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Why does the UN and other organisations not do anything about women in Afghanistan?

174 replies

SCANDEL0US · 28/05/2025 22:01

i just don’t understand, how can it be okay to stop someone from having an education, from speaking, from going out . Why is nobody doing anything, is it because it’s in the name of religion?

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nomas · 30/05/2025 00:04

1dayatatime · 29/05/2025 22:17

It's sad that the same Western liberals who were very much against western military involvement in Afghanistan that sought to remove the Taliban and improve the lives of ordinary Afghans and especially women are now hand wringing over the appalling treatment of women by the Taliban.

It's a bit like "Queers for Gaza" or western liberal women on pro Palestinian marches.

You keep trying to sell that fantasy. You really think the US and UK governments gave a shit about Afghans? Delulu.

nomas · 30/05/2025 00:05

1dayatatime · 29/05/2025 23:47

@MiloMinderbinder925

"The invasion of Afghanistan wasn't a charitable mission to empower women, however that's how they tried to sell it at the time."

The objective of the Afghanistan conflict was to remove the Taliban from power after they had provided a base for Al Qaeda and Bin Laden. And then to install a stable democratic government system.

Whilst not the primary objective a side benefit of this would have been to improve women's rights if democratically decided. Indeed the initial elections did indeed elect a number of female politicians. Unfortunately this wasn't possible for a number of reasons including culture, fear, tribal politics, education etc etc .

I don't know who you mean by "they" but that was the historical facts regardless of how the liberal left try and reinterpret it today as an "invasion ".

What a load of crap.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 30/05/2025 00:22

1dayatatime · 29/05/2025 23:47

@MiloMinderbinder925

"The invasion of Afghanistan wasn't a charitable mission to empower women, however that's how they tried to sell it at the time."

The objective of the Afghanistan conflict was to remove the Taliban from power after they had provided a base for Al Qaeda and Bin Laden. And then to install a stable democratic government system.

Whilst not the primary objective a side benefit of this would have been to improve women's rights if democratically decided. Indeed the initial elections did indeed elect a number of female politicians. Unfortunately this wasn't possible for a number of reasons including culture, fear, tribal politics, education etc etc .

I don't know who you mean by "they" but that was the historical facts regardless of how the liberal left try and reinterpret it today as an "invasion ".

Of course it was an invasion, they weren't invited in. The US funded and trained Al Qaeda and knew Bin Laden was in Pakistan. They had been interfering in the ME long before the invasion.

By 'they,' I'm talking about propaganda to sell the invasion. They sold it as something positive for women and Bush said that the Taliban was harbouring bin Laden.

Here's how positive it was for Afghans:

241,000 deaths as a direct result of the invasion. Hundreds of thousands more, mostly civilians, have died due to hunger, disease and injury.

The Afghan military and police, who fought alongside the US, are estimated to have lost between 66,000 and 69,000 soldiers.

More than 3,000 women died due to the war and 7,000 were injured.

7,792 children were killed and 18,662 injured.

At least 2.7 million were forced to flee due to the war, becoming refugees in neighbouring Pakistan, Iran and beyond. An additional four million were internally displaced.

When the Taliban were defeated, Afghanistan was still one of the most dangerous places on earth for women. Although there were moderate gains such as higher mortality rates, poverty went from 33% to 54% after the invasion. A 2019 report found that 60% of girls weren't in education.

Trump negotiated with the Taliban, released thousands of them from prison, withdrew troops and left Afghans to their fate.

It was a triumph.

1dayatatime · 30/05/2025 00:38

@nomas

"You keep trying to sell that fantasy. You really think the US and UK governments gave a shit about Afghans? Delulu."

I said the primary objective was to remove the Taliban from power.

If you disagree with this then given your greater insight into the motivations of the US and UK I would love to what you think the "real" reason was for going in to Afghanistan.

1dayatatime · 30/05/2025 00:40

@MiloMinderbinder925

"Here's how positive it was for Afghans:"

Given how you see the military intervention in Afghanistan as predominantly negative , then I presume that you wouldn't support any intervention now to help Afghanistan's women.

OonaStubbs · 30/05/2025 00:48

The reason the Taliban got into power is because the normal people in Afghanistan were sick of all the wars and bloodshed. Women might have to stay indoors and not be allowed to go to school but at least they are alive.

It's hard to come up with a solution as you can't really sanction a country that doesn't really export anything (legally) to the West.

I guess put international pressure on them to modernise and wait for things to progress slowly like they have in other Islamic countries.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 30/05/2025 00:58

1dayatatime · 30/05/2025 00:40

@MiloMinderbinder925

"Here's how positive it was for Afghans:"

Given how you see the military intervention in Afghanistan as predominantly negative , then I presume that you wouldn't support any intervention now to help Afghanistan's women.

You still seem to be under the delusion it was an 'intervention' to help people. Do you really think the US spent trillions and lost thousands of soldiers to empower women?

Any war is going to have negative consequences. Hundreds of thousands of people died and you view it as positive. Women are worse off than they were before and people are a lot poorer.

I presume that you wouldn't support any intervention now to help Afghanistan's women.

I not stupid enough to think that invading Afghanistan again would have any effect.

coxesorangepippin · 30/05/2025 01:18

We've had threads on here about this before, it's so depressing

People just don't care

Dangermoo · 30/05/2025 09:19

1dayatatime · 29/05/2025 22:17

It's sad that the same Western liberals who were very much against western military involvement in Afghanistan that sought to remove the Taliban and improve the lives of ordinary Afghans and especially women are now hand wringing over the appalling treatment of women by the Taliban.

It's a bit like "Queers for Gaza" or western liberal women on pro Palestinian marches.

👏 👏

Badh · 30/05/2025 09:29

I don’t know why a minority of posters think that people are calling for an invasion to help Afghan women. The ECFR outlined ways that European countries could be doing more. Like by funding the womens rights groups that still exist there. Or making aid conditional on women’s rights improvements.

Arraminta · 30/05/2025 09:34

Badh · 29/05/2025 20:25

Are you saying that the Taliban and al-Qaeda had female soldiers who tortured men to death?

i’ve never heard of this. Do you have any links to read more about it?

No, this was during the 19th century.

Arraminta · 30/05/2025 09:39

Rudyard Kipling's famous poem 'The Young British Soldier' mentions it.

Badh · 30/05/2025 09:52

Yes I remember learning the poem. It doesn’t mean that mostly women tortured British soldiers to death at all.

I can’t recall any war where women systematically tortured men to death. Stories of this happening have been spread in many wars but there is always little to back up their claims.

MrsSkylerWhite · 30/05/2025 09:54

sashh · 29/05/2025 11:54

Heroin seems to be the main export.

More legal exports are fruits and nuts, but the problem is they export to places like Pakistan.

The Taliban has destroyed the poppy fields according to BBC Today Programme.

BMW6 · 30/05/2025 10:45

coxesorangepippin · 30/05/2025 01:18

We've had threads on here about this before, it's so depressing

People just don't care

Try not to be so juvenile. People do care but know that there isn't a solution.

You care so very much so what's YOUR answer to it?

DuckieDodgyHedgyPiggy · 30/05/2025 10:50

Never2many · 29/05/2025 00:05

If the women of Afghanistan want things to change then it is them who need to stand up against these regimes and they’re not.

Change can only come from within. Women’s rights here and elsewhere haven’t been won by foreign invasions, they’ve been won through the women in question standing up against them.

Do you realise what would happen to a woman who dared to speak out? Break the law? Likely dragged to a hellhole prison and never heard of again.

Arraminta · 30/05/2025 11:22

Badh · 30/05/2025 09:52

Yes I remember learning the poem. It doesn’t mean that mostly women tortured British soldiers to death at all.

I can’t recall any war where women systematically tortured men to death. Stories of this happening have been spread in many wars but there is always little to back up their claims.

I'm not citing the poem as evidence, but I do remember a lecture about Rudyard Kipling where the torture of captured British soldiers was covered, and this poem was referenced too. I don't have any links as this was over 30 years ago!

SerendipityJane · 30/05/2025 12:01

coxesorangepippin · 30/05/2025 01:18

We've had threads on here about this before, it's so depressing

People just don't care

Odd to post that in a thread where many posters clearly do care.

MushMonster · 30/05/2025 12:30

Trust me, if people could sort the world by caring there would not be a single soul suffering in this world, bar those who deserve to be in jail due to serious serious crimes, like the talibans themselves.
People do care.

2024onwardsandup · 30/05/2025 12:37

Because it’s women and girls

the comparison between pro Palestinian marches and rhetoric and the (lack of) pro afghani women and girls makes me weep

Ponoka7 · 30/05/2025 12:41

Never2many · 28/05/2025 22:18

Realistically what do you think that anyone can do?

I don’t like it any more than the next person but this is their culture. We have no more right to enter a country and force them to change their culture than they do to enter ours.

What’s happening to women in Afghanistan’ is appalling, but people need to be careful what they wish for here.

If it’s ok for us to force change in another country then why isn’t it ok for them to do the same?

It isn't their culture, they, like lots of countries and regions have been over ran with religious/power extremists. If it was cultural, it would have been like that for decades. If a culture was wanted, harsh punishments wouldn't be in place to enforce it.

Damnloginpopup · 01/06/2025 08:50

Ponoka7 · 30/05/2025 12:41

It isn't their culture, they, like lots of countries and regions have been over ran with religious/power extremists. If it was cultural, it would have been like that for decades. If a culture was wanted, harsh punishments wouldn't be in place to enforce it.

Decades? It's been like that for centuries. There was a brief interlude where a few things were relaxed a little. That's all.

WaryCrow · 01/06/2025 11:43

BaronMunchausen · 29/05/2025 19:18

The genocide in Sudan and Darfur is broadly Arab-identifying militias exterminating Black African peoples such as the Masalit and Zaghawa. It's not Muslim v Christian. But yes, the lack of interest from western media (and, consequently, from western 'liberals') has been and remains appalling.

I think that’s an issue with our failing media. International journalism has gone to pot. I doubt computer control and economics have improved matters, and the increasingly insular nature of the country since Brexit certainly hasn’t. We’re being increasingly subject to consumerist ‘bread and circus’ culture’ rather than anything that requires any form of mental engagement (however amateur).

WaryCrow · 01/06/2025 11:49

“I guess put international pressure on them to modernise and wait for things to progress slowly like they have in other Islamic countries.”

That sadly is a delusion. What does ‘modernise’ even mean in the context of Islam, thinking of Islamic medieval science? Someone upthread said you can google for pics of 1960s Afghan people and they looked similar to western - I’ll have a look shortly. You certainly can google for similar pictures of Iranians. That religion is having a crackdown, whether a cultural shift or an issue of funding, most obviously Saudi, or most likely both.

SerendipityJane · 01/06/2025 11:59

WaryCrow · 01/06/2025 11:49

“I guess put international pressure on them to modernise and wait for things to progress slowly like they have in other Islamic countries.”

That sadly is a delusion. What does ‘modernise’ even mean in the context of Islam, thinking of Islamic medieval science? Someone upthread said you can google for pics of 1960s Afghan people and they looked similar to western - I’ll have a look shortly. You certainly can google for similar pictures of Iranians. That religion is having a crackdown, whether a cultural shift or an issue of funding, most obviously Saudi, or most likely both.

Countries tend not to respond well to bullying, for a start. Why would an Afghanistan being pressured to change it's ways respond any differently to a Britain being pressured to change it's ways ?

And I think it's naive beyond belief to think that other Islamic countries want progress in themselves, let alone another country. In fact there are quite powerful forces in those countries that look at Afghanistan and say "They've got it right"

I'm a big fan of history. And it's not really a subject that can be appreciated if you never leave your own world to try to grasp the weirdness of others. Be it ancient Greece or the weirdness of Afghanistan.