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To think a dishwasher will change our lives?

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Question285 · 10/06/2025 09:25

Never had a dishwasher before and never thought I needed one. But now, with two small DC, I think it would make a world of difference. DH, who does most of the washing up, disagrees.

So, does anyone have any input? Does having a dishwasher make life better? Is it worth the investment? Will it be so life changing that even my reluctant DH will be persuaded? 😄

Also, any brand suggestions? Is it better to spend more for a top brand? I’ve narrowed it down to two models, a Hisense and an AEG. It’s about £250 difference between them.

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Skibbgirl · 16/06/2025 10:00

I never saw the need for a dishwasher until I got one (at my husband's suggestion) when my two were small. It really was quite transformational in our household. The only immediate issue was that we had to go out and purchase some extra crockery and cutlery! :) The convenience of a dishwasher cannot be overstated IMHO.

Schoolgatelassie · 16/06/2025 11:21

Definitely makes life better with DCs. Go for AEG

LoudPlumDog · 16/06/2025 13:45

Sooose · 14/06/2025 18:57

I realise I'm an outlier on this thread, but we have no dishwasher and no intention to get one. The main reasons are that none of our crockery and cutlery is dishwasher safe - we collected it over years from various second hand shops and hand-me-downs in the family. We like it. Then if we wanted to install one we would have to reorganise the whole kitchen at great expense, because there really is nowhere it would fit at the moment. We seem to get by and since the children were nine or ten they understand they have to pitch in. It's good for them. But I do recognise that we would save a lot of time if we had one and there are other chores we could find for the kids to help with.

You do realise kids can pitch in with loading, unloading, putting away and a whole range of other household chores don’t you?

I also have collected all my crockery second hand and it all goes in the dishwasher. No problems at all.

KimberleyClark · 17/06/2025 09:19

Apparently rinsing stuff before putting in the dishwasher reduces the effectiveness of the dishwasher tablet, which contains enzymes that need food particles to clink too in order to work. You should just scrape off any leftovers.

Luvmusic · 18/06/2025 18:18

Apparently Bosch SMV6ZCX10G at£750 or Bosch SMS6ZCI10G at £700 are good. Good cheap one is the Beko BDIN38440 at £400. Incidentally, I don't have one, never have had one nor a tumble dryer. My husband does the washing up too..

Disturbia81 · 18/06/2025 18:22

ChaiLarious · 15/06/2025 11:35

I'm really confused by all the posters saying it makes their kitchen look tidier because there isn't a sink and side full of dishes waiting to be washed. Do people not wash things as they use them or straight after eating?

Well clearly not if it makes their kitchen look messy. I leave mine a few days

Daniki · 18/06/2025 18:23

It defo makes life better 😂 we finally got one in our new house and it makes such a difference to me not having to wash a million glasses and the food dishes every single day

Aniceempirebiscuitandacupoftea · 18/06/2025 18:28

Ours is a slimline so it gets full quickly. There’s always stuff that has to be hand-washed such as cast iron pots and wooden utensils. I do hand-washing about twice a week.

ChaiLarious · 18/06/2025 18:54

Disturbia81 · 18/06/2025 18:22

Well clearly not if it makes their kitchen look messy. I leave mine a few days

A few days? Do you have a huge kitchen sink and work surface and a surplus of dishes or is there only you in the house and minimal washing up?

ThatFlakyHam · 19/06/2025 09:52

Question285 · 10/06/2025 09:25

Never had a dishwasher before and never thought I needed one. But now, with two small DC, I think it would make a world of difference. DH, who does most of the washing up, disagrees.

So, does anyone have any input? Does having a dishwasher make life better? Is it worth the investment? Will it be so life changing that even my reluctant DH will be persuaded? 😄

Also, any brand suggestions? Is it better to spend more for a top brand? I’ve narrowed it down to two models, a Hisense and an AEG. It’s about £250 difference between them.

There is a difference in how different makes wash. And a cutlery draw is certainly better than a basket. Read the reviews is best way to decide

If the washing machine or drier breaks you can take your washing elsewhere, but once you've had a dishwasher you wont want to be without it for long

As others have said. if you have the space having 2 dishwasher makes even more sense once you experience it . Because most of the time you use the same items the majority of the time, you just load one, then take the clean items out of the washed one and rotate them back in the dirty one. Then reverse.

This saves time instead of unpacking the clean one and putting them away to only get them out again soon after. Also if space permits (and plumbing is practical in that location) when installing a new kitchen it doesn't even cost that more because where a dishwasher goes you don't then need to buy a cupboard carcase. Only a door front needed if built in (or nothing if not)

If its a more expensive kitchen the carcase saved is similar cost to a dishwasher too

Nsky62 · 19/06/2025 10:05

Ellbee83 · 10/06/2025 10:02

Another vote for it being an absolute game changer!
I live alone, I don't particularly dislike washing up by hand but it's astonishing how even with just one person, dirty dishes somehow multiply and daily washing up to keep the kitchen in a reasonable state is a bit of a drudge.

I had a new kitchen fitted three years ago and treated myself to a dishwasher (IKEA, slimline, no issues at all so far) - Would hate to be without it. Makes it so much easier to keep things clean & tidy.

If you can, would suggest having multiples of the dishes/cutlery/bowls etc. that you use most often, so you're not having to dig around in the dishwasher to retrieve and wash your favourite spatula (everyone has a favourite spatula, right? Right...?)
Also, if you can get a model that safely fits taller (wine) glasses (my only gripe) and make sure it has automatic door release on completion of the cycle.

And... Accept that no one else will be able to stack it to your standards. Just accept and let it go.
😉

Snap, just cat and I, love my dishwasher

Twinkletoes127 · 22/12/2025 11:38

I personally refuse to so much as rinse out a cup, I detest washing up and when our dishwasher packed in last year, I asked DP to go pick one up on his way home from work.

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