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Abortion decriminalisation - how the far right will use it?

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Movingdream · 18/06/2025 08:35

I think the parliament made the right decision yesterday to decriminalise abortion. This means women won’t be investigated for late miscarriages and stillbirths, which must just feel like one trauma after another.

The 24 week limit remains in place and you would still only see doctors performing later abortions due to medical issues. As people on here know, the vast majority of abortions take place before 12 weeks and the few that don’t, normally are performed due to a medical issue for mother or baby. After 24 weeks, a woman would have to self induce an abortion for non medical reasons as doctors wouldn’t perform it, which would pretty much be labour, how would a woman even do this?

But ‘the UK has legalised abortion up until birth’ is the soundbite I keep seeing from the fundamentalist right wing types. This isn’t true. It worries me though because they’ll run with it and I’m concerned things swing the other way.

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Movingdream · 18/06/2025 09:46

@Dangermoo I know, that’s why it’s never just about the 24 week limit with him. Most people in this country wouldn’t want abortion taken away completely.

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HeadbandUnited · 18/06/2025 09:47

Movingdream · 18/06/2025 09:26

@Autumn38 but no doctors would be performing an abortion at 35 weeks medically, it would need to be self induced? So a woman would be inducing labour at 35 weeks somehow, and then if the baby was born full term and healthy, and you ended its life, you would be a murderer of course? But again, this isn’t even happening? Women are being investigated for stillbirths and miscarriages because it was a criminal offence. It’s far more likely that a woman has suffered a miscarriage than successfully ended a nearly full term pregnancy. It’s horrifying that the police would go through their phone and question them after the trauma of a miscarriage.

You're not looking at the full picture. It comes back to the availability of remote access to abortion medicine, which came about during the pandemic and has been continued since. Whereas it would have previously been challenging to self-terminate a late pregnancy, it's now pretty easy.

Autumn38 · 18/06/2025 09:48

ComtesseDeSpair · 18/06/2025 09:39

The very rare instances of e.g. smothering a newborn are already almost invariably prosecuted as infanticide rather than murder, with the woman if convicted being ordered to receive psychiatric treatment rather than jailed, in recognition that mothers don’t generally kill their newborn babies except when they are extremely mentally unwell and / or out of desperation. I’ve always been very heartened to see that when cases do make the media, the public comments broadly reflect that understanding already.

Most people are only horrified by the idea of late term abortion because it’s presented differently: they’re fed untruths about the idea that women want late term abortions because they’ve suddenly decided they don’t want the bother of a baby after all / it interferes with their holiday plans or whatever. Greater openness about the profile of the sort of women who might seek a late term abortion or perform one on themselves is what we need, and I think decriminalisation can be the conduit for that by making it a real conversation with and by the medical community and organisations which provide support to women in these sorts of circumstances, and binding it to how we already approach infanticide.

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Mothers tend not to murder their children full stop. It doesn’t mean people aren’t horrified by the thought of it.

Dangermoo · 18/06/2025 09:49

Movingdream · 18/06/2025 09:46

@Dangermoo I know, that’s why it’s never just about the 24 week limit with him. Most people in this country wouldn’t want abortion taken away completely.

Neither does Farage. It won't happen anyway. This is just on the back end of Roe v Wade - completely irrelevant to the UK.

RobinStrike · 18/06/2025 09:49

@Autumn38that is madness. The law should protect the vulnerable as well as the mother. I am pro choice, it not at the expense of the children. What is the difference between an abortion at 39 weeks and infanticide at 39 weeks? I think this suggestion that this wording is essential because of prosecution of miscarriage is ridiculous. They just need to change the law/criminal justice rulings on prosecutions. I find it hard to believe it goes on anyway. But if it does, that’s where the changes need to be, not in removing protections for mother and child late in pregnancy. I’m horrified by this.

EasternStandard · 18/06/2025 09:50

SovietSpy · 18/06/2025 09:43

but no doctors would be performing an abortion at 35 weeks medically, it would need to be self induced

its possible because anti abortion pills are given out by telephone. Therefore it’s possible for someone to abort late term by lying or by buying these pills on a black market.
People will say oh no one would do that. But there will be cases. I personally think there’s a risk where people want a certain sex of child, using this approach and now it’s not criminal to do so.

That is an unsettling point.

ComtesseDeSpair · 18/06/2025 09:51

SovietSpy · 18/06/2025 09:43

but no doctors would be performing an abortion at 35 weeks medically, it would need to be self induced

its possible because anti abortion pills are given out by telephone. Therefore it’s possible for someone to abort late term by lying or by buying these pills on a black market.
People will say oh no one would do that. But there will be cases. I personally think there’s a risk where people want a certain sex of child, using this approach and now it’s not criminal to do so.

On balance, I think that if a baby is otherwise going to be born to parents who so desperately don’t want it to be of a particular sex that they would consider a near-term abortion, it’s probably best for the child they don’t have that baby in the first place.

Though I don’t think it’s a particularly pressing argument anymore anyway, now that antenatal testing has advanced so much. Parents can find out the sex of their baby from well before 24 weeks already and abort if it’s the “wrong” one.

TheSmallAssassin · 18/06/2025 09:52

Katypp · 18/06/2025 09:27

Agree with the last two comments. It's a slippery slope.

A slippery slope is a logical fallacy and not the basis for any argument.

Katypp · 18/06/2025 09:53

In your opinion. In mine, it is.

SovietSpy · 18/06/2025 09:54

EasternStandard · 18/06/2025 09:50

That is an unsettling point.

I saw a tweet on X about this point. It really did make me stop and think about the unintended consequences of this amendment. And people bang on about support for vulnerable women in coercive situations but there is hardly any. We all know the state of our maternity services so allowing these pills to be handed out over telephone and then decriminalising the consequences of taking them very late in pregnancy could lead to some horrific situations.

HeyThereDelila · 18/06/2025 09:56

YABVU. It’s not the far right who will go to town on this - it’ll be the general public being outraged.

I’m a left wing pro choice feminist and I’m appalled at what parliament has done. There’ll be a huge backlash which will undermine the abortion rights we do have- and killing a baby past 24 weeks is killing a baby. It’s unacceptable.

Why do none of you know what the root cause of this is? Abortion pills by post being kept after Covid, without needing an in person appointment to assess length of gestation. The late term investigations by police directly correlate to when Labour MPs voted to keep abortion pills by post - it’s their screw up. Before 2020 late term abortions and investigations didn’t happen.

Now, a woman could call up BPAS at 30 weeks, pretend she’s only 8 weeks, take mifepristone and kill a near full term baby. But now there’s nothing that can be done about it and no mechanism for the state to even record that it’s happening.

Absolute bloody clowns.

HeyThereDelila · 18/06/2025 09:56

YABVU. It’s not the far right who will go to town on this - it’ll be the general public being outraged.

I’m a left wing pro choice feminist and I’m appalled at what parliament has done. There’ll be a huge backlash which will undermine the abortion rights we do have- and killing a baby past 24 weeks is killing a baby. It’s unacceptable.

Why do none of you know what the root cause of this is? Abortion pills by post being kept after Covid, without needing an in person appointment to assess length of gestation. The late term investigations by police directly correlate to when Labour MPs voted to keep abortion pills by post - it’s their screw up. Before 2020 late term abortions and investigations didn’t happen.

Now, a woman could call up BPAS at 30 weeks, pretend she’s only 8 weeks, take mifepristone and kill a near full term baby. But now there’s nothing that can be done about it and no mechanism for the state to even record that it’s happening.

Absolute bloody clowns.

TheSmallAssassin · 18/06/2025 09:56

Autumn38 · 18/06/2025 09:35

It’s not about the likelihood of it happening. It’s about the message it sends about the value of the life of a full term baby.

Apparently a baby who was born at 35 weeks and then smothered to death will get the full protection of the law as a human being, but a baby aborted by its mother would not be treated as a human, whose right to life is protected by law. I think most people can see the flaws in that argument. So it isn’t about how likely it is to happen, it’s about the government revealing their attitude towards this issue. I think it will probably actually end up undermining the pro-choice argument. And the far-right won’t have to do anything because I think most people can see for themselves that the logic is totally off.

There is no flaw in the argument, it's being born alive that makes you a legal human being.

Autumn38 · 18/06/2025 09:58

I think there will be a lot of people who flip from thinking they were ‘pro-choice BUT’ to realising that they are actually ‘pro-life BUT’. This is the logical conclusion of the pro-choice argument - that full term babies have no right to life until after they take their first breath.

Movingdream · 18/06/2025 09:58

@SovietSpy yeah maybe the argument should be more focused on access to pills then? Because you’d think a woman would have to be in a medical setting to take them later on anyway. But again, what are the facts on this, who is taking a pill to induce a late term abortion? Would we be talking about limiting access to hundreds of women who can’t get to a clinic for one woman every 20 years who takes a pill later on due to desperation/mental health? I just don’t know where I stand on this. Just thinking out loud!

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No3392 · 18/06/2025 09:59

Some people really need to get a grip and do some research.

There are other countries which have decriminalised abortion. And no, women are not, categorically not, running around having late term abortions.

This change in the law is to protect women who have late stage miscarriages and still born babies.

I despair at women not wanting to support women in these situations.

Hoooray · 18/06/2025 09:59

As Baroness Casey said of the grooming gangs scandal, 'if good people don't grasp difficult things, bad people will, and that's why we have to do it as a society'. We can't uphold unjust laws for fear that doing the right thing will give Reform ammunition on abortion law.

Labour are already making the mistake of seeking to appease the far right with their rhetoric on issues like immigration. It's the wrong course of action. Whether it's by winning seats in parliament or by dragging everyone over to the right, Reform win when the parties of the left don't hold the line.

RobinStrike · 18/06/2025 09:59

I don’t think things will swing to the right on this, but I do think if people believe it removes protections from women and children because of being given abortion pills by phone that it will produce an anti government backlash. The first time there is a case in the papers of a woman using pills at say 35 weeks to abort a viable healthy foetus there will be uproar in the papers. It will happen. There are always rare cases of things that are listed as “it will never happen”. Support for mothers should mean this can’t be done without an in person interviews-I think this could be done in a pharmacy.

Autumn38 · 18/06/2025 09:59

TheSmallAssassin · 18/06/2025 09:56

There is no flaw in the argument, it's being born alive that makes you a legal human being.

Ok, maybe I worded that wrong. A flaw in the moral argument then. Maybe we are not going to base our legal system on what we believe to be morally right any longer but that is a big step.

DurinsBane · 18/06/2025 10:00

A lot of Americans are surprised that abortion isn’t a big thing over here, that elections aren’t fought and won on it like there. I reckon it might be because of the status quo we had. Anti abortionists could say that technically it is illegal so they are happy with that, and pro choicers could say that any women who wants one below 24 weeks can get one. Because that is what it is like. You can’t technically have one when you don’t want a baby, but in reality you can with no issues.

HeadbandUnited · 18/06/2025 10:01

Greater openness about the profile of the sort of women who might seek a late term abortion or perform one on themselves is what we need, and I think decriminalisation can be the conduit for that by making it a real conversation with and by the medical community and organisations which provide support to women in these sorts of circumstances,

OK, let's do that then. I think that this is an example of a woman who might do something like a late term abortion, so she could sell the body parts: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c39v27p0mwyo. What support do you think that we should offer her? She wouldn't be going to jail anymore.

The absolute insistence that women are not capable of acting for any purposes that are not pure and virtuous is staggering. Feminism is the radical notion that women are people, which means that women cover the whole spectrum of personhood, from the highly virtuous to the utterly immoral. 30 million women in this country. Some of those women will be entirely capable of terminating late pregnancies for reasons entirely unrelated to tragic circumstances - perhaps to get revenge on the father after they have discovered infidelity. Perhaps because they have met a new partner who does not want the baggage of another man's baby. Anyone remember that woman who was 20 weeks pregnant and said she'd terminate the pregnancy in order to get on Love Island? Don't think being 35 weeks instead of 20 would have deterred her. This fetishisation of women's moral purity really has to stop, it isn't feminism.

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TeaAndStrumpets · 18/06/2025 10:03

HeyThereDelila · 18/06/2025 09:56

YABVU. It’s not the far right who will go to town on this - it’ll be the general public being outraged.

I’m a left wing pro choice feminist and I’m appalled at what parliament has done. There’ll be a huge backlash which will undermine the abortion rights we do have- and killing a baby past 24 weeks is killing a baby. It’s unacceptable.

Why do none of you know what the root cause of this is? Abortion pills by post being kept after Covid, without needing an in person appointment to assess length of gestation. The late term investigations by police directly correlate to when Labour MPs voted to keep abortion pills by post - it’s their screw up. Before 2020 late term abortions and investigations didn’t happen.

Now, a woman could call up BPAS at 30 weeks, pretend she’s only 8 weeks, take mifepristone and kill a near full term baby. But now there’s nothing that can be done about it and no mechanism for the state to even record that it’s happening.

Absolute bloody clowns.

This is it, absolutely.

How about spending more money on proper pre- natal care? Sending out pills by post was done in an emergency situation during covid, but it should be stopped. Women's physical and psychological needs seem to have been downgraded to save money. We deserve better than this.

Movingdream · 18/06/2025 10:03

@DurinsBane yeah I feel we had ‘landed’ in a pretty good place regarding abortion in the UK. I know we are essentially in the same place in that you can freely have an abortion before 24 weeks and after 24 weeks you can access abortion if medically needed. However, I fear these headlines will create kickback because they are misleading.

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cryptide · 18/06/2025 10:03

MrsSkylerWhite · 18/06/2025 09:43

Yes, they are. The head of the Royal College of Obstericians and Gynaecologist was on Newsnight yesterday. He treated Nicola Packer and said that for every woman like her who is actually taken to court, there are 10 who are investigated following late still birth or miscarriage.

I'd like to know where he gets those statistics from, and what the extent of those investigations are. I suspect that in the vast majority of cases if there is no evidence beyond the fact of a late miscarriage or stillbirth nothing happens beyond a few questions to clinicians, and the woman never even gets to know about the investigation.

TheSmallAssassin · 18/06/2025 10:04

Katypp · 18/06/2025 09:53

In your opinion. In mine, it is.

You can opine all you want about it, it doesn't make it a convincing argument.

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