Been on MN for many years, learnt an awful lot of important stuff from many contributors over the years:
now though, a woman who can’t order her own food, and; people being completely and obviously used by ‘friends’ to help them with childcare when the father won’t lift a finger.
there are so many more - women who really need to be given the strength and support to lead their own lives, and put their children first.
(fwiw my DH and I and DD all wore trainers to our wedding, and encouraged people to wear what they felt comfortable in, celebrating and happiness was our sentiment once we were married x)