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To think that free breakfast at school is a bad idea due to the quality?

637 replies

Mushypeass · 07/06/2025 21:20

Firstly, I fully agree with the principle of free breakfast for all pupils. My reservation comes from the quality of food that is often served up in UK school canteens. Obviously a poor quality breakfast is better than no breakfast at all but AIBU that it could encourage children to eat even more UPFs? For example, children who have may had a relatively healthy breakfast at home may now opt eat UPFs at school with their pals instead.

Seocondly, why is the food so poor in so many schools? How can other countries manage to provide their youth with nutritious and healthy meals but we can’t?

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sprinklesandshines · 07/06/2025 21:42

Yes parents shouldn’t have children if they can’t afford them, but some people lose their jobs after they have kids.

Fetaface · 07/06/2025 21:43

Dinners are created specifically to have the correct amount of each food group to ensure it is a balanced diet. There are vegetables on every meal and must be served as is the rule. There is fresh salad and fruit daily. The cakes are made with vegetables like beetroot.

The school meals are not fully funded nor are the breakfast clubs. The breakfast clubs impact on learning and are causing issues with taking staff from the children during lesson times as do the dinner times.

I'd rather they were fully funded.

IReallyLoveItHere · 07/06/2025 21:44

The schools in my village do processed cereals or toast with jam and marg.

I agree with you, they are teaching kids that highly processed nutritionally void foods are the breakfast of choice.

Fruit and yoghurt would be better. School could even teach the kids to make their own yoghurt.

Mushypeass · 07/06/2025 21:44

@Missedthis @mrsmalcolmreynolds

My whole career has been spent supporting disadvantaged children mainly due to the fact I was one many years ago. There is no pearl clutching here. The fact I was 22 before I ever tasted any other vegetable than a potato or carrot is exactly why I am concerned about the content of these meals. These children need food education more than most. Or should they just have their gruel and be thankful?

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YouWillFindMeInTheGarden · 07/06/2025 21:45

sprinklesandshines · 07/06/2025 21:42

Yes parents shouldn’t have children if they can’t afford them, but some people lose their jobs after they have kids.

But are able to apply for benefits to house and feed them….theres also food banks if necessary

BallerinaRadio · 07/06/2025 21:45

IReallyLoveItHere · 07/06/2025 21:44

The schools in my village do processed cereals or toast with jam and marg.

I agree with you, they are teaching kids that highly processed nutritionally void foods are the breakfast of choice.

Fruit and yoghurt would be better. School could even teach the kids to make their own yoghurt.

Yes because teachers notoriously have so much spare time on their hands FFS 🙄

Putthekettleon73 · 07/06/2025 21:45

No salad or fruit bar here! We have steamplicity meals delivered. its not good food.

Breakfast is cheap bread, cheap spread (not butter).. no way of making porridge as no school kitchen.

If course fed is better than nothing but it's upf cheap food and its a big shame that we can't offer better to kids.

1AngelicFruitCake · 07/06/2025 21:45

I’m sorry but focus on the aim of it. There are child who have parents that can’t afford to feed them breakfast, children who have parents that go to will early and the child is left to get their own breakfast or children who have parents that can’t be bothered to get up and take them to school, never mind feed them a breakfast! It’s about children having something when they come to school.

BallerinaRadio · 07/06/2025 21:46

Mushypeass · 07/06/2025 21:44

@Missedthis @mrsmalcolmreynolds

My whole career has been spent supporting disadvantaged children mainly due to the fact I was one many years ago. There is no pearl clutching here. The fact I was 22 before I ever tasted any other vegetable than a potato or carrot is exactly why I am concerned about the content of these meals. These children need food education more than most. Or should they just have their gruel and be thankful?

There have been examples of some good breakfast choices on here, what do you see on your travels?

Bex5490 · 07/06/2025 21:46

Also, @Mushypeass , I’m guessing you don’t spend much time around struggling families living on the breadline.

As a senior leader and safeguarding lead at a primary school, I can tell you that free breakfast of any kind can:

  • improve attendance for families who are persistently absent.
  • give poor children a better hope of succeeding in education because they’re not spending the whole morning too hungry to concentrate.
  • give children who find school difficult a soft start to the day and more time around their ‘safe adults.’

Etc. etc.

We are absolutely on our knees running schools with no money and trying to support vulnerable families so tbh - we’ll take anything we can get.

IReallyLoveItHere · 07/06/2025 21:46

BallerinaRadio · 07/06/2025 21:45

Yes because teachers notoriously have so much spare time on their hands FFS 🙄

That was your takeaway?

CaptainFuture · 07/06/2025 21:47

LividVermiciousKnid · 07/06/2025 21:36

It will be utter shite.

All school dinners are utter shite. And ours are no longer even cheap, but utter shite.

Despite that, a free shite breakfast is still better than no breakfast.

Let’s deal with one thing at a time, as a society.

This, are the children and family against their will being forced to go and take this offer?

Nurseryquestions86 · 07/06/2025 21:47

IReallyLoveItHere · 07/06/2025 21:44

The schools in my village do processed cereals or toast with jam and marg.

I agree with you, they are teaching kids that highly processed nutritionally void foods are the breakfast of choice.

Fruit and yoghurt would be better. School could even teach the kids to make their own yoghurt.

My friend works in a school and has had to buy jumpers for her students and take uniform home to wash it as they are coming into school wearing filthy clothes, unbathed and hungry.

Making yoghurt will not be high on her list and a bowl of cornflakes although processed will make sure a child can actually learn as they are not starving.

I don't think some people realise the issues some schools face honestly.

Allswellthatendswelll · 07/06/2025 21:48

What UPFs do you mean? Bread? Cereal?
Is that really the worst thing in the world. Maybe peanut butter instead of nutella and fruit and fibre instead of coco pops.

I doubt many families are serving their children home made yogurt or multi grain porridge in the morning.

Don't let the perfect be an enemy of the good.

Bex5490 · 07/06/2025 21:49

Mushypeass · 07/06/2025 21:44

@Missedthis @mrsmalcolmreynolds

My whole career has been spent supporting disadvantaged children mainly due to the fact I was one many years ago. There is no pearl clutching here. The fact I was 22 before I ever tasted any other vegetable than a potato or carrot is exactly why I am concerned about the content of these meals. These children need food education more than most. Or should they just have their gruel and be thankful?

Just read this so fair enough…

But still, for a lot of kids something is better than nothing and we definitely do not have the capacity in school to be teaching children to make fruit yogurt every morning!

CaptainFuture · 07/06/2025 21:50

School could even teach the kids to make their own yoghurt.
😆 of course!!PRIORITIES!!

Mushypeass · 07/06/2025 21:50

YouWillFindMeInTheGarden · 07/06/2025 21:39

for breakfast?

No. I’ve only seen one breakfast so far (hot chocolate and cheap white bread mainly) Although in one place I did see fried chicken wings being served as a break time snack. I’m assuming the breakfast offering will be of similar quality to what is offered for lunch.

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feelingbleh · 07/06/2025 21:50

So what do you suggest parents pay £5 a day for their child to have breakfast at school. I'd love to see how well that would go down.

Favouritefruits · 07/06/2025 21:51

School haven’t got time to be making toast and buttering bread, it’s a pre wrapped brioche roll or a pre wrapped soreen with a carton on milk, a piece of fruit on the side. Our school is in a deprived area si we have had breakfast provided for over 10years.

Honestly teachers don’t have the time to be pouring milk and washing bowls, it’s a cheap filling breakfast, and if you’ve not eaten anything it fills your tummy!

CaptainFuture · 07/06/2025 21:52

feelingbleh · 07/06/2025 21:50

So what do you suggest parents pay £5 a day for their child to have breakfast at school. I'd love to see how well that would go down.

Only some parents of course.

ilovesooty · 07/06/2025 21:52

IReallyLoveItHere · 07/06/2025 21:44

The schools in my village do processed cereals or toast with jam and marg.

I agree with you, they are teaching kids that highly processed nutritionally void foods are the breakfast of choice.

Fruit and yoghurt would be better. School could even teach the kids to make their own yoghurt.

Make their own yogurt? What planet are you on?

Some posters on this thread seem not to realise that there are children who go to school with nothing to eat and no parental input. Talk about privilege.

Mushypeass · 07/06/2025 21:53

Bex5490 · 07/06/2025 21:46

Also, @Mushypeass , I’m guessing you don’t spend much time around struggling families living on the breadline.

As a senior leader and safeguarding lead at a primary school, I can tell you that free breakfast of any kind can:

  • improve attendance for families who are persistently absent.
  • give poor children a better hope of succeeding in education because they’re not spending the whole morning too hungry to concentrate.
  • give children who find school difficult a soft start to the day and more time around their ‘safe adults.’

Etc. etc.

We are absolutely on our knees running schools with no money and trying to support vulnerable families so tbh - we’ll take anything we can get.

I do spend a lot of time. Hence my concern in what these children are being fed.

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FoodAppropriation · 07/06/2025 21:55

Bex5490 · 07/06/2025 21:36

Every school I’ve ever worked in has a salad bar and fresh fruit.

I am South East London, never heard of one in state school.

The only kids I know who have access to these are in private schools.

FoodAppropriation · 07/06/2025 21:55

Our standards are so low in this country, it's depressing

Mushypeass · 07/06/2025 21:56

feelingbleh · 07/06/2025 21:50

So what do you suggest parents pay £5 a day for their child to have breakfast at school. I'd love to see how well that would go down.

I suggest we look at models from other countries where they manage it. France for example.

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