, my dad has a tendency to do things with electrics that definitely require an electrician, hence why I asked for advice on here.

I was never taught at school or in brownies to change a plug, nor do I remember a time electricals were purchased without one. How would I possibly know something like this if I have never been taught, I do not appreciate people acting like I’m an idiot for not know something. Why can’t people use their knowledge to educate people instead of belittling and tearing them down.

I am in my 70s and I was never taught at school how to change a plug

And thankfully I now have no need to do it

IfYouPutASausageInItItsNotAViennetta · 25/06/2025 01:07

ContraryNoodle · 25/06/2025 00:36

Blimey that is pretty pathetic. I am not much older than OP and presumed that knowing that you can change a plug and how is really, really basic.

And how often do you find that you need to change/fit a plug?

I remember needing to do so frequently 25+ years ago; recently, not so much. We also didn't have smartphones with YouTube on them back then, so we could instantly find a reliable guide if we didn't know how to do it anyway.

Actually, I think, with the internet, people's worlds have become much, much bigger. We know that there is so much specialist information out there, and so many specialist skills, that there's no point in any one individual trying (and failing miserably) to learn everything.

What on earth would be the point nowadays in investing your time trying to learn 1,000 different little skills that you might possibly end up needing three of in any given decade, when you can grab something from your pocket, press a few buttons and have an expert guiding you through it within half a minute?

If older people criticise younger people for not knowing how to do something that has been largely obsolete for decades, surely they could just as easily counter that and mock the older folk for not even knowing how to do something as simple as using an internet search engine!

wandawaves · 25/06/2025 01:13

Pinkdreams · 24/06/2025 23:35

Thank you everyone for confirming this can be done safely.

I am rather saddened by everyone’s response. I have never had a broken plug before, my dad has a tendency to do things with electrics that definitely require an electrician, hence why I asked for advice on here.

I was never taught at school or in brownies to change a plug, nor do I remember a time electricals were purchased without one. How would I possibly know something like this if I have never been taught, I do not appreciate people acting like I’m an idiot for not know something. Why can’t people use their knowledge to educate people instead of belittling and tearing them down.

I'm with you OP, I have never ever heard of anyone rewiring their own plugs, and i would've thought it was an electrician job.
I'm not in the UK though, if that makes a difference.

Lubilu02 · 25/06/2025 01:18

I'd be the same as you don't worry, and as you mentioned, it is a much larger electrical item that will be using lot of power to run. So, of course you will want to know how to go about this safely (good on you!)

Me being me, and because of its size, i would just pay an electrician for peace of mind 😆 even if others said I could do it myself.

Be sure to check the sockets also, incase it was plugged in at the time.

FOJN · 25/06/2025 01:22

Mintsj · 24/06/2025 23:59

That is a very strange accident to have. I am quite confused as to which part is broken.

I thought that most supplied plugs on appliances these days are moulded shut so you can't rewire them.

Can you post a photo?

You can cut the plug off and strip a bit of the wire. You just need to make sure you use the right fuse in the new plug.

Noshadelamp · 25/06/2025 01:26

Wow why so rude and snotty especially @StMarie4me @PashaMinaMio @KatieDidIt @ContraryNoodle ?

Other pp have managed to reply and help op without being so condescending and downright rude.

How were you taught to change a plug but never taught manners?

I'm embarrassed for you

Funnywonder · 25/06/2025 01:30

Pringlesfordinner · 25/06/2025 00:45

Well I read this as a Scottish person where “tube” is an insult 😅

“Just change the plug, you tube!”

That made me laugh! I’m in NI and we always insulted each other as kids with ‘ya tube’🤣🤣 Haven’t heard it in years.

Cassieskinsismad · 25/06/2025 01:33

StMarie4me · 24/06/2025 23:14

You…. You don’t know how to change a plug? Your buy new for a broken plug?

Good grief.

It used to be taught in school, but for decades now every new appliance has been sold with a plug attached after they changed the law to make it so. It's not surprising people don't know how to change a plug or even that it's possible.

goingroundthebendatthisrate · 25/06/2025 01:34

wandawaves · 25/06/2025 01:13

I'm with you OP, I have never ever heard of anyone rewiring their own plugs, and i would've thought it was an electrician job.
I'm not in the UK though, if that makes a difference.

That makes a huge difference historically, as it was pretty much only the UK who ever had appliances sold without plugs as standard. There were two reasons for this, one being a consequence of another.

Initially, the UK had no standardization of plugs and wall sockets - until the 1940s, there were 2 different types of 2-pin plug and 3 different types of 3-pin plug, all of them round-pin, unfused, and each requiring their own size of socket. There was also another type of plug which allowed appliances to be connected to a light socket. Most homes had a mixture of all types of socket, but not always in the same room.

Therefore, any plug fitted to a new appliance by the manufacturer had a very good chance of not fitting into the socket of the customer, and added to which, even if it worked in one room, it may not have fitted the socket in another. Adaptors to overcome this (and to allow multiple appliances to be plugged in all at once) were everywhere.

In the 1940s, standardization began, with the arrival of the 3-pin fused plug, which had rectangular pins and a range of standards within the design which made it safer than ever. However, the plug itself was not inexpensive, and the culture of selling appliances without plugs continued, as it saved a lot of money on the cost of the plug and the labour fitting it, reducing the retail price of the appliance.

During the 1970s, it became increasingly popular for large appliances (such as kitchen appliances) to be supplied with plugs attached, similarly for high-end appliances such as vacuum cleaners from Miele and Vax (who initially sold a very expensive carpet cleaning system, unlike the cheap crap they peddle today). Also appliances that were exclusive to the Electricity Board showrooms had plugs, and some retailers who thought they were a cut above would too - I know Marks & Spencer table lamps had plugs fitted to them while British Home Stores didn't (although like so many retailers, they'd cheerfully sell you a new plug).

All this changed in 1995, after it was considered too many people were blowing themselves up when fitting plugs in a haphazard way, and from thereon in, all new appliances had to have factory fitted plugs as standard.

Hereforthekicks · 25/06/2025 01:50

Glad you got some good advice OP. Its the same as most things - only easy if you know. Don't let other people's rudeness put you off

wandawaves · 25/06/2025 01:52

@goingroundthebendatthisrate fascinating, I had no idea!

goingroundthebendatthisrate · 25/06/2025 01:53

wandawaves · 25/06/2025 01:52

@goingroundthebendatthisrate fascinating, I had no idea!

Thank you.

PyongyangKipperbang · 25/06/2025 02:06

@Pinkdreams have to say that my biggest issue is that you called it "my" dryer.

I assumed you meant hair dryer. But a tumble dryer is co-owned surely? If its yours then how so? Doesnt he do laundry?
If it needs cleaning under, why is it just you doing the cleaning?

I guess that you have been brought up with "blue" jobs and "pink" jobs? YOur name being a bit of a giveaway.

ETA that the only time I clean under any kitchen appliance is when the knackered one goes out of the house and I do a quick scrub before the next one goes in!

goingroundthebendatthisrate · 25/06/2025 02:09

PyongyangKipperbang · 25/06/2025 02:06

@Pinkdreams have to say that my biggest issue is that you called it "my" dryer.

I assumed you meant hair dryer. But a tumble dryer is co-owned surely? If its yours then how so? Doesnt he do laundry?
If it needs cleaning under, why is it just you doing the cleaning?

I guess that you have been brought up with "blue" jobs and "pink" jobs? YOur name being a bit of a giveaway.

ETA that the only time I clean under any kitchen appliance is when the knackered one goes out of the house and I do a quick scrub before the next one goes in!

Edited

I call my home my home, even though two of us live here and I didn't buy it. It's a figure of speech.

PyongyangKipperbang · 25/06/2025 02:26

goingroundthebendatthisrate · 25/06/2025 02:09

I call my home my home, even though two of us live here and I didn't buy it. It's a figure of speech.

Nope, not buying that.

My house/home, ok. But "my dryer" definitely indicates ownership of the laundry duties.

I now own my household appliances because I live alone, use them alone and pay for them. But when I was married it was "The" washer, dryer, whatever. Because it was simply a household item.

goingroundthebendatthisrate · 25/06/2025 02:28

PyongyangKipperbang · 25/06/2025 02:26

Nope, not buying that.

My house/home, ok. But "my dryer" definitely indicates ownership of the laundry duties.

I now own my household appliances because I live alone, use them alone and pay for them. But when I was married it was "The" washer, dryer, whatever. Because it was simply a household item.

As you wish.

Haley1997 · 25/06/2025 02:59

Don’t worry OP, I’m 27 and definitely never learned to change a plug at school. To be honest I had no idea that was something you could do!

I’m also a year 6 teacher … definitely nowhere on the primary curriculum as others have claimed!

Figcherry · 25/06/2025 03:02

Up until a few years ago my elderly dm was changing fuses on her consumer unit.

Topseyt123 · 25/06/2025 03:12

I'm 58. We were never taught this at school either so I think it was patchy at best, if/when it was covered.

I learned to do it from my Dad though. It isn't too difficult. Just remember the colour coding of the wires - blue = neutral, brown = live, green and yellow = earth. The terminals in the plug are marked. Also the fuse rating, which for a powerful appliance like a tumble dryer will be 13 amp.

It's not a skill that is needed so much anymore because things do now come with plugs already fitted (I actually always thought it was ridiculous that they were ever sold without them). It is still useful to know though.

nightvisiting · 25/06/2025 03:16

If it make you feel better OP, I have no idea how to change a plug. I've never needed to change a plug, I've never known any appliances that didn't come with the plug already attached and wired as part of it, we were never taught at school or by anyone. It's just never been anything I've had to think about.

ChocolateCinderToffee · 25/06/2025 04:30

Do watch some YouTube videos about how to put a plug on, OP. Although it’s fairly straightforward, you MUST fit the correct wire to the correct pin and keeping the wires inside the plug tidy and firmly anchored is essential. It might be a good idea to find someone IRL to show you if you can.

MojitosAllRound · 25/06/2025 04:47

PyongyangKipperbang · 25/06/2025 02:06

@Pinkdreams have to say that my biggest issue is that you called it "my" dryer.

I assumed you meant hair dryer. But a tumble dryer is co-owned surely? If its yours then how so? Doesnt he do laundry?
If it needs cleaning under, why is it just you doing the cleaning?

I guess that you have been brought up with "blue" jobs and "pink" jobs? YOur name being a bit of a giveaway.

ETA that the only time I clean under any kitchen appliance is when the knackered one goes out of the house and I do a quick scrub before the next one goes in!

Edited

You didn't 'have' to say it, you chose to. As an alternative way to put the boot in to the OP. You know nothing about their household, not even if they co-habit. She spilt something, she was cleaning up.

whynotmereally · 25/06/2025 04:50

Pinkdreams · 24/06/2025 23:35

Thank you everyone for confirming this can be done safely.

I am rather saddened by everyone’s response. I have never had a broken plug before, my dad has a tendency to do things with electrics that definitely require an electrician, hence why I asked for advice on here.

I was never taught at school or in brownies to change a plug, nor do I remember a time electricals were purchased without one. How would I possibly know something like this if I have never been taught, I do not appreciate people acting like I’m an idiot for not know something. Why can’t people use their knowledge to educate people instead of belittling and tearing them down.

Don’t worry I’m 49 and never have either!

whynotmereally · 25/06/2025 04:52

The concerning bit is your dp getting angry about moving the dryer and shoving it about. Is he always like this? Was he apologetic/looking for solutions to fix it?

BlockedItOut · 25/06/2025 04:55

ContraryNoodle · 25/06/2025 00:36

Blimey that is pretty pathetic. I am not much older than OP and presumed that knowing that you can change a plug and how is really, really basic.

So many nasty comments like this here. Are you normally like this when people ask for advice, or do you ever try and help them?

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