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To think that free breakfast at school is a bad idea due to the quality?

637 replies

Mushypeass · 07/06/2025 21:20

Firstly, I fully agree with the principle of free breakfast for all pupils. My reservation comes from the quality of food that is often served up in UK school canteens. Obviously a poor quality breakfast is better than no breakfast at all but AIBU that it could encourage children to eat even more UPFs? For example, children who have may had a relatively healthy breakfast at home may now opt eat UPFs at school with their pals instead.

Seocondly, why is the food so poor in so many schools? How can other countries manage to provide their youth with nutritious and healthy meals but we can’t?

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ruethewhirl · 09/06/2025 10:11

Rhayra · 08/06/2025 19:31

But really cornflakes are 80p who hasn't got the money for breakfast? I was jobless and young (look up how much less benefits under 25s get compared to 25+) and my kids still went to school having had breakfast.
Who is broker than a jobless under 25?

The neglectful types who don't feed their kids breakfast aren't leaving the house early to take them to breakfast club either.

I don't know where you're shopping if you're managing to get cornflakes for 80p?

angela1952 · 09/06/2025 10:18

My GC go to the paid-for Breakfast Club which starts earlier and we're all concerned by how little they are given to eat and the fact that my GS sometimes doesn't eat anything. It's all carbohydrate, cereal and toast, never any protein. Also concerning for us us that now there is a free BC which starts later, effictively my DD is paying a hefty fee for what is really 45 minutes of childcare with an inadequate breakfast.

VeganStar · 09/06/2025 10:19

Natsku · 09/06/2025 09:43

Try being on benefits with coeliac disease, we can't buy 70p cereal or dead cheap loaves of bread.

I’m coeliac just on a pension now and you have my sympathy.
Everything we have to buy that is gluten free costs twice, sometimes three times as much yet it’s half the size and mostly tastes disgusting.

angela1952 · 09/06/2025 10:22

mrsmalcolmreynolds · 07/06/2025 21:31

YABVU.

  1. You don't know what the breakfast will be so doom mongering about the quality unnecessarily.
  1. I doubt that many families who can sort a breakfast at home readily are going to flock to this instead.
  1. THE BIGGIE. You said yourself some breakfast is better than nothing. You are throwing obstacles up against this from a pearl clutching, privileged "what about the UPF" standpoint - how on earth is that a justification for not feeding children in need one way or the other!

Families use the breakfast club because they go to work. If they can leave the children earlier they can often get home earlier so don't need to spend money on after school care. And I know that the breakfast is pretty basic, my GC have been in Breakfast club for months before the free one started.

Kirbert2 · 09/06/2025 10:32

Natsku · 09/06/2025 09:43

Try being on benefits with coeliac disease, we can't buy 70p cereal or dead cheap loaves of bread.

I feel you there. My son doesn't have coeliac disease but he has other medical needs and at one point he had to have a vegan, gluten free, low fibre diet which was such a nightmare and incredibly expensive.

Now he is restricted to a low fibre diet which is still a pain but not half as bad as it used to be.

Fetaface · 09/06/2025 10:35

ruethewhirl · 09/06/2025 10:11

I don't know where you're shopping if you're managing to get cornflakes for 80p?

Asda, Aldi, Sainsbury's and Tesco are all 88p for a box.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 09/06/2025 10:38

Rhayra · 09/06/2025 08:36

Not to turn this thread into a massive sob story but I've been there with most of them things on that list as well. Did you look up how much less under 25s get in benefits than over 25s?
I guess the government assumes no one moves out their parents basement or has children till 25.

Anyway cornflakes are still 70-80p in most supermarkets and most of the people claiming they can't afford to give their kids breakfast are talking out their ass

I was under 25 at one point 🙂

Sometimes there are reasons why providing breakfast at home outside the obvious neglect isn't reliable/feasible/manageable or where a free one in school can be an absolute godsend. And that's why Fed is Best, rather than focusing on attributing blame - focus on the children who need food and how to deliver it, rather than diversions that will be used to justify not doing it.

ruethewhirl · 09/06/2025 11:51

Fetaface · 09/06/2025 10:35

Asda, Aldi, Sainsbury's and Tesco are all 88p for a box.

Really! Fair enough, I can't remember where we bought our last box but they weren't that cheap.

Rhayra · 09/06/2025 12:05

ruethewhirl · 09/06/2025 10:11

I don't know where you're shopping if you're managing to get cornflakes for 80p?

Most supermarkets, I'm talking about regular cornflakes not Kellogg's though

Rhayra · 09/06/2025 12:11

NeverDropYourMooncup · 09/06/2025 10:38

I was under 25 at one point 🙂

Sometimes there are reasons why providing breakfast at home outside the obvious neglect isn't reliable/feasible/manageable or where a free one in school can be an absolute godsend. And that's why Fed is Best, rather than focusing on attributing blame - focus on the children who need food and how to deliver it, rather than diversions that will be used to justify not doing it.

You was under 25 once but did you have rent and bills to pay and kids to get to school? Because I did until recently and you get far less money when you're jobless and under 25 then people realise. Still managed to buy cornflakes for the kids.

Like I said though I'm focusing on the kids who need food by pointing out every family I know with kids who don't get breakfast they aren't getting to school on time for the breakfast club so it's not the solution. Those families need help from social services

x2boys · 09/06/2025 12:18

Rhayra · 09/06/2025 12:11

You was under 25 once but did you have rent and bills to pay and kids to get to school? Because I did until recently and you get far less money when you're jobless and under 25 then people realise. Still managed to buy cornflakes for the kids.

Like I said though I'm focusing on the kids who need food by pointing out every family I know with kids who don't get breakfast they aren't getting to school on time for the breakfast club so it's not the solution. Those families need help from social services

I thought it was only single people under 25 that were affected,?
Surely regardless of age you would have received universal credit ,that made provision for up to two children, and child benefit?

Natsku · 09/06/2025 12:23

VeganStar · 09/06/2025 10:19

I’m coeliac just on a pension now and you have my sympathy.
Everything we have to buy that is gluten free costs twice, sometimes three times as much yet it’s half the size and mostly tastes disgusting.

Thankfully I'm not on benefits any more and can afford the overpriced gluten free food but back then I had to rely a lot on expired bread given away by charity - gf bread is hard and dry enough as it is, even worse when its stale.

Rhayra · 09/06/2025 12:28

x2boys · 09/06/2025 12:18

I thought it was only single people under 25 that were affected,?
Surely regardless of age you would have received universal credit ,that made provision for up to two children, and child benefit?

Universal credit for children and to help with the rent but it was far less than what an over 25 gets despite living an adult life. Now I have a job and am much better off (no time for people who insist anyone unemployed is better off than someone with a job), truly there aren't many people broker than an under 25 with no job and kids.
This is why I don't buy that there's a large percentage of people who apparently can't afford breakfast for their kids someone even once tried saying one in three.

Natsku · 09/06/2025 12:28

Kirbert2 · 09/06/2025 10:32

I feel you there. My son doesn't have coeliac disease but he has other medical needs and at one point he had to have a vegan, gluten free, low fibre diet which was such a nightmare and incredibly expensive.

Now he is restricted to a low fibre diet which is still a pain but not half as bad as it used to be.

That must have been so tough, glad its not as restricted now.
For a few years it was me with coeliac disease and my daughter who was allergic to milk, soya, and eggs, so a bit difficult and cake was out of the question (her first birthday cake would have made a good Frisbee Grin) but then she outgrew those allergies and it got easier, then was diagnosed with coeliac disease too which actually helped because in my country children with coeliac disease get disability benefits until they're 16. That made a massive difference. And thankfully those poor days are behind me now.

x2boys · 09/06/2025 12:36

Rhayra · 09/06/2025 12:28

Universal credit for children and to help with the rent but it was far less than what an over 25 gets despite living an adult life. Now I have a job and am much better off (no time for people who insist anyone unemployed is better off than someone with a job), truly there aren't many people broker than an under 25 with no job and kids.
This is why I don't buy that there's a large percentage of people who apparently can't afford breakfast for their kids someone even once tried saying one in three.

I didn't know that ,thanks for the explanation and I do agree but also think thst if parents won't feed their kids there needs to be more intervention from ss and a less than perfect breakfast from school is better than no breakfast.

Kirbert2 · 09/06/2025 12:39

Natsku · 09/06/2025 12:28

That must have been so tough, glad its not as restricted now.
For a few years it was me with coeliac disease and my daughter who was allergic to milk, soya, and eggs, so a bit difficult and cake was out of the question (her first birthday cake would have made a good Frisbee Grin) but then she outgrew those allergies and it got easier, then was diagnosed with coeliac disease too which actually helped because in my country children with coeliac disease get disability benefits until they're 16. That made a massive difference. And thankfully those poor days are behind me now.

It was. He didn't like 99% of the gluten free stuff and practically lived on the same 'special' pizza for 3 meals a day until we could start slowly introducing other foods.

The pleasure on his little face when he could finally eat regular bread and things like rice krispies was everything.😂

Middleagedstriker · 09/06/2025 12:50

Missedthis · 07/06/2025 21:28

Holy fuck.

Try coming to a school serving a community in the bottom 10% for deprivation.

Then come back and talk about UPFs.

I think schools in poorer areas should we prioritised to provide healthier options. My daughter's school is deprived area (top 10%) and they do a lot of effort at their breakfast club of including healthier options as poorer child are more likely to be obese.

Snakebite61 · 09/06/2025 14:04

Mushypeass · 07/06/2025 21:20

Firstly, I fully agree with the principle of free breakfast for all pupils. My reservation comes from the quality of food that is often served up in UK school canteens. Obviously a poor quality breakfast is better than no breakfast at all but AIBU that it could encourage children to eat even more UPFs? For example, children who have may had a relatively healthy breakfast at home may now opt eat UPFs at school with their pals instead.

Seocondly, why is the food so poor in so many schools? How can other countries manage to provide their youth with nutritious and healthy meals but we can’t?

So you'd rather see kids starve?

Playinwithfire · 09/06/2025 15:11

YouWillFindMeInTheGarden · 07/06/2025 21:23

There’s no money that’s why!

There is plenty of money, the government just aren't spending it wisely!!

OldChinaJug · 09/06/2025 17:38

Snakebite61 · 09/06/2025 14:04

So you'd rather see kids starve?

Yes. She would. That's exactly what she said 🙄

ProudScoutMum · 09/06/2025 18:36

Mushypeass · 07/06/2025 22:22

Admittedly* I have no catering experience but porridge is usually pretty cheap wherever you shop. Surely making up a big vat with some fruit wouldn’t cost the earth? I may be wrong though.

Edited

You honestly wouldn't suggest porridge if you had to make it on mass. We made it at scout camp when we had the building for Winter camp and the vast majority of the kids wouldn't even try it. It was also awful to keep warm without it ending up too thick to use. Scrubbing the dried remains off of the plastic bowls was also fairly gross and time consuming when we needed adults for other tasks, meaning often one of us got stuck doing it each day while the others did other tasks.

The kitchen facilities at 3 of the schools my kids attended would struggle to provide hot food for a breakfast club, the breakfast clubs they did have served bagels and cereal, and that was mostly with very few staff who struggled to get it done in time for school to start.

You said you have been in a lot of schools have you seen the amount of fruit that gets thrown away every week? I used to be on the PTA and we asked why it couldn't be given to the kids rather than put in the bin, it was purely a logistics problem, which apparently they were unwilling to solve with a free fruit table in the playground each day, even when we offered to organise it.

You would have the same problem with the food you want to see on the breakfast club menu. The school got around storing bread products by fundraising and buying a chest freezer. They got dry goods delivered and they could just about find space to store a weeks worth. They wouldn't have anyone willing to be responsible for ordering fresh stuff daily and storing it correctly.

In an ideal world they would offer what you deem acceptable but if we were in an ideal world it wouldn't be needed anyway would it?

The biggest barriers to increasing the quality of food are cost, time, space and actual people to do the jobs and they are all in short supply in every single school across the country. You could solve any one of those problems individually and you still might not get the kids to actually eat the food provided.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 09/06/2025 18:51

Rhayra · 09/06/2025 12:11

You was under 25 once but did you have rent and bills to pay and kids to get to school? Because I did until recently and you get far less money when you're jobless and under 25 then people realise. Still managed to buy cornflakes for the kids.

Like I said though I'm focusing on the kids who need food by pointing out every family I know with kids who don't get breakfast they aren't getting to school on time for the breakfast club so it's not the solution. Those families need help from social services

Yes, I did. I found having a low but regular, reliable income was vastly better than the financial chaos and insecurity of trying to work with small children and manage the hugely increased costs of working - along with the tendency of employers to know they have you over a barrel and threaten not just to end your employment without warning, but to say you were fired so that you'd get sanctioned for months.

ThisDandyWriter · 09/06/2025 18:59

Snakebite61 · 09/06/2025 14:04

So you'd rather see kids starve?

Eh? Where did she say that??

Rhayra · 09/06/2025 20:16

NeverDropYourMooncup · 09/06/2025 18:51

Yes, I did. I found having a low but regular, reliable income was vastly better than the financial chaos and insecurity of trying to work with small children and manage the hugely increased costs of working - along with the tendency of employers to know they have you over a barrel and threaten not just to end your employment without warning, but to say you were fired so that you'd get sanctioned for months.

So youre saying you also had rent and bills to pay and multiple school age kids to get to school before you were 25? in recent years because rents never been higher than the past ten years?

I mean of course I'm not the only one but seems that way on the school run haha. Sounds like your employers were assholes and I'm sorry to hear you had such a stressful time but me personally find I'm a lot better off working even a minimum wage job than when I was jobless

usernamealreadytaken · 10/06/2025 07:26

PinotDragon86 · 07/06/2025 21:41

To clarify my comment, I meant be angry that children are going to school hungry because their parents can't afford to feed them breakfast in the first place.

Shouln’t we also be angry at the parents who could afford 50p for a loaf and just dont? Throwing money at stuff doesn't always stick in the right place (from experience). Those of us who did it right don’t begrudge children being fed, but we do begrudge feckless parents being enabled.