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To find it strange to hang a fake flower wreath on your front door at the height of summer

115 replies

Buxusmortus · 23/06/2025 18:51

I have seen quite a few of these recently, in houses with actual front gardens.
It's the height of the flowering season, real flowers are everywhere, why on earth does a door need a fake flower wreath in summer?

I hate fake winter wreaths at Christmas but at least I can understand it more then, with bare gardens and trees and with it being more traditional to have a wreath at that time of year. Sometimes I make my own out of real foliage etc then or sometimes I don't bother with one.

A couple of people near me have had a fake flower one up since before Easter, surely they get dirty, dusty and faded, as well as looking generally crap.
It's a very strange thing.

Edited to say I accidentally appeared to have added a poll, did not intend to do that.

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RowsOfFlowers · 23/06/2025 22:27

Don’t understand the fake floral wreaths, and think they look tacky.

spoonbillstretford · 23/06/2025 22:29

Buxusmortus · 23/06/2025 22:22

I'm interested to know from the ones that have different seasonal ones, when did you start doing this and why? Because I've only seen anything other than a Christmas one in the past few years.
Do you feel that your front door doesn't look good without one?
I think a clean, maintained front door looks good on its own.

Some people think it's nice to mark different seasons and events throughout the year. Nothing wrong with that.

BatchCookBabe · 23/06/2025 22:29

I don't see what the problem is. People are probably doing it so that they get a wreath that lasts all summer.

tigger1001 · 23/06/2025 22:29

I make floral wreaths but for inside. I have one on my living room door and it changes with the seasons. They bring me joy.

weareallqueens · 23/06/2025 22:29

I don’t have one but I like them. I often covet other people’s. I saw a gorgeous babies’ breath one the other day that looked too perfect to be real.

PatChaunceysFruitCake · 23/06/2025 22:29

I can’t get worked up over it. It seems harmless to me.

businessflop25 · 23/06/2025 22:30

I don’t have a wreath but I work with someone who has a lot of artificial flowers and changes up her arrangements in the house regularly. They look real unless you are really close to them. She loves having flowers in her house but cannot have real ones due to horrendous hayfever and asthma.

BeamMeUpCountMeIn · 23/06/2025 22:30

Yanbu. Fake flowers give me the willies. Creepy, dusty things.

Pickingmyselfup · 23/06/2025 22:31

Are they not practical? My flowers in a vase with water die after 2 weeks so how would a wreath work with real flowers? Would it not need replacing constantly over the summer? Get a fake one, it lasts all summer and the summer after that until it falls off in the wind one day and breaks like my Christmas one did 😭😭

I like all of them, brightens up a boring door. I love hanging baskets too and I'm thinking about getting fake ones because I'm terrible at watering the real ones so they die and look even worse.

steff13 · 23/06/2025 22:31

Foreverm0re · 23/06/2025 22:22

An annoying American thing we seem to have adopted over here.

Decorative wreaths originated in ancient Greece. Just because you don't like something doesn't mean it's automatically American.

BatchCookBabe · 23/06/2025 22:32

BeamMeUpCountMeIn · 23/06/2025 22:30

Yanbu. Fake flowers give me the willies. Creepy, dusty things.

They won't collect dust on the outside door.

HopingForTheBest25 · 23/06/2025 22:32

I have a heart shaped pink plastic one - I think it's pretty and I don't gaf if you don't like it.
The only people who have to like our houses are the ones living in it!

Buxusmortus · 23/06/2025 22:32

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 23/06/2025 22:20

Whether or not you like fake flower wreaths, I don't see what the fact that there are real flowers around in summer has to do with anything. They don't make your door look nice. If you had a holly tree in your garden, would that stop you putting a Christmas wreath up?

The fact that there are loads of real flowers around seems to me to be relevant as it makes having additional plastic flowers on the door extraneous and jarring.
I do have 3 holly trees in fact, and as I said, I do sometimes make a real Christmas wreath. But at that time of year gardens are pretty bare and the weather is gloomy, so it can be nice to have something festive outside.
But in summer, where there's real floral abundance everywhere, a plastic door wreath doesn't seem to make anything look nicer or better, in my opinion.

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Tiddlywinksrus · 23/06/2025 22:33

Some people are just into stuff like this. Personally can't be bothered but if ai had the time maybe I would think about this.
Assume the same people also have seasonal airfreshners, use scented dryer sheets and use zoflora every day. Some people are just into homey stuff like this I guess and if thats their thing then great as it obviously just makes them happy!
Its not my thing for many reasons but some people just like it

Buxusmortus · 23/06/2025 22:34

myplace · 23/06/2025 22:24

It’s the crochet doll loo roll cover of our time

You've nailed it!

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Missj25 · 23/06/2025 22:36

Buxusmortus · 23/06/2025 22:22

I'm interested to know from the ones that have different seasonal ones, when did you start doing this and why? Because I've only seen anything other than a Christmas one in the past few years.
Do you feel that your front door doesn't look good without one?
I think a clean, maintained front door looks good on its own.

I think they’re pretty on doors & make a house look cheery & welcoming, beats the hell out of “ Beware of dog “ on some doors ! !

Cheesyfootballs01 · 23/06/2025 22:36

Buxusmortus · 23/06/2025 22:32

The fact that there are loads of real flowers around seems to me to be relevant as it makes having additional plastic flowers on the door extraneous and jarring.
I do have 3 holly trees in fact, and as I said, I do sometimes make a real Christmas wreath. But at that time of year gardens are pretty bare and the weather is gloomy, so it can be nice to have something festive outside.
But in summer, where there's real floral abundance everywhere, a plastic door wreath doesn't seem to make anything look nicer or better, in my opinion.

But surely you understand that making a wreath out of real flowers would only last a few days?? Especially in the heat.

Also why do you care? People can decorate their property however they see fit.

I bet you feel the same about people who use seasonal decor inside their houses too…

Buxusmortus · 23/06/2025 22:38

BatchCookBabe · 23/06/2025 22:32

They won't collect dust on the outside door.

Edited

I doubt that can be true. Doors get dusty outside, the same as cars, garden furniture etc, so something hanging on the door would too.

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MojitosAllRound · 23/06/2025 22:38

I deliver leaflets door to door. You can tell a lot about a neighbourhood based on the door decorations or absence of them.

Aweecupofteaandabiscuit · 23/06/2025 22:39

Buxusmortus · 23/06/2025 22:22

I'm interested to know from the ones that have different seasonal ones, when did you start doing this and why? Because I've only seen anything other than a Christmas one in the past few years.
Do you feel that your front door doesn't look good without one?
I think a clean, maintained front door looks good on its own.

I started doing it when we moved into a new build with a front door that looks like No. 10. Black, shiny, blah.
Our old house had a gorgeous teal coloured door with patterned glass panels, which we chose after the horrendous old door we inherited gave up the ghost. It it was a fab door. It only ever hosted the witch and the holly.

macaronisaidshetlandpony · 23/06/2025 22:42

I have a wreath my door that I made using grasses, seed heads and dried flowers. It’s kind of neutral and yellow. It looks really sweet. I don’t ever
buy plastic fake flowers or wreaths but I do think wreaths can look lovely in any season. I prefer mine homemade though.

NowStartAgain · 23/06/2025 22:43

I have one, it’s a heart shape with pink plastic flowers 🌸 all around. I never would have bought myself such a thing but my DD spent her pocket money on it for my birthday. She was so sweet giving it to me and so excited I may well just keep it there forever.

That is why I have mine!

Buxusmortus · 23/06/2025 22:47

Cheesyfootballs01 · 23/06/2025 22:36

But surely you understand that making a wreath out of real flowers would only last a few days?? Especially in the heat.

Also why do you care? People can decorate their property however they see fit.

I bet you feel the same about people who use seasonal decor inside their houses too…

I just don't see why anyone would want have one in the summer anyway. No one ever did till a few years ago then the plastic ones started to appear.
Of course people can do what they like with their houses, I've seen some ghastly exteriors as well as attractive ones.
Indoors, if you mean a real Christmas tree, a real garland, a pumpkin, or some vases of real flowers, that's lovely, but houses with light up reindeer, blow up Santas that are like a deflated balloon in the daytime or houses full of skeletons or skulls at Halloween, well that's another matter.
I do realise all this is a matter of taste which of course is so subjective.
Everyone presumably thinks they have great taste, but others may view their decor as irredeemably naff.

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mumzof4x · 23/06/2025 22:51

I learned to crochet when I gave up alcohol and I crochet flowers and butterflies to go around mine i love it. Wouldn’t have thought anyone walking past would particularly notice though because it’s mine Confused

Ophy83 · 23/06/2025 22:53

I've got one from here...

https://www.notonthehighstreet.com/partners/pippadesigns/products

made from moss and twigs with silk flowers

I got it a few years ago, store it in a box in the cupboard during winter, give it a spray with hairspray and it is good as new. It looks pretty and cheers me up as I walk up the front path to my door. A wreath with fresh flowers wouldn't last long.

Pippa Designs

https://www.notonthehighstreet.com/partners/pippadesigns/products