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Abortion decriminalisation - how the far right will use it?

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Movingdream · 18/06/2025 08:35

I think the parliament made the right decision yesterday to decriminalise abortion. This means women won’t be investigated for late miscarriages and stillbirths, which must just feel like one trauma after another.

The 24 week limit remains in place and you would still only see doctors performing later abortions due to medical issues. As people on here know, the vast majority of abortions take place before 12 weeks and the few that don’t, normally are performed due to a medical issue for mother or baby. After 24 weeks, a woman would have to self induce an abortion for non medical reasons as doctors wouldn’t perform it, which would pretty much be labour, how would a woman even do this?

But ‘the UK has legalised abortion up until birth’ is the soundbite I keep seeing from the fundamentalist right wing types. This isn’t true. It worries me though because they’ll run with it and I’m concerned things swing the other way.

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EasternStandard · 18/06/2025 11:55

hydriotaphia · 18/06/2025 11:46

@EasternStandard yes, I am also concerned that given how this is a recent innovation there have not really been any studies of how common it is to misuse abortion medicine accessed online. There are a lot of comments on here saying that illegal post-24 week abortions are super rare, which I am sure they must have been pre-telemedicine. But prosecutions for late term abortions have apparently spiked recently and it seems possible that this is because of an increase in abuse of these medicines. If so, there needs to be something in place to mitigate that. It doesn't have to be the criminal law but I would like to see some safeguard or even just some evidence that this issue has been considered. Just assuming that no women ever are going to misuse remotely prescribed abortion drugs, with no data to back this up seems crazy to me. Hopefully the House of Lords will raise this point and send it back to the Commons.

Absolutely. The intention wasn’t there when the medication was approved. There’s very little on the consequences of telemedicine which we only have due to a novel event.

EasternStandard · 18/06/2025 12:05

PandoraSocks · 18/06/2025 11:45

The law in this case was not fit for purpose and for some reason, over the past couple of years, was being used to hound women. Prior to the last couple of years there had only been 3 convictions under it since 1861.

Decriminalisation brings England and Wales into line with other parts of the UK (NI), Ireland, France, Canada, Australia, New Zealand.

Edited

What is the process in those countries?

On googling one has

The process of having an abortion

The health professionals at the service you attend will need to ensure you are fully informed about:

the procedure
the risks
pain relief for medication abortion
anaesthesia options for surgical abortion
pre- and post-abortion support.

So not the same access to here? That’s Victoria, Aus

It’s the access that’s different

TooBigForMyBoots · 18/06/2025 12:21

This legistlation will bring the rest of the UK to where NI is. In NI abortion is already decriminalised.

The hyperbole around this legistlation is ignorant and misogynist.

MrsSkylerWhite · 18/06/2025 12:25

cryptide · 18/06/2025 10:23

In that case it's anecdotal and really a bit irresponsible.

I would imagine the head of the professional body would have insight, much more so than any posters. Presumably also statistics but he was hardly going to go into them in a 5 minute interview, shared by a person with an opposing view.

PandoraSocks · 18/06/2025 12:31

EasternStandard · 18/06/2025 12:05

What is the process in those countries?

On googling one has

The process of having an abortion

The health professionals at the service you attend will need to ensure you are fully informed about:

the procedure
the risks
pain relief for medication abortion
anaesthesia options for surgical abortion
pre- and post-abortion support.

So not the same access to here? That’s Victoria, Aus

It’s the access that’s different

Australia has abortion by telehealth up to 9 weeks, so similar to UK 10 weeks limit. But it seems an ultrasound is required.

https://www.msiaustralia.org.au/abortion-by-telehealth-services/

So yes, different process. But still decriminalised, which was my point.

Teleabortion Australia | Medical Abortion By Telehealth - MSI

Our abortion by telehealth service provides a safe and private way to have a medical abortion, in the privacy of your own home with support over the phone.

https://www.msiaustralia.org.au/abortion-by-telehealth-services

EasternStandard · 18/06/2025 12:32

TooBigForMyBoots · 18/06/2025 12:21

This legistlation will bring the rest of the UK to where NI is. In NI abortion is already decriminalised.

The hyperbole around this legistlation is ignorant and misogynist.

It’s not ‘ignorant’ nor misogynist to look at why we’re here and the initial process set up with medication and in person support. As other countries have.

hydriotaphia · 18/06/2025 12:32

@TooBigForMyBoots Pills by post are not and have never been available in NI though. I do not agree that it is misogynist to query how the law will be enforced in the absence of criminal sanction.

EasternStandard · 18/06/2025 12:36

hydriotaphia · 18/06/2025 12:32

@TooBigForMyBoots Pills by post are not and have never been available in NI though. I do not agree that it is misogynist to query how the law will be enforced in the absence of criminal sanction.

Are we the only country with this set up do you know?

Someone mentioned Aus and I’ve put the process below.

hydriotaphia · 18/06/2025 12:39

Not sure @EasternStandard
I do feel this is something that should have been considered in the HoC debate.

EasternStandard · 18/06/2025 12:40

PandoraSocks · 18/06/2025 12:31

Australia has abortion by telehealth up to 9 weeks, so similar to UK 10 weeks limit. But it seems an ultrasound is required.

https://www.msiaustralia.org.au/abortion-by-telehealth-services/

So yes, different process. But still decriminalised, which was my point.

Ok so much better guardrails than here which is the point.

The issue is the process and access, it wasn’t intended at set up and so far no other country has been identified as having a system without a process that prevents late term use.

Katypp · 18/06/2025 13:58

HeadbandUnited · 18/06/2025 10:01

Greater openness about the profile of the sort of women who might seek a late term abortion or perform one on themselves is what we need, and I think decriminalisation can be the conduit for that by making it a real conversation with and by the medical community and organisations which provide support to women in these sorts of circumstances,

OK, let's do that then. I think that this is an example of a woman who might do something like a late term abortion, so she could sell the body parts: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c39v27p0mwyo. What support do you think that we should offer her? She wouldn't be going to jail anymore.

The absolute insistence that women are not capable of acting for any purposes that are not pure and virtuous is staggering. Feminism is the radical notion that women are people, which means that women cover the whole spectrum of personhood, from the highly virtuous to the utterly immoral. 30 million women in this country. Some of those women will be entirely capable of terminating late pregnancies for reasons entirely unrelated to tragic circumstances - perhaps to get revenge on the father after they have discovered infidelity. Perhaps because they have met a new partner who does not want the baggage of another man's baby. Anyone remember that woman who was 20 weeks pregnant and said she'd terminate the pregnancy in order to get on Love Island? Don't think being 35 weeks instead of 20 would have deterred her. This fetishisation of women's moral purity really has to stop, it isn't feminism.

I wholeheartedly agree with this.
My generation fought for true equality between the sexes, not what we have now, which is a situation where no woman is ever responsible for anything negative, ever.
I read on this on here a few weeks ago and it has stayed with me: Every woman in prison in the UK is there because of a man.
Women are responsible for their own actions just the way men are - I don't want special treatment, justification and excuses made for my sex, thanks.
I can look after myself and don't need the massive industry that has built up justifying everything women do and blaming men for all that is bad in the world.
There are weak women the same as there are weak men. The latter would be told they need to step up and grow a pair. As should the former.

MyHouseInThePrairie · 18/06/2025 16:16

The problem has never been the fact some women will seek very late abortions. Some will. Just like some women are cold hearted murderers.

The change in law came for another reason. And it’s to protect all the women who ended up in prison (preventively), who has their chikdren out into care months if not years. All that fur 3 women to have been found guilty of unlawful abortions.
This change is about recognising the hurt the curent law was doing on innocent women and their children.

You migut want a law to condemn those women seeking very late abortions. But do you really want a law that will apply to about so very few people? Do you want a law that it’ll carry on harming many many more women at the same time?
Theres a reason why the gynaecologists body asked for the change. They saw the impact first hand.
So shall we talked about those women whose life was shattered because of an antiquated law instead? Shall we talk about the children that ended up in foster care? And the life long impact it has had in them (and I’m sure they won’t have hit a support to recover from that either. It was ‘for their own good’ you see. They should be grateful) Because so far these are victims that we know well. And there are many of them around.

UsernameMcUsername · 18/06/2025 16:50

I'm pretty anti-abortion and I don't think there's a snowball's chance in hell of the UK increasing restrictions. That's just a bogeyman. Nor do I think the nearest we have to a 'Far Right' political party (Reform) is going to die on that particular hill. Farage didn't even bother to vote. If anything I think there will be further liberalisation. Prioritising individual bodily autonomy over other ethical considerations logically implies offering abortion up to birth.
I expect we'll move that way over the next decade or two.

TooBigForMyBoots · 18/06/2025 17:26

I think by the time of the next election this will be a non-issue for most people. Like gay marriage is a non-issue for most people despite all the hand wringing that went on at the time.

Genevieva · 18/06/2025 17:34

user1471516498 · 18/06/2025 08:45

People will run with a vision of women doing horrific DIY abortions, whereas in reality, it just means women can't be arrested for stillbirths, or for taking the abortion pill and getting their dates wrong.

Neither of these were problems for decades. If the letter of the law had been followed, incidents like this would never happen. I do worry that vulnerable women later in pregnancy will now be coerced into illegal abortions they don’t want on the grounds that it is not illegal.

EasternStandard · 18/06/2025 18:05

TooBigForMyBoots · 18/06/2025 17:26

I think by the time of the next election this will be a non-issue for most people. Like gay marriage is a non-issue for most people despite all the hand wringing that went on at the time.

Why do you want to remove all process to support women and just have accessible tele medication? We’re the only ones it seems to want this.

Other countries determine term stage first and have healthcare interaction. Eg in pp re Aus. Sounds like a good balance.

JHound · 18/06/2025 18:08

EasternStandard · 18/06/2025 10:34

Do you think there should be no controls on access to the medication? As currently seems to be the case.

All medicine should have the right level of access controls related to the risk of that medication.

EasternStandard · 18/06/2025 18:15

JHound · 18/06/2025 18:08

All medicine should have the right level of access controls related to the risk of that medication.

What would you say is right level for this?

Initially there were controls and we’re only here due to Covid which wasn’t a planned part of this medication access.

Other countries seem to have not just allowed access without support.

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