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cardibach · 06/06/2025 21:52

HeadDeskHeadDesk · 06/06/2025 21:48

My point was that if those people are known troublemakers and they have a protected characteristic, what then? You might be able to exlude them after they've done something wrong, but you wouldn't be able to exclude them purely because of a fear that they might be a problem, even if experience tells you that they will be. Not because they are Travellers per se, and not because you are a racist per se, but because they have a reputation for anti-social behaviour that goes before them and something about their demeanor in your presence is making you uncomfortable.

Whereas in TR's case, it seems the restaurant/pub can sling him out based on his reputation alone, and 'feeling uncomfortable' even though he did nothing wrong while there.

If you did that to a specific group of Travellers who you had read/heard bad things about but had not personally experienced any issues at all, you'd almost certainly risk being sued for racial discrimination.

I do know what a protected characteristic is. And yes, some people do have them, some people don't, so I am not sure what you are driving at there. Confused

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Yes you can if someone has convictions for violence you can ban them whatevere protected characteristics they have.

AmandaHoldensLips · 06/06/2025 21:52

I'm guessing any restaurant that did serve him, his plate would be a "special order" enhanced by the kitchen staff.

Clavinova · 06/06/2025 21:53

cardibach · 06/06/2025 21:40

I think you are confusing me with someone else. I’ve never claimed to have read all his court records. A general awareness of what they will say is enough t9 make a judgement. Alongside his guilty plea, obvs.

Well ok, you implied you had read his court records and had a thorough knowledge of his convictions - and you definitely posted about the court case/conviction I was asking about.

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cardibach · 06/06/2025 21:54

Clavinova · 06/06/2025 21:53

Well ok, you implied you had read his court records and had a thorough knowledge of his convictions - and you definitely posted about the court case/conviction I was asking about.

I didn’t imply anything of the sort, but ok.
And yes, I’ve commented on the other case where he almost caused a trial to collapse by his contempt of court.

Dangermoo · 06/06/2025 21:54

MiloMinderbinder925 · 06/06/2025 21:36

Well, they have got five MPs...

Oh dear.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 06/06/2025 21:55

Dangermoo · 06/06/2025 21:54

Oh dear.

I know.

Dangermoo · 06/06/2025 21:56

MiloMinderbinder925 · 06/06/2025 21:55

I know.

Political landscapes aren't your forte, are they?

Hoardasurass · 06/06/2025 21:56

cardibach · 06/06/2025 20:04

And that right doesn’t override the right of a business to refuse to serve you for whatever reason they like (as long as it’s not because of a protected characteristic).

They refused to serve him because of his scarily mainstream beliefs about immigration etc, philosophical beliefs are a protected characteristic hence they can't refuse him service on that basis.
I really wish people would actually read the law and understand that no matter how odious, hurtful or offensive someone's beliefs are to you, you can't discriminate against them for holding those beliefs.
Also there's a huge difference between having a no trainers, football shirts or purple hair policy that is applied to everyone equally is different to discriminating against someone for their beliefs

QurikySparrowHatrack · 06/06/2025 21:56

Clavinova · 06/06/2025 21:26

You said he risked collapsing a grooming gang trial - I would imagine the court records relating to Robinson's conviction were mostly concerned about the rapist defendants receiving a fair trial?

That Robinson risked the collapse of the trial was addressed by Judge Marson (in the original summary contempt hearing) while the trial was ongoing...

"No one could possibly conclude that that was likely to be anything other than highly prejudicial to the defendants in the present trial … if the jurors in my present trial get to know of this video, I will no doubt be faced with an application to discharge the jury."

Given that his actions prompted 5 applications (during the trial) for the jury to be dimissed, it'll no doubt be addressed in the records of the original proceedings too.

ARealitycheck · 06/06/2025 21:58

Unless they are taking the same approach to every patron, they are guilty of bullying & imo victimisation, which I hope they get sued for.

Having different opinions is not reason to refuse service, nor is previous criminal prosecutions. If they are saying those with a prosecution are not welcome, they should advertise as such and ensure nobody in the premises has one.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 06/06/2025 21:58

Dangermoo · 06/06/2025 21:56

Political landscapes aren't your forte, are they?

Well, I can count.

Livelovebehappy · 06/06/2025 21:58

🤷‍♀️ guess it’s not the first time he’s been asked to leave somewhere, and won’t be the last. He’ll have got a meal somewhere else I guess……

Panterusblackish · 06/06/2025 21:59

MrsMitford3 · 06/06/2025 17:17

I am donning my tin hat here.
I am not a fan of his politics at all but where do we draw the line?
Who decides?
It makes me very uncomfortable.
Is it ok for restaurants to refuse women wearing "Adult human female" shirts?
Or ppl with different coloured skin?
Different religious beliefs?
Ppl with keffiyehs on?
Gay people?
Ppl in burkas?
A women only event?

I assume everyone will come on to say it's not the same but I feel like the pitchforks will be next.

Everyone is jubilant now because they dislike him but next time what if it someone you like/agree with politically that is publicly being thrown out?

I think the ability to disagree and respect others opinions is lost and imho that is not a good thing for society.

I totally agree with this.

He is an absolute dickhead. Awful, awful person.

However he has served his punishment.

It's important to remember how people behaved towards the women of mumsnet and others standing up for women's rights regarding the trans issue. They had women doxxed, cancelled, I'm sure transactivists would happily have seen women like many of us refused service and gloated about it. Because they considered our views hateful.

Liberalism is a wonderful thing but it is also a cross to bear, because we must always remember that our values apply to those we abhor just as equally as we apply them to those we value.

This is not OK of Hawksmoor

Dangermoo · 06/06/2025 21:59

MiloMinderbinder925 · 06/06/2025 21:58

Well, I can count.

Yet you don't know the rationale behind that figure.

cardibach · 06/06/2025 21:59

Hoardasurass · 06/06/2025 21:56

They refused to serve him because of his scarily mainstream beliefs about immigration etc, philosophical beliefs are a protected characteristic hence they can't refuse him service on that basis.
I really wish people would actually read the law and understand that no matter how odious, hurtful or offensive someone's beliefs are to you, you can't discriminate against them for holding those beliefs.
Also there's a huge difference between having a no trainers, football shirts or purple hair policy that is applied to everyone equally is different to discriminating against someone for their beliefs

That and his convictions for contempt of court and his violent history, I guess. I don’t think his views are mainstream either. Some of them have gained significant support due to certain politicians seeking to blame everything on immigrants for their own ends, but my experience of the country isn’t that most are xenophobic racists.
Edit: not all beliefs are protected. Maybe have a closer look at the law. Being a racist isn’t protected. Quite the opposite.

WibbleyPie · 06/06/2025 22:00

PinkiOcelot · 06/06/2025 21:41

Yes.

Why? They're not slaves to the rest of society, and they don't exist for the sole purpose of serving other people.

People seem to think service staff are some sort of second class citizens who shouldn't have any rights and who they can feel powerful over to massage their own ego.

Pathetic.

Dangermoo · 06/06/2025 22:00

cardibach · 06/06/2025 21:59

That and his convictions for contempt of court and his violent history, I guess. I don’t think his views are mainstream either. Some of them have gained significant support due to certain politicians seeking to blame everything on immigrants for their own ends, but my experience of the country isn’t that most are xenophobic racists.
Edit: not all beliefs are protected. Maybe have a closer look at the law. Being a racist isn’t protected. Quite the opposite.

Edited

"You guess"

BIossomtoes · 06/06/2025 22:01

I really wish people would actually read the law and understand that no matter how odious, hurtful or offensive someone's beliefs are to you, you can't discriminate against them for holding those beliefs.

This is correct in an employment context. In a privately owned restaurant you can be refused service for any reason at all, in fact the owner doesn’t need to give a reason - they might not like your face or the way you smell or your lisp - they can lawfully refuse to serve you and there’s fuck all you can do about it.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 06/06/2025 22:01

Dangermoo · 06/06/2025 21:59

Yet you don't know the rationale behind that figure.

Fewer people voted for their MPs during the GE.

cardibach · 06/06/2025 22:03

Dangermoo · 06/06/2025 22:00

"You guess"

Oh dear

Dangermoo · 06/06/2025 22:04

MiloMinderbinder925 · 06/06/2025 22:01

Fewer people voted for their MPs during the GE.

Which means ...? You can do it.

QurikySparrowHatrack · 06/06/2025 22:05

HeadDeskHeadDesk · 06/06/2025 21:48

My point was that if those people are known troublemakers and they have a protected characteristic, what then? You might be able to exlude them after they've done something wrong, but you wouldn't be able to exclude them purely because of a fear that they might be a problem, even if experience tells you that they will be. Not because they are Travellers per se, and not because you are a racist per se, but because they have a reputation for anti-social behaviour that goes before them and something about their demeanor in your presence is making you uncomfortable.

Whereas in TR's case, it seems the restaurant/pub can sling him out based on his reputation alone, and 'feeling uncomfortable' even though he did nothing wrong while there.

If you did that to a specific group of Travellers who you had read/heard bad things about but had not personally experienced any issues at all, you'd almost certainly risk being sued for racial discrimination.

I do know what a protected characteristic is. And yes, some people do have them, some people don't, so I am not sure what you are driving at there. Confused

Edited

I do know what a protected characteristic is. And yes, some people do have them, some people don't, so I am not sure what you are driving at there
How could someone not have an age, sex or race?

ARealitycheck · 06/06/2025 22:06

BIossomtoes · 06/06/2025 22:01

I really wish people would actually read the law and understand that no matter how odious, hurtful or offensive someone's beliefs are to you, you can't discriminate against them for holding those beliefs.

This is correct in an employment context. In a privately owned restaurant you can be refused service for any reason at all, in fact the owner doesn’t need to give a reason - they might not like your face or the way you smell or your lisp - they can lawfully refuse to serve you and there’s fuck all you can do about it.

Untrue. They can only refuse service in certain circumstances. In this case they refused illegally.

https://www.visitbritain.org/business-advice/pink-book/accepting-customers

A shot of a diverse family walking in the countryside.

Accepting customers

When you can refuse a customer and what counts as discrimination under the Equality Act, including age discrimination.

https://www.visitbritain.org/business-advice/pink-book/accepting-customers

MiloMinderbinder925 · 06/06/2025 22:06

Dangermoo · 06/06/2025 22:04

Which means ...? You can do it.

Which means they have very few MPs.

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