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To think shein is actually good?

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sideeyes · 13/06/2025 14:24

Always been sniffy about any fast fashion (never knowingly bought anything). Have lots of stuff going on over the summer. Spent 100s +++ on different outfits from various labels. Now desperate so gave Shein a try and the outfits look really good. As a tall woman it’s unusual to find stuff that actually fits well.

OP posts:
tammienorrie · 13/06/2025 18:01

feellikeanalien · 13/06/2025 17:54

I would really like to know where the ethical brands are. It is becoming increasingly more difficult to buy things that aren't made in China. As other PPs have said even the so called high end shops don't seem to be that fussy where their stock comes from.

If only there was a search engine called something like Giggle where you could search for something like "ethical brands" and get your answer.

Pinty · 13/06/2025 18:07

sideeyes · 13/06/2025 14:28

I agree, which is why I have avoided. The problem with Vinted is the length of time to arrive is variable and I’m desperate. I won’t use Shein again but I am really impressed (shocked) with the clothes I bought.

I only used them.once and that was a mistake
I ordered two dresses. Only one arrived, it took weeks and it was very bad quality. The second dress never turned up.

Tripadvisor101 · 13/06/2025 18:11

My favourite jumpers came from Shein but I've also had some horrific quality stuff which went straight to a charity shop and I doubt anyone would buy them. For that reason, I won't buy from there again. We are such a chuck away population and I don't want to be.

Pinty · 13/06/2025 18:19

Toilichte · 13/06/2025 14:56

I wouldn’t say that shein is better than vinted in terms of delivery times. Yes it is reliable, and they give good estimates of when stuff will turn up but it does take a while.

I used to spend a fortune on clothes- top brands etc. not anymore. I pretty much buy everything on shein. For me the clothes aren’t disposable, I buy more classic, less trend pieces and they do last.

I honestly don’t believe the conditions are any worse that primark, or other cheap (or even more expensive) high street retailers.

The clothes genuinely look better on me than anything I have bought before. And at 40, I am looking and dressing the best I have ever done.

I wouldn’t say I buy more, I just spend less

How do you think they can sell things so cheaply. They will still be getting a profit .
Investigations have found that conditions in Shein are terrible

TheLudditesWereRight · 13/06/2025 18:28

PhilippaGeorgiou · 13/06/2025 17:07

Just to correct you - I have seen nobody defending Shein. Just pointing out that the rest are largely just as bad. Welcome to capitalism.

And not everybody has the same choices - there are plenty of poor families who can't afford what you might buy.

You can swap clothes or get bundles off FB for free. People are constantly trying to offload clothes.

Lovetosurf · 13/06/2025 18:44

I find it quite weird that people can feel good wearing clothes where the manufacturing process and supply chain etc is unethical - where people are paid poorly for their labour and no concern is given for the environment.
There is far more accessible information available these days, so we can all educate ourselves about it.

We all need to consume less, most of us have way more than we actually 'need' and so much clothes are in circulation already.

I started buying clothes in charity shops years ago as a teenager (1980s) and continued to do so when bringing up children as a single parent. I now earn a decent salary, but I still try to buy most of my stuff secondhand. I find it more enjoyable and fun to see what I can find.

There are lots of companies making ethical clothes now They usually cost more, but that's not such an issue if we try to buy less, so buy better quality, a lot less often.

I understand it's not easy if you have children and you're on a low wage. Lots of secondhand kids' clothes available though on Facebook, e-bay etc!

I still manage to get most of my clothes in charity shops, Vinted or on e-bay. Doesn't always work out, some items occasionally don't turn up or end up back on a selling platform or charity shop, but I'd rather do that than buy new.

Another good option is to learn to sew with a sewing machine, even with a basic machine you can alter clothes easily so they fit better, mend them so they last longer or make a few pieces yourself!

RumNotRun · 13/06/2025 18:58

I've bought some jeans on Shein and they are fantastic. Proper denim like jeans used to be and they fit and look good.

The quality of the jeans is better than those from high street brands that I have previously used, so they are going to last me for years, certainly not "fast fashion" for me anyway.

I won't use Shein as a default clothes provider as I do worry about the ethics, but I am broke, fat, and needed a pair of jeans/bottoms that fit. At the moment I struggle to get jeans to fit that aren't skinny, and sizing is so varied.

Silvertulips · 13/06/2025 18:58

Well the like of M&S may well have better quality items, but are they fashionable?

The bottom line surely is fashion houses pumping out ‘must have items’

We see ladies in here saying ‘can I still wear XYZ?’ And people chiming in with NO - that’s so last year!!

Maybe poor people should still be in 80’s clothes? I think people would appreciate me in bum skimming rara skirt and leg warmers, so excuse me if I don’t!

Fupoffyagrasshole · 13/06/2025 19:00

People always say oh buying drugs is bad because of the human element involved (poor people who are dragged into the supply chain / trafficking etc )

how is shein any different to that

Anzena · 13/06/2025 19:16

Holier than thou people who gasp at the Shein effect on the planet can do one, if they say this before closing the door on one of the four SUVs the family has for four people, in a city.

As for trading standards, there is a distribution centre for Shein in Belgium. The EU only allows non EU imports that comply with EU standards. I don't know about the rules in Britain.

CaptainMyCaptain · 13/06/2025 19:17

ZippyPeer · 13/06/2025 14:26

It's a disaster for the planet and the human rights of people working in their factories. Easy to not see that stuff I know, but it's the reality.

Vinted honestly a good place to pick up clothes at a low price, rather than somewhere awful like Shein

This.

momager1 · 13/06/2025 19:18

three years ago, when I still lived in Canada, had tons of charity shops and discount shops, could buy clothes anywhere, I was on the "don't shop shein, temu bandwagon. Now I live on an island. There are NO charity shops, and the clothes that are actually for sale here are not even close to anything I would wear. I have now become the owner of several shein and temu dresses, sandals, shoes, yoga shorts, yoga pants, vest tops, and many bathingsuits. Only once was my shipment garbage quality. I have an account that delivers to miami and then ships to me here in Dominican Republic. I cannot return anything so vinted, ebay and really most companies are a no go for me, as i will not spend alot if I have no chance to return it. I have a capsule wardrobe of really good quality clothes, but honestly have little chance to wear anything dressy here, the odd evening out, it is my good clothes (that will last me years) but heading to the beach or shopping or out for a walk? temu or shein dresses and shorts and t's. That being said.. I recently lost some more weight and I am holding off buying clothes as I am visiting our daughter in Canada in early sept for 2 weeks, so I will be filling a suitcase as the end of season sales should be on.

Moglet4 · 13/06/2025 19:20

sideeyes · 13/06/2025 14:49

Not to mention a lot of appears to be stolen

Curious… why do you think that?!

BashfulClam · 13/06/2025 19:29

What kind of jobs do you think the factory workers would have if they didn’t work in factories? Many would have to resort to prostitution simply to feed their children, young girls of 8,10,12 would be sold to god knows what fate.

KeineBedeutung · 13/06/2025 19:29

Anzena · 13/06/2025 19:16

Holier than thou people who gasp at the Shein effect on the planet can do one, if they say this before closing the door on one of the four SUVs the family has for four people, in a city.

As for trading standards, there is a distribution centre for Shein in Belgium. The EU only allows non EU imports that comply with EU standards. I don't know about the rules in Britain.

Nice deflection there.
No, I don't order from Shein etc.
No, I don't own an SUV type vehicle, nor do I live in a city.

tammienorrie · 13/06/2025 19:30

BashfulClam · 13/06/2025 19:29

What kind of jobs do you think the factory workers would have if they didn’t work in factories? Many would have to resort to prostitution simply to feed their children, young girls of 8,10,12 would be sold to god knows what fate.

And the other lazy argument, that you're actually doing the slaves a favour. 🙄

mybrainpills · 13/06/2025 19:39

Im a temu fan.

BashfulClam · 13/06/2025 19:40

tammienorrie · 13/06/2025 19:30

And the other lazy argument, that you're actually doing the slaves a favour. 🙄

I didn’t say that but people keep saying how terrible the working conditions are but that’s how their country is. They will never have a nice wee office role or UC and council accommodation if they fall on hard times. It’s shit factories or prostitution so yes the working conditions are terrible but nothing will change that.

MoistVonL · 13/06/2025 19:41

tammienorrie · 13/06/2025 19:30

And the other lazy argument, that you're actually doing the slaves a favour. 🙄

They’ll be saying using prostitutes is helping impoverished women next 🙄

SupposesRoses · 13/06/2025 19:42

Screamingabdabz · 13/06/2025 14:57

Glad that enslaved labour has a fashionable upside for you. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 🙄

I met a elderly lady in San Francisco who had made products in 9 different concentration camps as a child. I think of her every time I see the Shein and Temu adverts.

Anzena · 13/06/2025 19:43

I often wonder why imports of Shein goods are not banned in the UK.

If it is truly an unethical slave using, copy and scraping (from other designers), and landfill guzzling outfit, surely someone in Government would say, "hey this is awful, gotta get some rules in place and ban the stuff from entering the country".

I smile when I see that the onus is on the purchaser of such goods, not the trading/import standards arm of Government. I assume they will say it's a free market and we rely on the public to do our job for us.

If it's legal, it's legal though, that's the bottom line really.

daff0di1 · 13/06/2025 21:10

I like it. I honestly struggle to find anything I like in the shops anymore, but I find loads on shein. For my son also, there's just nothing for him when I go up town that doesn't involve a dinosaur

AmyDuPlantier · 13/06/2025 21:16

Nobody on here has ever used SHEIN. Meanwhile in real life…

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 13/06/2025 21:31

@PhilippaGeorgiouthanks for that always nice to be corrected.
So yeah I chose the wrong wording but I know you know I meant, posters who think Shein are no different to other retailers such as Primark or Zara.

And yes I agree some people have very few other options. Many however do and just want to buy new stuff.

somewhereoverthechipshop · 13/06/2025 21:34

All I’ll say is that it’s hard to be ethical when you’re poor.