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AIBU?

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To think some teachers are getting away with all sorts with no way of challenging them??

303 replies

RedEyePen · 18/06/2025 17:58

Mainly SLT! So today my ‘high needs’ son who the school tried to off roll had a head bump. On the way back from A and E I bumped into the Head getting her weekly shop in the supermarket. During school time. She didn’t seem stressed at all! Just getting her shopping in. V happy to interrogate my son as to why he wasn’t in school. Head and non teaching SENCO are always in the playground chatting every morning, yet can’t do any of my son’s paperwork without - at worst - an 8 months delay because they are ‘snowed under’.
I also work in a school where planning meetings, courses, computer based admin trumps : actually attending to the children’s needs.
AIBU??

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Crinkleybottomburger · 18/06/2025 19:48

Why don’t you home school your high needs DS?

RedEyePen · 18/06/2025 19:49

I have taught. I went to the shop very, very occasionally at lunchtime. Never during the hours that I was supposed to be teaching,

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JimmyGrimble · 18/06/2025 19:50

RedEyePen · 18/06/2025 19:36

Yet I’m paid about a twentieth of what she gets paid!

There’s the nub of it. Are you responsible for the wellbeing and educational progress of every child in your school? She is. Are you responsible for the wellbeing, standards and discipline of every member of staff? She is. Do you have to liase with multiple agencies weekly on child protection? She does. Do you manage multimillion pound budgets? She does. And after all this. If your school ‘fails’ it’s OFSTED do you get the heave ho? She does.
You’re not a teacher are you? Only a non teacher would come out with this bollocks. Yes, support staff are badly paid but teachers are responsible for planning, data, reports, progress etc. My TA leaves a 3.45. I’m still there at 6pm sometimes and taking work home.
I agree with other posters. Don’t like the school? Leave and try another.

RedEyePen · 18/06/2025 19:51

I don’t think he is high needs. Neither do the Local Authority or paediatrician. Head likes to call him high needs so she can get more money from the Local Authority.

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Soontobe60 · 18/06/2025 19:51

NewLifter · 18/06/2025 18:46

There's a big difference between 'organising your time' and heading out of school to buy groceries, going home and putting them etc 😂 I'm sorry, but that's absolutely not normal or acceptable. I'm not saying this even happened, I'm just saying let's not pretend it's OK if it did.

In my school teachers are allowed to have their PPA offsite because we are professionals. We can do what we want during those 2.5 hours - go to lunch, get a smear test, do the big shop… as long as the planning gets done at some point, we get to choose.

JimmyGrimble · 18/06/2025 19:52

Oh I see you were a teacher? Why aren’t you a teacher any more?

CandyCane457 · 18/06/2025 19:52

RedEyePen · 18/06/2025 19:35

Exactly! If I went up to my boss and said - I’m just off to the shops for a bit, I’d be slaughtered!

Are you not allowed a lunch break at work where you can pop to the shops? I imagine this is what she was doing. Our Head has her lunch break at all different random times of the day depending on meetings etc. You can’t be mad at someone for having a break during their working day, surely?

Thewholebloodylot · 18/06/2025 19:52

RedEyePen · 18/06/2025 18:46

Hmm. I don’t know why teachers are so ‘protected’ - do they never, ever, ever do questionable things? Other professions potentially skive and shirk. But never teachers….

Mumsnet has a permanent boner for teachers.

Soontobe60 · 18/06/2025 19:53

RedEyePen · 18/06/2025 18:48

TBH I see an Animal Farm mentality in a lot of schools. TA’s do the brunt of the hard work while the Heads are in a shop!

Don’t be so ridiculous.

Plantladylover · 18/06/2025 19:53

Bloody endless.

Will some parents be happy when all the teachers retire and no one else wants to qualify and work in teaching because of the bloody awful parents.

MagdaLenor · 18/06/2025 19:53

MemorableTrenchcoat · 18/06/2025 18:16

Yay, another teacher-bashing thread.

Yes, very tedious....

Fetaface · 18/06/2025 19:53

Sadmummy3 · 18/06/2025 19:27

Yeah I've never had a job where I can just wander off and do my shopping.
Would she have done that if Ofsted were visiting?

Nope she wouldn't because when Ofsted are in no teachers get a dinner break. It breaks all employment laws when it comes to Ofsted. They are interviewed during their breaks and lunch and are interviewed before school and after school.

Is it acceptable to break employment law because it is Ofsted?

PathOfLeastResitance · 18/06/2025 19:53

Just move schools. You clearly don’t like this one. Spread your joy elsewhere, it’s not fair for only one school to experience some time with you.

Wafflesandsyrup · 18/06/2025 19:54

If she was trying to 'off roll' him surely she'd do his paperwork ASAP!? You have a problem with the school so take your son out. Baffles me when parents who seem to hate a school so much insist on their children attending and just moan the entire time about the school 🙄

MagdaLenor · 18/06/2025 19:55

RedEyePen · 18/06/2025 19:49

I have taught. I went to the shop very, very occasionally at lunchtime. Never during the hours that I was supposed to be teaching,

How do you know she was supposed to be teaching?

RedEyePen · 18/06/2025 19:55

I do work in a school but part time.

I work in different school where I’m constantly busy and with the children whereas SLT are mainly chatting, in ‘planning meetings’, late, minimal interaction with children and very possibly at the shops if not on site.

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Soontobe60 · 18/06/2025 19:55

Sadmummy3 · 18/06/2025 19:27

Yeah I've never had a job where I can just wander off and do my shopping.
Would she have done that if Ofsted were visiting?

No, she would more than likely have been up all night the day before the visit, and been incredibly stressed. Did you hear about the Head who killed herself following a brutal Ofsted?

NewLifter · 18/06/2025 19:56

I am really shocked at so many thinking this is OK. Surely heads need to be available and present on site? I'm a clinical manager in the NHS which would be a similar level of responsibility and I would never just wander off to the shops and leave the unit to it.

Yes I do work in my own time too but that doesn't make it OK to just head off and do what I like during the day.

I find it really worrying that so many find this acceptable!

meltingtoday · 18/06/2025 19:57

Hmmm

Honestly? I do think this can be the case sometimes. Headteachers aren’t really answerable to many people (unless results plummet) and OFSTED are infrequent enough to not be a day to day concern.

I have worked in schools with completely mad heads though!

RedEyePen · 18/06/2025 19:58

@NewLifter

Agree! I think if most people saw what happened in schools they would be absolutely shocked. There is an incredible amount of shirking that goes on, while a good honest few are working their fingers to the bone with no credit.

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MagdaLenor · 18/06/2025 19:59

RedEyePen · 18/06/2025 19:55

I do work in a school but part time.

I work in different school where I’m constantly busy and with the children whereas SLT are mainly chatting, in ‘planning meetings’, late, minimal interaction with children and very possibly at the shops if not on site.

Why don't you have some extra training and apply for an SLT job? If it's so cushy and well paid?
If they do nothing, why are there SLT shortages, and why is it so hard to fill headteacher vacancies?

RedEyePen · 18/06/2025 20:00

It is actually incredibly difficult to challenge a Head - and if OFSTED turn up, many are very good at hiding the crap and making everything look rosy,

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MagdaLenor · 18/06/2025 20:00

NewLifter · 18/06/2025 19:56

I am really shocked at so many thinking this is OK. Surely heads need to be available and present on site? I'm a clinical manager in the NHS which would be a similar level of responsibility and I would never just wander off to the shops and leave the unit to it.

Yes I do work in my own time too but that doesn't make it OK to just head off and do what I like during the day.

I find it really worrying that so many find this acceptable!

Don't worry. They're always on site. Plus putting in long hours and doing their job in a professional manner.

JimmyGrimble · 18/06/2025 20:01

RedEyePen · 18/06/2025 19:55

I do work in a school but part time.

I work in different school where I’m constantly busy and with the children whereas SLT are mainly chatting, in ‘planning meetings’, late, minimal interaction with children and very possibly at the shops if not on site.

You sound absolutely ridiculous. Being a member of SLT is a lot of responsibility and a lot of work and they often have to teach at the same time. I’m guessing you’re support staff and feel hard done to because you’re ’always with the children’. Being with the children and actually teaching is often the easiest part of the job!

RedEyePen · 18/06/2025 20:01

I think in most cases, SLT get to their position by bullying behaviour. I’d rather be with the children.

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