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DP has just broke my dryer

266 replies

Pinkdreams · 24/06/2025 23:11

I asked DP to move the dryer whilst I clean under it as I spilt something, he couldn’t move it far enough so got annoyed and pulled it, which has now completely snapped the plug. I’m so angry. My dad says we can just change it ourselves, would you call an electrician?

OP posts:
DustyTangerine · 25/06/2025 10:36

hororumandbrandy · 25/06/2025 10:30

I learned to do this as a child!

Your medal is in the post 🏅

goingroundthebendatthisrate · 25/06/2025 10:39

DustyTangerine · 25/06/2025 10:36

Your medal is in the post 🏅

😁

Needspaceforlego · 25/06/2025 12:28

MyHouseInThePrairie · 25/06/2025 09:02

Because you’re keeping those little bits of paper?!? 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

Electrician friend wasn't amused to find id left those card diagrams on my plugs

Needspaceforlego · 25/06/2025 12:31

God I've just remembered my parents reusing plugs. Buy new telly or whatever, take the plug of the old one!

Needspaceforlego · 25/06/2025 12:47

hororumandbrandy · 25/06/2025 10:30

I learned to do this as a child!

Showing your age there factory fitted plugs have been a thing for 30 years

4PawsandATail · 25/06/2025 12:59

My dad used to mess with electrics (one time he made the upstairs lights turn on in the living room and the kitchen turn on a bedroom light, it was chaos and he didn't know what he was doing but he did fix it!) and has often changed plugs (- he would always cut plugs off old appliances before getting rid of them which is something I ended up doing and then getting rid of because I never used them and then I needed one and had to buy one 🤦🏻‍♀️).

I'd never done it until last year, a plug was damaged when we moved and I was so proud of myself for changing it, if it wasn't for my dad then I'd have not known but I'd have looked online to see how to do it.

I don't think it's a bad thing that you had to ask if it was safe, many people didn't grow up being told how to do these things but you do know now!

Since your DH broke it I'd want to tell him to do it but honestly, I'd do it yourself so you know what you're doing next time you need to do this.

I will say though, at least for my plug, it was so fiddly that you need steady hands (which I struggle with) and non thick fingers (reason my husband could never do it 😅) and it did make my already short wire just a little bit shorter but it works at least!

I'm mid 30's and was never taught anything about plugs at school either and like I said, if not for my dad I'd have not known.

crumblingschools · 25/06/2025 12:59

@Needspaceforlego my parents used to do that too! But didn’t change electrical goods as often as we do nowadays

Irritatediron · 25/06/2025 13:30

Haggisfish3 · 24/06/2025 23:41

It has been on the school curriculum for decades. At least twenty five years.

Been a long time since you were in school then lol.

This is not in any national curriculum in the UK.

This post has just highlighted the absolute difference in age between those commenting and the OP.

DeskJotter · 25/06/2025 20:10

goingroundthebendatthisrate · 25/06/2025 08:44

There are lots of things we could just Google, so as to learn how to do it properly, such as when to use question marks.

That's not the burn you think it is. That was a question statement. Like, "You went into the shop?" Are you unfamiliar with this use of language?

goingroundthebendatthisrate · 25/06/2025 20:36

DeskJotter · 25/06/2025 20:10

That's not the burn you think it is. That was a question statement. Like, "You went into the shop?" Are you unfamiliar with this use of language?

Of course I am, it's the life-blood of people who post on Mumsnet. Not the "burn" indeed. 😂

LakieLady · 25/06/2025 20:40

DriveboyDogboy · 24/06/2025 23:13

An electrician to change a plug? No, I learned how to change a plug as a Brownie, anyone can do it! You Tube.

We learned how to do it in physics in the first year at secondary.

Mind you, that was in the days before appliances came with plugs already fitted. My nieces can't get their heads round the fact that you used to have to buy a plug and fit it every time you bought something electrical.

ETA: I still remember the mnemonic for which way round the wires go, too: BLue Bottom Left; BRown Bottom Right.

goingroundthebendatthisrate · 25/06/2025 20:46

LakieLady · 25/06/2025 20:40

We learned how to do it in physics in the first year at secondary.

Mind you, that was in the days before appliances came with plugs already fitted. My nieces can't get their heads round the fact that you used to have to buy a plug and fit it every time you bought something electrical.

ETA: I still remember the mnemonic for which way round the wires go, too: BLue Bottom Left; BRown Bottom Right.

Edited

Ah well, you didn't have to buy a new plug, that was the "fun" part, getting something home and then ransacking drawers & cupboards for an old plug that was kicking about, or failing that, robbing a plug off something else instead.

When I was very little, early 1980s, I remember my mum's iron broke, and she had to borrow one from a neighbour...she was still using the neighbour's iron after buying herself a new one, as she was waiting for my dad to take the plug off the old iron and put it on the new one. Funnily enough, the broken iron actually had a factory-fitted plug marked "Morphy Richards", as they'd gone through a phase of fitting plugs as a selling feature. They didn't do it for all that many years, as it was too expensive. Anyway, that plug was then fitted to the next iron, and the one after that, neither of which were Morphy Richards!

LakieLady · 25/06/2025 20:48

Negroany · 24/06/2025 23:44

Changing a socket is fine, I've done it - just be sure to turn off the mains first.

You don't need to turn off the mains to replace a broken plug, it's really easy, so you can just Google how and follow the instructions.

Yep, and it's easy to replace a light socket or wire in a new ceiling light, too. I've done both, in pre-internet days, with the help of the Reader's Digest DIY book.

Needspaceforlego · 25/06/2025 20:56

I remember hearing a horror story about a kid who'd got their hand on a plug with a bit flex attached (the man had obviously cut the flex so he'd have a spare plug) the kid was killed by putting the plug into a socket.

I have a funny feeling that might also have been part of the campaign to get factory fitted plugs so people wouldn't feel the need to remove plugs from appliances.

LakieLady · 25/06/2025 21:01

Ponderingwindow · 25/06/2025 05:00

This is a fascinating snapshot into uk culture. In the U.S. we are taught that diy and electricity do not mix. Plugs have never come separately either.

That's what electricians want you to believe. They probably make a lot of money from easy little jobs like changing a wall socket or a light fitting.

Pinkdreams · 25/06/2025 21:01

UPDATE

The dryer is now fixed, DP cut off the old plug and rewired a new one, unfortunately it’s now too small to reach the plug underneath my worktop where it’s hidden so we have to use the one above and just unplug it after every use. But most importantly I have my dryer.

Thank you to those of you who jumped in and was nice and sticking up for me. To those who weren’t, I hope you aren’t as horrible to your own children when they need your help.

OP posts:
TheAutumnCrow · 25/06/2025 21:01

PinkyBear · 24/06/2025 23:52

I reckon my Mum still will somewhere “just in case” 🤣

Yeah I’ve got ‘all the fuses in all the sizes’, as BT Beattie would say.

TheAutumnCrow · 25/06/2025 21:03

Pinkdreams · 25/06/2025 21:01

UPDATE

The dryer is now fixed, DP cut off the old plug and rewired a new one, unfortunately it’s now too small to reach the plug underneath my worktop where it’s hidden so we have to use the one above and just unplug it after every use. But most importantly I have my dryer.

Thank you to those of you who jumped in and was nice and sticking up for me. To those who weren’t, I hope you aren’t as horrible to your own children when they need your help.

Result! I feel like a need a diagram, OP! You know how MN loves a diagram …

goingroundthebendatthisrate · 25/06/2025 21:06

Needspaceforlego · 25/06/2025 20:56

I remember hearing a horror story about a kid who'd got their hand on a plug with a bit flex attached (the man had obviously cut the flex so he'd have a spare plug) the kid was killed by putting the plug into a socket.

I have a funny feeling that might also have been part of the campaign to get factory fitted plugs so people wouldn't feel the need to remove plugs from appliances.

I'm torn on whether that incident would have had impact on the change in legislation, given that factory fitted moulded plugs which are damaged or unsuitable to use have to be cut off...Whenever I've disposed of a moulded plug (and yes, it's rare) I've always bet the pins with pliers first, so that the plug couldn't be inserted into a socket.

Lynn Faulds-Wood and her Watchdog team were an integral part of getting the legislation changed...it took time, but they got there in the end. It has to be said though, the quality of 13 amp plugs has in some cases plummeted since it became mandatory to have a plug fitted on new appliances. It was always said that it added cost to the appliance, and as we know, the price of electrical goods has dropped as time has passed...savings had to be made somewhere.

Someonelookedatmypostinghistorysoichanged · 25/06/2025 21:35

No. A competent 10 year old could change a plug with instructions

Givenupshopping · 25/06/2025 21:45

KierEagan · 24/06/2025 23:19

I’m not sure a tumble dryer plug is as simple as a lamp or clock radio but it’s worth a try.

Of course it is! All plugs are the same, just make sure that you have the right fuse in the plug for the appliance you're using, which is likely a 13 amp.

Bjorkdidit · 25/06/2025 22:01

goingroundthebendatthisrate · 25/06/2025 20:46

Ah well, you didn't have to buy a new plug, that was the "fun" part, getting something home and then ransacking drawers & cupboards for an old plug that was kicking about, or failing that, robbing a plug off something else instead.

When I was very little, early 1980s, I remember my mum's iron broke, and she had to borrow one from a neighbour...she was still using the neighbour's iron after buying herself a new one, as she was waiting for my dad to take the plug off the old iron and put it on the new one. Funnily enough, the broken iron actually had a factory-fitted plug marked "Morphy Richards", as they'd gone through a phase of fitting plugs as a selling feature. They didn't do it for all that many years, as it was too expensive. Anyway, that plug was then fitted to the next iron, and the one after that, neither of which were Morphy Richards!

Exactly. And the same reason why phones, Kindles, tablets etc only come with USB cables and not plugs, because people always have spares available, so it's a resource reduction measure. What goes around, comes around.

RawBloomers · 26/06/2025 05:23

Bjorkdidit · 25/06/2025 22:01

Exactly. And the same reason why phones, Kindles, tablets etc only come with USB cables and not plugs, because people always have spares available, so it's a resource reduction measure. What goes around, comes around.

It wasn’t just cost reduction. Three pin sockets only came in just after WWII. For decades there was a mixture of two and three pin sockets in use. You couldn’t put a three pin plug in a two pin socket nor a two pin in a three pin socket. Selling appliances with plugs attached was not that convenient because it meant the appliance couldn’t be used by some households.

Bjorkdidit · 26/06/2025 06:12

I didn't say anything about reducing costs, but about not making a load of plugs that people don't need because they've already got spares.

Bagwyllydiart · 26/06/2025 06:36

I am 67 and school never taught me how to change a plug. Instead my Father taught me when I was 10. Changed dozens over the years.

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