Is it ever ok for the DH to call you a f***ing c**nt

[vinoinveritas]

Context: some nagging from me about a domestic issue … He then Flew into complete rage & screamed very aggressively, multiple times (DD also overheard) what an F*ing c**t I was

What do you think?

No

Absolutely not

If my DH used those words on me our marriage would be over.

No it’s never ever ok.

Nope

It’s a very bad sign. Particularly if he’s not a sweary fucker or you didn’t just murder his parents.

Is your dd ok?

Never

Not to me, nope..

Not ok.

Neither is using the word nagging. You were probably just asking him to do something.

Eww never 😑

ExDH called me a stupid fat cunt shortly before we married. The cruelty only escalated from there.

No. It's abuse.

nope not okay under any circumstance.

No matter what your post said, the answer is NO. NEVER

No never ok. Can you talk to your daughter about it? She needs to understand it’s not right.

My now Ex called me that amongst other vile things 3 years ago in earshot of our young kids , it was the beginning of the end of our marriage after many ups &downs its was just so disgusting to be called that by my husband. LO & behold I found him calling me a C**T today on a family WhatsApp chat that had my teenager in it, I can't even tell you how horrendous it's all been, please do not accept this type of name calling xxx

Absolutely not.

YABU to even ask.

Awful, sorry. Now that you know he’s got that in him, it changes everything.

No.

Absolutely not. For me, it is less the word and more the tone and behaviour (we use curse words fluidly in my household and social circle so calling someone a dozy cunt or a fucking bellend is all par for the course, but it’s never said with malice or aggression).
You seem to bake in his ‘justification’ with your ‘nagging’, but seems the reaction is disproportionate and frankly not what anyone deserves.
Can you have a calm conversation around this and how this is a hard line? If not, or if that doesn’t go well… that tells you all you need to know.

Nope, never.

The only context would be if he was under strong sedation and had no idea what he was doing or saying.

My mum said some very strong words to my dad when she was in labour with her first baby (my dsis). That is acceptable and nothing was ever said like that in their 45+ years of marriage. And Dad used to joke about it because it was indeed funny.

But your situation isn’t funny @vinoinveritas not for you nor your dd. Is he her father?

Never. Not once. Not ever…