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To say that modern dating would improve overnight if people had any shame left?

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MyRedPoet · 03/06/2025 15:41

Dating culture has gotten shameless and not always in a good way.

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lnks · 03/06/2025 15:42

In what way?

IgneousSedimentary · 03/06/2025 15:42

What use do you think ‘shame’ would be?

ChocolateFairy25 · 03/06/2025 15:45

I agree with you in terms of online dating, alot of people seem to have no shame online and treat others terribly. I'm not sure about modern dating as a whole though.

What are your particular concerns?

DontTouchRoach · 03/06/2025 15:52

Shameless about what, though?

People should certainly feel more shame about treating others like shit. They shouldn't feel shame when it comes to being up front about what they want.

If someone really just wants casual sex, then they shouldn't feel ashamed about that, for example. Being shameless in that situation would meaning being honest, which is a good thing.

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 03/06/2025 15:54

we need more details to pass judgement on the shamelessness, op 🥰

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