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To think gestation outside the body is a fab idea

184 replies

Allotmentblackfly · 23/06/2025 18:47

Recent research makes the possibility of gestating a baby outside a woman’s body possible. Do we think this is a good idea or not?

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EmeraldShamrock000 · 24/06/2025 00:57

No, definitely not.
There is nothing natural about it and I'd imagine that it would have a big impact on the babies development and later stages.

ohfook · 24/06/2025 05:24

I think the whole process of growing a life inside of you is as close as you’ll get to a miracle in a pretty mundane world. As hard as I found pregnancy I wouldn’t give away the privilege that comes with my own own body growing and carrying my babies and the comfort they get from being the only person they truly know from their first day of life.

knowing what we do about infant attachment I think it would be hugely unethical to pursue in the respect of saving people the job of being pregnant but the technology, if/when it exists, could have practical applications to improve prospects for preemies.

Missey85 · 24/06/2025 06:04

ExitPursuedByABare · 23/06/2025 18:55

How lovely. They can be grown in a laboratory.

🙄

Would you say that to someone using IVF to get pregnant?

Greyskies92 · 24/06/2025 06:50

Missey85 · 24/06/2025 06:04

Would you say that to someone using IVF to get pregnant?

What point are you trying to make? This doesn't seem as relevant as you believe it is, this is an online thread on a discussion board, not going up to someone with a seeming intent to wound, as far as we know nobody has been fully gestated in vitro yet - a very premature baby is far closer to what's described here, some infants already are gestated 50% outside a human body. So it seems like an odd remark. However, it may be also that you want to highlight that IVF was the very start of these reproductive technologies that may be regarded as a very slippery slope.

I'm heartened to read the disgust on the first few pages of this thread. When this technology becomes available, there will be an enormous campaign to manufacture consent for this, "feminists" will be at the forefront, and it will be a hate crime against any individual gestated this way to criticise this rubicon in human development.

NarnianQueen · 24/06/2025 07:05

I wonder what implications there would be from the baby not hearing their mothers voice (or anyone’s!) for the months before birth? Would it affect bonding?

SeriouslyStressed · 24/06/2025 07:07

Do you actually believe that respect for women would increase if they didn’t gestate? That seems incredibly naïve
Just look at how easy access to violent porn is affecting the treatment of young girls in secondary schools. Those boys will not respect the girls more if they don’t gestate.
Misogyny is too deeply entrenched in society to be erased by one technological “development”.

cheesycheesy · 24/06/2025 07:25

NarnianQueen · 24/06/2025 07:05

I wonder what implications there would be from the baby not hearing their mothers voice (or anyone’s!) for the months before birth? Would it affect bonding?

Oh op thinks a recording of a voice will suffice

cheesycheesy · 24/06/2025 07:30

Op sounds like some mad scientist. Sorry for you op but it doesn’t look like you’ll get to see it in your lifetime. The film “The Assessment” doesnt go into the science of a future like this but it does highlight how depressing it could be.

BelfastBard · 24/06/2025 15:03

No. It’s an utterly dreadful idea. Attachment doesn’t just happen once a baby is born. There’s no ethical way to find out what damage gestation outside the body would cause to the developing brain.

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ChoccieCornflake · 24/06/2025 17:51

That article doesn't say what you put in the OP. It is talking about use from ~20 weeks, which is not even remotely close to full gestation. It's also a journalistic article, not a peer-reviewed publication, so not exactly reliable.

Basically, the guardian wrote an article as click-bait, and it worked.

[edit for typo]

Allotmentblackfly · 24/06/2025 18:52

ChoccieCornflake · 24/06/2025 17:51

That article doesn't say what you put in the OP. It is talking about use from ~20 weeks, which is not even remotely close to full gestation. It's also a journalistic article, not a peer-reviewed publication, so not exactly reliable.

Basically, the guardian wrote an article as click-bait, and it worked.

[edit for typo]

Edited

yes, it talks about later gestation, but if you read on, it also talks about extragenesis the entirety of the pregnancy as a future possibility. Interestingly, the doctor interviewed in the article refers to childbirth as barbaric. I'm afraid my experiences as a student made me feel the same. Hence my long lasting interest in the subject. Its not the article I began the thread with. I just came across it today. I'm surprised by the hostility my post has brought up. But hey ho. There it is.

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ChoccieCornflake · 24/06/2025 19:01

Anything is a future possibilty. Does not mean anything will come if it. I would file this firmly in the "not in my lifetime" category

Allotmentblackfly · 24/06/2025 19:04

ChoccieCornflake · 24/06/2025 19:01

Anything is a future possibilty. Does not mean anything will come if it. I would file this firmly in the "not in my lifetime" category

Lol. You are probably right.

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ChiefCakeTestertoMaryBerry · 24/06/2025 19:06

Have you read Sex Robots and Vegan Meat by Jenny Kleeman? It has a chapter on this.

ShiningStar3 · 24/06/2025 19:08

If we take away the dystopian aspect aside, I can see how some might view this as a win for women's autonomy (no need to go through the risks of pregnancy and labour) but the cynic in me is just imagining social services forcibly removing women's fetuses, or abortion being banned entirely since 'women don't even need to get pregnant anymore, she knew the risks!'

I'll put my tinfoil hat away now..

Pinkissmart · 24/06/2025 20:36

Motomum23 · 23/06/2025 18:48

Unethical and abhorrent

Nailed it

Allotmentblackfly · 24/06/2025 21:05

ChiefCakeTestertoMaryBerry · 24/06/2025 19:06

Have you read Sex Robots and Vegan Meat by Jenny Kleeman? It has a chapter on this.

No. I’ll search it out. Thanks

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MotherOfCrocodiles · 24/06/2025 21:56

I would 100% have taken this option if it had been available for my pregnancies, which I hated. I fondly imagine the foetus growing in a sac in the airing cupboard.

genuinely it would be a game changer for equality if this were possible

MotherOfCrocodiles · 24/06/2025 21:58

Hm I see people are saying this is a “mad scientist” idea. Makes sense as I am a scientist and quite possibly mad.

Allotmentblackfly · 24/06/2025 22:15

MotherOfCrocodiles · 24/06/2025 21:56

I would 100% have taken this option if it had been available for my pregnancies, which I hated. I fondly imagine the foetus growing in a sac in the airing cupboard.

genuinely it would be a game changer for equality if this were possible

airing cupboard??
id have it in the living room
but i agree it would be great😊

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Allotmentblackfly · 24/06/2025 22:17

MotherOfCrocodiles · 24/06/2025 21:58

Hm I see people are saying this is a “mad scientist” idea. Makes sense as I am a scientist and quite possibly mad.

Lots of new ideas are not welcomed initially
i think I remember reading that there used to be anxiety about women travelling by train

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Allotmentblackfly · 24/06/2025 22:17

MotherOfCrocodiles · 24/06/2025 21:58

Hm I see people are saying this is a “mad scientist” idea. Makes sense as I am a scientist and quite possibly mad.

lol. Me too😊😊😊

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CeliaInside · 24/06/2025 22:26

If it ever were possible to choose to have a baby like this, it would obviously cost a small fortune and therefore only be available to very wealthy people.
Even for say a couple of dozen babies, imagine the facilities and highly trained medical staff that would be required to constantly monitor these babies. If they needed medical intervention, that would require a whole new branch of medical care.
These would be human lives (not to get all DrMyCoy from Star Trek about it) - the stakes would be massively high and so would clinical standards have to be.
Apart from the ethical issues, the legal side of things would be an absolute nightmare - way more so than surrogacy even.
There may still be huge medical breakthroughs in preventing/ treating some of the results of childbearing you have mentioned so this might not be as much of a consideration in the future anyway.

Hoardasurass · 24/06/2025 22:42

Allotmentblackfly · 23/06/2025 22:24

Maybe you are right and our reproductive power is a source of strength. To be fair if women did not have to child bear, what would be the use of two sexes at all!!!! Especially if they can make gametes from skin cells - another thing that they are working on.

That's impossible and will never happen.
You really need to step away from the sci fi asap