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Abortion decriminalisation - how the far right will use it?

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Movingdream · 18/06/2025 08:35

I think the parliament made the right decision yesterday to decriminalise abortion. This means women won’t be investigated for late miscarriages and stillbirths, which must just feel like one trauma after another.

The 24 week limit remains in place and you would still only see doctors performing later abortions due to medical issues. As people on here know, the vast majority of abortions take place before 12 weeks and the few that don’t, normally are performed due to a medical issue for mother or baby. After 24 weeks, a woman would have to self induce an abortion for non medical reasons as doctors wouldn’t perform it, which would pretty much be labour, how would a woman even do this?

But ‘the UK has legalised abortion up until birth’ is the soundbite I keep seeing from the fundamentalist right wing types. This isn’t true. It worries me though because they’ll run with it and I’m concerned things swing the other way.

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Autumn38 · 18/06/2025 10:05

No3392 · 18/06/2025 09:59

Some people really need to get a grip and do some research.

There are other countries which have decriminalised abortion. And no, women are not, categorically not, running around having late term abortions.

This change in the law is to protect women who have late stage miscarriages and still born babies.

I despair at women not wanting to support women in these situations.

Should we get rid of laws that protect children from child abuse by their mother? Because the vast majority of women are not running around abusing their children and it’s genuinely awful and scary when they are wrongly investigated by social services.

HeadbandUnited · 18/06/2025 10:05

Movingdream · 18/06/2025 09:58

@SovietSpy yeah maybe the argument should be more focused on access to pills then? Because you’d think a woman would have to be in a medical setting to take them later on anyway. But again, what are the facts on this, who is taking a pill to induce a late term abortion? Would we be talking about limiting access to hundreds of women who can’t get to a clinic for one woman every 20 years who takes a pill later on due to desperation/mental health? I just don’t know where I stand on this. Just thinking out loud!

Well, Carla Foster and Nicola Packer, to name two. Carla was 34 weeks pregnant by another man when she got back together with her ex and decided it suited her better to terminate. Nicola claimed she didn't know how far she was, but had an extensive internet seach history about the effects of taking an abortion pill in the third trimester.

All of the prosecutions that you have been reading about in the last few years have been women who have taken a pill to induce late term abortion. It's certainly not a once every 20 years event.

hydriotaphia · 18/06/2025 10:05

<quote> After 24 weeks, a woman would have to self induce an abortion for non medical reasons as doctors wouldn’t perform it, which would pretty much be labour, how would a woman even do this? </quote>

Wouldn't the way a woman would do this be by accessing abortion medicines remotely, either by having a remote consultation where she lied about her status, or by accessing the drugs at an earlier stage in pregnancy but taking them at a later stage?

I don't suggest that there is likely to be an epidemic of this, but I do feel that there is a very easy route for a woman to induce or attempt to induce a later abortion if she chooses.

ComtesseDeSpair · 18/06/2025 10:06

HeadbandUnited · 18/06/2025 10:01

Greater openness about the profile of the sort of women who might seek a late term abortion or perform one on themselves is what we need, and I think decriminalisation can be the conduit for that by making it a real conversation with and by the medical community and organisations which provide support to women in these sorts of circumstances,

OK, let's do that then. I think that this is an example of a woman who might do something like a late term abortion, so she could sell the body parts: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c39v27p0mwyo. What support do you think that we should offer her? She wouldn't be going to jail anymore.

The absolute insistence that women are not capable of acting for any purposes that are not pure and virtuous is staggering. Feminism is the radical notion that women are people, which means that women cover the whole spectrum of personhood, from the highly virtuous to the utterly immoral. 30 million women in this country. Some of those women will be entirely capable of terminating late pregnancies for reasons entirely unrelated to tragic circumstances - perhaps to get revenge on the father after they have discovered infidelity. Perhaps because they have met a new partner who does not want the baggage of another man's baby. Anyone remember that woman who was 20 weeks pregnant and said she'd terminate the pregnancy in order to get on Love Island? Don't think being 35 weeks instead of 20 would have deterred her. This fetishisation of women's moral purity really has to stop, it isn't feminism.

This woman sold her living, sentient child. I think her seeking a late term medical abortion so she could sell a non-living child’s body parts would have probably been the “better”, for want of another word, outcome.

I believe the only reason a woman needs to have an abortion is that she doesn’t want to be pregnant. My view doesn’t change because she specifically doesn’t want to be pregnant with a boy or a girl, or pregnant with a disabled baby, or pregnant with a baby whose father is a particular man, or pregnant because she wants to go on Love Island, or whatever.

Wavescrashingonthebeach · 18/06/2025 10:07

TeaAndStrumpets · 18/06/2025 10:03

This is it, absolutely.

How about spending more money on proper pre- natal care? Sending out pills by post was done in an emergency situation during covid, but it should be stopped. Women's physical and psychological needs seem to have been downgraded to save money. We deserve better than this.

Yes 100%. Abortion pills should not be posted out based on no medical examinations!
People can and do get dates wrong, a TV scan can roughly confirm how far along the pregnancy was.

Slothtoes · 18/06/2025 10:07

OP if there’s one thing I have noticed about the ‘pro life’ (anti women’s choice) side of this debate is that they can’t get enough supporters on side through the weight of their own sheer moral disapproval. (which is anyone’s right to feel, of course- inflicting your moral disapproval on to others is a different matter), so the ‘pro-life’/anti-choice campaigners stoop to scaremongering, misrepresentation or outright lies about what happens. But the common thread is that they don’t trust women.

You can’t change that unless their tactics veer off outside the law, but you can get on with campaigning for what you yourself believe in decently, truthfully and respectfully of women’s actual experiences. Which is why this is the absolute right outcome in Parliament for women’s rights.

EasternStandard · 18/06/2025 10:07

No3392 · 18/06/2025 09:59

Some people really need to get a grip and do some research.

There are other countries which have decriminalised abortion. And no, women are not, categorically not, running around having late term abortions.

This change in the law is to protect women who have late stage miscarriages and still born babies.

I despair at women not wanting to support women in these situations.

Can you give an example where similar medication can be ordered in the same way?

EasternStandard · 18/06/2025 10:09

HeyThereDelila · 18/06/2025 09:56

YABVU. It’s not the far right who will go to town on this - it’ll be the general public being outraged.

I’m a left wing pro choice feminist and I’m appalled at what parliament has done. There’ll be a huge backlash which will undermine the abortion rights we do have- and killing a baby past 24 weeks is killing a baby. It’s unacceptable.

Why do none of you know what the root cause of this is? Abortion pills by post being kept after Covid, without needing an in person appointment to assess length of gestation. The late term investigations by police directly correlate to when Labour MPs voted to keep abortion pills by post - it’s their screw up. Before 2020 late term abortions and investigations didn’t happen.

Now, a woman could call up BPAS at 30 weeks, pretend she’s only 8 weeks, take mifepristone and kill a near full term baby. But now there’s nothing that can be done about it and no mechanism for the state to even record that it’s happening.

Absolute bloody clowns.

This makes sense as to why we’re here with this.

cryptide · 18/06/2025 10:09

RobinStrike · 18/06/2025 09:59

I don’t think things will swing to the right on this, but I do think if people believe it removes protections from women and children because of being given abortion pills by phone that it will produce an anti government backlash. The first time there is a case in the papers of a woman using pills at say 35 weeks to abort a viable healthy foetus there will be uproar in the papers. It will happen. There are always rare cases of things that are listed as “it will never happen”. Support for mothers should mean this can’t be done without an in person interviews-I think this could be done in a pharmacy.

Exactly. The fact that the mother in such a case can't be prosecuted won't stop such cases being publicised, and indeed the right wing press will use the immunity from prosecution as something else to whip up their readers' fury. Cue a right wing government coming in to claim a mandate for seriously restricting abortion rights.

Dangermoo · 18/06/2025 10:11

HeadbandUnited · 18/06/2025 10:05

Well, Carla Foster and Nicola Packer, to name two. Carla was 34 weeks pregnant by another man when she got back together with her ex and decided it suited her better to terminate. Nicola claimed she didn't know how far she was, but had an extensive internet seach history about the effects of taking an abortion pill in the third trimester.

All of the prosecutions that you have been reading about in the last few years have been women who have taken a pill to induce late term abortion. It's certainly not a once every 20 years event.

What pieces of work those two are.

No3392 · 18/06/2025 10:11

HeadbandUnited · 18/06/2025 10:01

Greater openness about the profile of the sort of women who might seek a late term abortion or perform one on themselves is what we need, and I think decriminalisation can be the conduit for that by making it a real conversation with and by the medical community and organisations which provide support to women in these sorts of circumstances,

OK, let's do that then. I think that this is an example of a woman who might do something like a late term abortion, so she could sell the body parts: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c39v27p0mwyo. What support do you think that we should offer her? She wouldn't be going to jail anymore.

The absolute insistence that women are not capable of acting for any purposes that are not pure and virtuous is staggering. Feminism is the radical notion that women are people, which means that women cover the whole spectrum of personhood, from the highly virtuous to the utterly immoral. 30 million women in this country. Some of those women will be entirely capable of terminating late pregnancies for reasons entirely unrelated to tragic circumstances - perhaps to get revenge on the father after they have discovered infidelity. Perhaps because they have met a new partner who does not want the baggage of another man's baby. Anyone remember that woman who was 20 weeks pregnant and said she'd terminate the pregnancy in order to get on Love Island? Don't think being 35 weeks instead of 20 would have deterred her. This fetishisation of women's moral purity really has to stop, it isn't feminism.

So you believe a very minute few should be the reason to keep investigating women going through one of the most harrowing things a woman can go through?

'oh, sorry, I know your baby just died, but I have to arrest you, because there is a minute chance that XYZ down the road might kill her baby for organs'

30 million women deserve protection.

HeadbandUnited · 18/06/2025 10:12

ComtesseDeSpair · 18/06/2025 10:06

This woman sold her living, sentient child. I think her seeking a late term medical abortion so she could sell a non-living child’s body parts would have probably been the “better”, for want of another word, outcome.

I believe the only reason a woman needs to have an abortion is that she doesn’t want to be pregnant. My view doesn’t change because she specifically doesn’t want to be pregnant with a boy or a girl, or pregnant with a disabled baby, or pregnant with a baby whose father is a particular man, or pregnant because she wants to go on Love Island, or whatever.

Edited

And both should be criminal acts. Just like how murder is worse that GBH, but GBH is still a crime too.

WhereIsMyJumper · 18/06/2025 10:14

I really don’t know how to feel about this. It’s such a difficult one.

I support a woman’s right to decide to no longer be pregnant at any stage in her pregnancy. Of course, in the earlier stages it’s cut and dry - the fetus couldn’t survive and so would be terminated.
I think a woman who is 35 weeks plus should be able to choose to not be pregnant but I can’t get my head around killing the baby before hand at that stage. I can honestly see both sides of the argument. I don’t agree with the “all women are virtuous” argument because we know that’s not true.

I would also worry that the pills by post scheme would be cancelled which isn’t a good thing, either.

WhereIsMyJumper · 18/06/2025 10:15

The case of the women who lied about how far along they were to access abortion pills was harrowing. I don’t believe they should have gone to prison for it though.

Slothtoes · 18/06/2025 10:16

Let’s just clarify on what this legal change actually does. It brings England and Wales in line with Northern Ireland’s existing law.

Tonia Antoniazzi’s amendment to the Crime and Policing Bill removes women from the Offences Against the Person Act of 1861 and the Infant Life Preservation Act of 1929, specifically regarding their own pregnancies.Thereby bringing England and Wales into line with Northern Ireland. It stops vulnerable women in England and Wales being dragged through years-long investigation, charged with criminal offences and getting custodial sentences for ending their own pregnancy, which is likely to devastate their lives and their children’s lives and their work life and their wider family. This bringing into line will hopefully encourage and support professional concern and support for women who are in these dire situations, not calling the police on them as potential criminals while they’re still in need of medical care.

ComtesseDeSpair · 18/06/2025 10:17

HeadbandUnited · 18/06/2025 10:12

And both should be criminal acts. Just like how murder is worse that GBH, but GBH is still a crime too.

In the U.K., it remains illegal to sell your baby’s body parts. Indeed, it remains so where this woman was prosecuted for selling a live child, in South Africa. Nothing has changed.

Zebedee999 · 18/06/2025 10:18

Movingdream · 18/06/2025 08:35

I think the parliament made the right decision yesterday to decriminalise abortion. This means women won’t be investigated for late miscarriages and stillbirths, which must just feel like one trauma after another.

The 24 week limit remains in place and you would still only see doctors performing later abortions due to medical issues. As people on here know, the vast majority of abortions take place before 12 weeks and the few that don’t, normally are performed due to a medical issue for mother or baby. After 24 weeks, a woman would have to self induce an abortion for non medical reasons as doctors wouldn’t perform it, which would pretty much be labour, how would a woman even do this?

But ‘the UK has legalised abortion up until birth’ is the soundbite I keep seeing from the fundamentalist right wing types. This isn’t true. It worries me though because they’ll run with it and I’m concerned things swing the other way.

People are entitled to their own opinions just as you are... why is that such a worry to you? And why label people who have a different view to you? Put your case simply and clearly and argue it as you see fit, getting all het up and insulting those with a different view is just childish.

Wavescrashingonthebeach · 18/06/2025 10:19

HeyThereDelila · 18/06/2025 09:56

YABVU. It’s not the far right who will go to town on this - it’ll be the general public being outraged.

I’m a left wing pro choice feminist and I’m appalled at what parliament has done. There’ll be a huge backlash which will undermine the abortion rights we do have- and killing a baby past 24 weeks is killing a baby. It’s unacceptable.

Why do none of you know what the root cause of this is? Abortion pills by post being kept after Covid, without needing an in person appointment to assess length of gestation. The late term investigations by police directly correlate to when Labour MPs voted to keep abortion pills by post - it’s their screw up. Before 2020 late term abortions and investigations didn’t happen.

Now, a woman could call up BPAS at 30 weeks, pretend she’s only 8 weeks, take mifepristone and kill a near full term baby. But now there’s nothing that can be done about it and no mechanism for the state to even record that it’s happening.

Absolute bloody clowns.

Perfectly worded and its horrifying and shocking that anyone sees anything any differently.

Termination is a serious procedure and needs to be undertaken in a medical setting for the exact reasons discussed.

I cant even buy more than 2 packets of fucking paracetamol at once but someone can have a fraudulent phone call and order pills to kill a viable baby, potentially under coercion of partner or under a moment of madness / desperation which if they had actually been seen by a HCP they could have received the help and support they need.

HeadbandUnited · 18/06/2025 10:19

No3392 · 18/06/2025 10:11

So you believe a very minute few should be the reason to keep investigating women going through one of the most harrowing things a woman can go through?

'oh, sorry, I know your baby just died, but I have to arrest you, because there is a minute chance that XYZ down the road might kill her baby for organs'

30 million women deserve protection.

Yes. Criminal law is made so that the minute few are caught. It's harrowing for any parent to be accused of harming, or even killing, their child, but it's nonsensical to say that actions that should clearly be crimes will therefore not be investigated. We can't have a functioning criminal justice system with that attitude.

NoSuchBass · 18/06/2025 10:20

HeyThereDelila · 18/06/2025 09:56

YABVU. It’s not the far right who will go to town on this - it’ll be the general public being outraged.

I’m a left wing pro choice feminist and I’m appalled at what parliament has done. There’ll be a huge backlash which will undermine the abortion rights we do have- and killing a baby past 24 weeks is killing a baby. It’s unacceptable.

Why do none of you know what the root cause of this is? Abortion pills by post being kept after Covid, without needing an in person appointment to assess length of gestation. The late term investigations by police directly correlate to when Labour MPs voted to keep abortion pills by post - it’s their screw up. Before 2020 late term abortions and investigations didn’t happen.

Now, a woman could call up BPAS at 30 weeks, pretend she’s only 8 weeks, take mifepristone and kill a near full term baby. But now there’s nothing that can be done about it and no mechanism for the state to even record that it’s happening.

Absolute bloody clowns.

This is put really well.

So if you phone up and say you're 8 weeks, there are no checks, that you're actually 8 weeks?

Demonstrates HeadbandUnited point that not all women are gentle and virtuous: as much as any human.

And the govt appears to have just removed the protection for tiny babies, from those few who meet that point. I'm not sure why. The resulting perils don't appear to be worth the gains.

MrsSkylerWhite · 18/06/2025 10:20

cryptide · 18/06/2025 10:03

I'd like to know where he gets those statistics from, and what the extent of those investigations are. I suspect that in the vast majority of cases if there is no evidence beyond the fact of a late miscarriage or stillbirth nothing happens beyond a few questions to clinicians, and the woman never even gets to know about the investigation.

His personal, professional experience over many years.

Wavescrashingonthebeach · 18/06/2025 10:22

No3392 · 18/06/2025 10:11

So you believe a very minute few should be the reason to keep investigating women going through one of the most harrowing things a woman can go through?

'oh, sorry, I know your baby just died, but I have to arrest you, because there is a minute chance that XYZ down the road might kill her baby for organs'

30 million women deserve protection.

Well a really simple way to prevent this is ensure all terminations are undertaken in a medical setting with a full audit trail.
Not basically condone a wild west environment.

cryptide · 18/06/2025 10:23

MrsSkylerWhite · 18/06/2025 10:20

His personal, professional experience over many years.

In that case it's anecdotal and really a bit irresponsible.

EasternStandard · 18/06/2025 10:23

Wavescrashingonthebeach · 18/06/2025 10:19

Perfectly worded and its horrifying and shocking that anyone sees anything any differently.

Termination is a serious procedure and needs to be undertaken in a medical setting for the exact reasons discussed.

I cant even buy more than 2 packets of fucking paracetamol at once but someone can have a fraudulent phone call and order pills to kill a viable baby, potentially under coercion of partner or under a moment of madness / desperation which if they had actually been seen by a HCP they could have received the help and support they need.

Yes there’s no guardrails, it’s just access to medication that I assume shouldn’t be accessed at that term.

EasternStandard · 18/06/2025 10:24

cryptide · 18/06/2025 10:23

In that case it's anecdotal and really a bit irresponsible.

Agree with you

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