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Nigel Farage on abortions- slippery slope?

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Ph2028 · 28/05/2025 01:13

Following the speech, Farage was also asked about his view on abortion limits. He replied that he was pro-choice but that it was "utterly ludicrous" for abortion to be allowed up to 24 weeks, when a hospital would "move heaven and earth" to help a baby born at 22 weeks survive.

Aibu to think it may be a slippery slope to reducing the number of weeks until it is effectively banned...

Anyway it's a bit of a non issue on Nigel's part given nearly 94% of reported abortions happen before two and a half months of pregnancy.so very few abortions happen at 24 weeks.

Now i remember why I requested a tubal ligation when I was pregnant with first baby as I didn't want anymore in any circumstances. It was predictably denied so dh got a vasectomy instead.

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Coatsoff42 · 28/05/2025 08:09

Leave the abortion rules as they are. They run quite well. I don’t know anyone having late term abortions. I know people who’ve had the morning after pill, and a non surgical abortion. It’s entirely their choice, and if people are determined to change society, they can start by making it safer, easier and cheaper to give birth and raise children with or without a partner.

I wouldn’t force someone to go through a pregnancy, it really fucks you up physically.
There was a paper somewhere that said, all other factors removed, each pregnancy shortens the mother’s life by one year. Just from the physical effort and drain on nutritional resources to generate another human being.
I must find it. It was very interesting.

beAsensible1 · 28/05/2025 08:09

OutandAboutMum1821 · 28/05/2025 07:57

Boasting openly about having abortions is far from classy. It’s symptomatic of a society which generally no longer values privacy. People over-sharing about everything to everyone. I dislike it.

Talking openly about having an an abortion that was right for you and your life should not be a taboo or considered boasting.

women shouldn’t have to feel ashamed because they made a medical decision. Which is why so many women end up insecurely or keeping babies they don’t want or prolong making a choice because of this determination to heap shame and shun them
for making a choice.

while also shaming and judging women for being poor mothers, or mother who can cope, or mothers with addiction, or mothers who require SS intervention, or are neglectful, or who can’t provide.

for some women the best choice is to not have a baby. Why should they be quiet about that fact.

Glowingup · 28/05/2025 08:11

PlutoCat · 28/05/2025 08:04

There are no actual stats though that back up your assertion that "many women are coerced into having abortions".

It says:

15% of women in our survey told us they'd experienced pressure to terminate a pregnancy when they didn't want to

Which is obviously terrible, but not the same as being "coerced into an abortion".

We don't know what percentage of that 15% actually had an abortion.

Even if we had reliable stats that proved 15% of women having abortions were coerced ino doing so, it would still mean that 75% of women having abortions were not coerced.

Furthermore, the problem would be coercive control of women by abusive men, not the availability of abortion.

Edited

Yes the answer is clearly to improve domestic abuse services allowing women to leave abusive men who try to force them to have abortions. Not to make abortion unavailable meaning they stay with their abuser and have a baby with him that he doesn’t want.

Some very warped logic on here from people who want to try to paint their anti-women stance as being “feminist”.

Aintnobodygottime · 28/05/2025 08:11

Tomatotater · 28/05/2025 07:52

To be slightly fair to him, I don't think Farage is racist in the same way I don't think Trump is racist. I just don't think they care enough about anyone other than themselves to even care that much about any aspect of other people. What they do know is how to get racists, religious fundamentalists and misogynists wetting their pants to vote for them, so they can then act in their own interests once they are in power.

Both have a history of racism allegations. Farage was described at school as fascist. There are reports of Trump openly using the N word as well as allegations dating back decades around his business practices and statements.

https://www.thelondoneconomic.com/politics/letter-resurfaces-from-nigel-farages-schooldays-warning-of-racist-and-fascist-tendencies-190877/

https://apnews.com/article/fact-check-trump-racism-election-obama-018824651613

Letter resurfaces from Nigel Farage's schooldays warning of “racist” and “fascist” tendencies

The London Economic - The letter expressed concerns about his "neo-facist views" - warning that he was prone to singing Hitler youth songs - Politics

https://www.thelondoneconomic.com/politics/letter-resurfaces-from-nigel-farages-schooldays-warning-of-racist-and-fascist-tendencies-190877/

Glowingup · 28/05/2025 08:12

OutandAboutMum1821 · 28/05/2025 07:57

Boasting openly about having abortions is far from classy. It’s symptomatic of a society which generally no longer values privacy. People over-sharing about everything to everyone. I dislike it.

Do you say the same about women sharing their pregnancy scans, bump pictures and birth stories? Or is that not the type of oversharing you dislike?

thepariscrimefiles · 28/05/2025 08:12

OutandAboutMum1821 · 28/05/2025 07:57

Boasting openly about having abortions is far from classy. It’s symptomatic of a society which generally no longer values privacy. People over-sharing about everything to everyone. I dislike it.

It's about removing the stigma and shame that surrounds abortions which only applies to women. Men who agree or force their partner into having an abortion aren't judged in the same way.

Sofiewoo · 28/05/2025 08:14

OutandAboutMum1821 · 28/05/2025 07:57

Boasting openly about having abortions is far from classy. It’s symptomatic of a society which generally no longer values privacy. People over-sharing about everything to everyone. I dislike it.

I’m completely reject this. I have personally discussed my abortion on this thread and I actually think you’re disgusting for making this comment. When I grew up in NI abortions were not available and frankly nor was contraception for a lot of that. I will continue to openly discuss how awful it is to be told you’re carrying a baby that will die.

The only person who isn’t classy is the one judging other women when they have absolutely no clue!

Blinky21 · 28/05/2025 08:14

It's concerning to me, but in the grim event that Reform were in power I doubt that a change in legislation would happen, there is vast support for abortion in the UK

OutandAboutMum1821 · 28/05/2025 08:14

thepariscrimefiles · 28/05/2025 08:12

It's about removing the stigma and shame that surrounds abortions which only applies to women. Men who agree or force their partner into having an abortion aren't judged in the same way.

Men should be- any man who forces a woman into an abortion should be held to account, and I hope any woman in that situation can find a means to escape a man like that and have her baby.

MissJoGrant · 28/05/2025 08:15

Glowingup · 28/05/2025 07:17

There already is the ability to have an abortion up to 9 months for serious feral abnormalities. But you and your cronies aren’t bothered about disabled kids are you? Which is why all the discussion is about the 24 week limit and policing what women do.

My cronies 😂

StandFirm · 28/05/2025 08:16

UsernameMcUsername · 28/05/2025 07:57

The UK is a European outlier on this IIRC. For example France (that well-known theocracy) has a 14 week limit.

Except that France has finally enshrined the right to abort in law. We don't have that. If you look at Roe v Wade, Americans had 50 years to do the same and didn't. 50 years of cowardice led to its ultimate reversal and we're vulnerable in the same way over here. France, to its credit, may have a low limit (I don't know what it is but I'll take your word for it) but at least it's rock solid.

Sofiewoo · 28/05/2025 08:16

Glowingup · 28/05/2025 08:12

Do you say the same about women sharing their pregnancy scans, bump pictures and birth stories? Or is that not the type of oversharing you dislike?

A medical decision is unclassy but apparently announcing you’re knocked up isn’t 😂

OutandAboutMum1821 · 28/05/2025 08:16

Sofiewoo · 28/05/2025 08:14

I’m completely reject this. I have personally discussed my abortion on this thread and I actually think you’re disgusting for making this comment. When I grew up in NI abortions were not available and frankly nor was contraception for a lot of that. I will continue to openly discuss how awful it is to be told you’re carrying a baby that will die.

The only person who isn’t classy is the one judging other women when they have absolutely no clue!

So you’ve completely mis-read my posts. I’m talking about people (who I know!) who have multiple, early abortions (nothing to do with babies who are going to die!) who openly admit how careless they’ve been about their contraception and boasting about it! That’s disgusting, actually.

Largerbreakfast · 28/05/2025 08:16

Sofiewoo · 28/05/2025 08:09

Put your time and effort into supporting the funding of family planning clinics, access to affordable childcare and addressing the men who get off scot free paying little or nothing and taking a minor role in raising their children and I guarantee that would result in fewer abortions.

But it’s so much less fun than going on a power trip and shitting on other women in terrible situations isn’t it!

I think abortion should be legal but I simply can’t agree that the reasons you list are why the majority of women have abortions. The vast majority of women have abortions because they simply don’t want a baby at that point in their lives, or have completed their families and don’t want another child.

Serpentstooth · 28/05/2025 08:17

When Farage and his band of merry men start giving birth I might take their opinions into consideration. But not until then.

beAsensible1 · 28/05/2025 08:17

Sofiewoo · 28/05/2025 08:09

Put your time and effort into supporting the funding of family planning clinics, access to affordable childcare and addressing the men who get off scot free paying little or nothing and taking a minor role in raising their children and I guarantee that would result in fewer abortions.

But it’s so much less fun than going on a power trip and shitting on other women in terrible situations isn’t it!

Doing the actual infrastructure work and making the fathers accountable and fund CMA is too much hard work.

much better to just ban abortions.

wordywitch · 28/05/2025 08:18

Largerbreakfast · 28/05/2025 08:16

I think abortion should be legal but I simply can’t agree that the reasons you list are why the majority of women have abortions. The vast majority of women have abortions because they simply don’t want a baby at that point in their lives, or have completed their families and don’t want another child.

So what?! So what if they just don’t want another child? How does it impact you?

Supima · 28/05/2025 08:18

StaringAtTheWater · 28/05/2025 02:18

As much as I hate to agree with Nigel Farage, I personally think 24 weeks is rather late. And we are a bit of an outlier - I believe in France and Germany the limit is 12-14 weeks (unless there is a good medical reason). But like you say the vast majority of abortions happen well before 24 weeks, so it doesn't seem like it's an urgent issue given all the other problems this country faces.

In France abortion is a constitutional right. It is on request (or as it used to be said, ‘on demand’ until 14 weeks, and there are no time limits on abortion connected to the health of the woman or foetus, though this must be signed off by two doctors. In England abortion is criminalised, there is no legal right to elective abortion and you need two doctors from the get-go. Yes, in practice, women can get an abortion on mental health grounds fairly easily, but our rights are more fragile than in France and only recently we’ve seen women prosecuted and even jailed for having abortions. In the UK, 90% of terminations happen before 12 weeks and 99% before 24 weeks. The tiny number that occur later and usually connected to catastrophic abnormalities in the foetus. Farage is parroting talking points from the creepy, shady and fundamentalist ‘pro-natalist’ groups in the US, who believe the role of (white) women is to reproduce. It’s not a pro-women ideology at all.

CurlewKate · 28/05/2025 08:18

OutandAboutMum1821 · 28/05/2025 08:16

So you’ve completely mis-read my posts. I’m talking about people (who I know!) who have multiple, early abortions (nothing to do with babies who are going to die!) who openly admit how careless they’ve been about their contraception and boasting about it! That’s disgusting, actually.

So better for babies to be born to women who don’t want them? And “boasting” about it. Yep. Sure they are.

sunnybeee · 28/05/2025 08:19

I can’t stand Farage however I agree on this. Totally pro choice but unless there are medical reasons for either baby or mother, I think it’s outrageous to abort at as late as 24 weeks.

OutandAboutMum1821 · 28/05/2025 08:20

CurlewKate · 28/05/2025 08:18

So better for babies to be born to women who don’t want them? And “boasting” about it. Yep. Sure they are.

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Better for both men and women to sort out multiple types of free contraception between them beforehand, prevention is better than cure.

wordywitch · 28/05/2025 08:20

sunnybeee · 28/05/2025 08:19

I can’t stand Farage however I agree on this. Totally pro choice but unless there are medical reasons for either baby or mother, I think it’s outrageous to abort at as late as 24 weeks.

You’re not pro choice then. You’re pro your own views and comfort level.

Aintnobodygottime · 28/05/2025 08:21

sunnybeee · 28/05/2025 08:19

I can’t stand Farage however I agree on this. Totally pro choice but unless there are medical reasons for either baby or mother, I think it’s outrageous to abort at as late as 24 weeks.

Not totally pro choice then.

CurlewKate · 28/05/2025 08:21

OutandAboutMum1821 · 28/05/2025 08:20

Better for both men and women to sort out multiple types of free contraception between them beforehand, prevention is better than cure.

Of course. But if they don’t?

MyUmberSeal · 28/05/2025 08:22

ThejoyofNC · 28/05/2025 07:27

Do disabled people not have a right to life?

They are already born, it’s different.