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Fancy dress 30th party in summer - outfit ideas

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OHWHatsAGirlToWear95 · 05/06/2025 15:40

I'm going to a fancy dress party in Summer and I'm overweight. Around size 20-22. I need outfit ideas so if anyone can think of a decent fancy dress costume for an apple shaped woman, please help!

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angelinawasrobbed · 05/06/2025 15:43

Is there a theme?

hydriotaphia · 05/06/2025 15:44

I once wore jodhpurs, a loose white shirt, a waistcoat and a drawn on moustache as Mr Darcy. I thought it looked good and people seemed to like it!

OHWHatsAGirlToWear95 · 05/06/2025 15:46

No it's a free for all you can go as anyone from anything so that in itself is unhelpfully vague.

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dontcomeatme · 05/06/2025 15:52

I'm a larger woman and I went as the trunchbull last dress up party 🤣 it was a huge hit. I just wrote the writing on a grey jumper with a pen. Cost nothing. If this is outing I don't really care I'm very proud of my miss trunchbull

Fancy dress 30th party in summer - outfit ideas
saltinesandcoffeecups · 05/06/2025 15:54

Do you have any theme in mind or anything that’s totally off the table? Is the location of the party going to be a factor (Outdoor, stately manor, etc.)

Without any additional info how about “Mother Earth” - White flowy dress or homemade toga, lots of fake flowers attached (Example 1 from Amazon Example 2 from Amazon, a floral staff (Example Amazon not this one but something like it, butterflies, fairy lights.

5128gap · 05/06/2025 15:55

Do you want to look amusing, as in don't care if you look ridiculous/ unattractive as you're in it for the laughs, or do you want something you'll feel nice and attractive in?

itsgettingweird · 05/06/2025 15:55

If you have a flowery dress and bright cardigan (royal blue or pink) you can go as Delores Umbridge from Harry Potter.

Loving the Miss Trunchball costume!

steff13 · 05/06/2025 15:56

When you say a fancy dress party you mean a costume party correct?

Who throws just a generic costume party? There should always be a theme.

How do you want to look? Funny? Sexy?

Tagyoureit · 05/06/2025 16:01

White dress with ivy headband, Greek goddess.

Green floral dress, floral headband, tefiti from moana.

Black and white, cruella de vil.

Flower power, round sunglass, hippy vibe.

Demin dungarees, yellow t-shirt, minion.

Really depends in what you feel comfortable with but at the height of summer, I'd try to avoid nylon and facepaint

Topbird29 · 05/06/2025 16:01

Am a similar size. Have you got a friend / partner that will go dresses up as similar theme? I've done various costume parties before - blues brothers (dark trousers, blazer, shirt, tie, sunnies and dark hat), flappers (got a dress and accessories from amazon). 80s style madonna - crimped hair, rara skirt and fingerless gloves. Could be ghostbusters? Sixties style with some big hair?

Clickjaw · 05/06/2025 16:06

Anyone there that you fancy?

minipie · 05/06/2025 16:07

Viking or medieval wench?

bridesheadremoved · 05/06/2025 16:22

Nightshirt, nightcap, slippers and candle in holder - Wee Willie Winkie

Sparkly shift-dress, headband with feather, long cigarette holder - Flapper

Nightshirt, slippers, string bag with 2 teddy bears in it, carry other big teddy and packet of porridge oats - Goldilocks

hellswelshy · 05/06/2025 16:27

How about a 90s raver? Smiley t-shirt(or similar) , sunglasses, whistle, bucket hat? Hair in bunches?

Navyblueberries · 05/06/2025 16:31

A cat, black dress and hairband with cat ears. And winged eyeliner. Maybe a tail.

saltinesandcoffeecups · 05/06/2025 16:37

Another idea.

Cat in the Hat -

  • Hat
  • Red and white striped long skirt
  • Black foam or cardboard cut in a circle around your waist (for the brim)
  • Cat
  • Black shirt
  • whiskers
  • ears
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