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In case you haven't noticed, my husband is extremely handsome

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NotUsually · 27/05/2025 07:51

If anyone can manage to sit through this podcast between Meghan and Jamie Kern Lima, what are your thoughts about Meghan saying this?
And what are your thoughts on Meghan in general after watching her talking with Jamie here?
I don't know if I'm BU but I pick up on narcissist vibes.

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PinkArt · 27/05/2025 13:06

NotUsually · 27/05/2025 09:00

But she's not saying
"I find H (as she has re-named him) really attractive; to me, he's gorgeous".
OK fine, nobody could argue with that, because that would be her telling us what her view of him is.
What she is saying is
"If you haven't noticed, my husband's very, very handsome".
It's that that I take issue with.
She's telling us that if we haven't noticed, Harry is very, very handsome.

Christ what a bitch, finding her husband attractive AND giving him a nickname!

GinnyCat · 27/05/2025 13:18

CustardySergeant · 27/05/2025 11:39

It's Sussex not Suffolk.

Not sure Meghan would know the difference - or care as long as she is the Duchess of it 😉

PoliteKoala · 27/05/2025 13:25

Koazy · 27/05/2025 07:57

I haven’t noticed he’s extremely handsome. He’s beady eyed, bearded and pasty. Not for me.

And a ginger.

Which is normally not an issue, but he's a ginger

Emilysmum90 · 27/05/2025 13:26

ForZanyAquaViewer · 27/05/2025 08:29

He hasn't aged well at all, neither has William but still a lot more attractive than Harry now,

That’s really not the generally held view. Harry is seen (by the general UK population, but very much on international social media) as a hot, fit ex Army dude. William is roundly mocked as ugly and bald.

Who in their right mind holds that opinion?!😂

Harry used to be very handsome about 20 years ago, mostly because he smiled a lot more back then and had good hair. These days he's rocking that dreadful beard, is permanently scowling and his eyes have somehow got smaller, possibly because he's always glaring at someone. And he lives full time in that awful pale grey suit.

William on the other hand I never thought was attractive till he got his arms out for that Covid vaccine 😍he's improved loads in the past few years IMHO.

CoffeeCantata · 27/05/2025 13:48

ForZanyAquaViewer · 27/05/2025 11:46

I wasn’t presenting my personal opinion, so I’m not sure how I’ve been unfair.

Personally, I don’t think either of them is particularly attractive or unattractive. They’re normal looking men. Harry dresses better, though.

I agree with you on your first point.

But I guess Harry has more freedom now in what he can wear. William will be bound by expectations and formal dress codes.

TheAutumnCrow · 27/05/2025 13:50

EmeraldShamrock000 · 27/05/2025 11:19

Harry isn't unattractive, he is tall, fit, dressed smartly most of time.

Another Meghan bashing thread.

Dailymail.co.uk also should be held accountable for the relentless campaign and obsessive daily news articles about Meghan. Hopefully one day.

They are scummy bullies.

You know the Sussex PR machine gives them stories?

CoffeeCantata · 27/05/2025 13:51

PinkArt · 27/05/2025 13:06

Christ what a bitch, finding her husband attractive AND giving him a nickname!

I think this has been said before on the thread, but...

It's not that she claims to find her husband attractive or that she's given him a nickname. It's thinking any of us want to hear about it. And the chronic fakeness, of course, which poor Meghan just cannot help. Meghan - go and live the free, private life you said you wanted and keep yourself, your husband and your children totally out of the public eye.

But I don't think Meghan would survive without attention and adulation, would she? And she's stooping lower and lower in order to get it these days.

Horserider5678 · 27/05/2025 13:53

Koazy · 27/05/2025 07:57

I haven’t noticed he’s extremely handsome. He’s beady eyed, bearded and pasty. Not for me.

Are you not describing William?

HiRen · 27/05/2025 13:54

PoliteKoala · 27/05/2025 13:25

And a ginger.

Which is normally not an issue, but he's a ginger

Not cool. Would you say "And he's black. Which is normally not an issue, but he's black"? Stop it.

After 5 years of following this couple closely, I'm pretty sure the reason MM said this is to counter ("clap back at", people call it) the accusation she only married him for his status.

MereNoelle · 27/05/2025 13:57

Horserider5678 · 27/05/2025 13:53

Are you not describing William?

Both 🤷🏻‍♀️

TooBigForMyBoots · 27/05/2025 13:59

Woman says her husband is very attractive. Hold the front pages!😂😂😂

Catch yerself on @NotUsually.🙈

CoffeeCantata · 27/05/2025 14:02

Why does it have to be a competition between Harry and William as to who's the handsomest (or ugliest, if you're a mean-spirited sod)? That's most certainly not the point at issue here.

They're both reasonable-looking men whose genetic inheritance has led/is leading to a loss of their thatch. One of these brothers has cruelly and VERY publicly mocked the other about this but time seems to be catching up with him fast.

Please correct me if I'm wrong but I think early hair loss comes through the maternal line - is that right? Charles, although he had something of a comb-over eventually, didn't lose his hair as early as William (or Harry), and neither have his brothers. Diana's father was bald, but her brother Earl Spencer still has a lot of hair - but then, that may be because his maternal grandfather had too?? All speculation on my part.

And just for the record, I don't think baldness necessarily makes a man unattractive.

Arraminta · 27/05/2025 14:03

Yeah, because if commoner, Harry Windsor, had served Meghan in her local Walmart she'd still have been blown away by how handsome and charismatic he was.

The fact he was an internationally famous, multi millionaire, Prince of the Realm had absolutely nothing, whatsoever, in any way at all, to do with it.

TakeMeDancing · 27/05/2025 14:04

PoliteKoala · 27/05/2025 13:25

And a ginger.

Which is normally not an issue, but he's a ginger

😳

workshy46 · 27/05/2025 14:05

That was the least cringe thing she said. I couldn't make it through it but in her defense the one interviewing her was a million times worse. Even the Americans who normally lap this stuff up were catching second hand embarrassment

I just don't see how see can't see it, she's clearly smart

CoffeeCantata · 27/05/2025 14:05

HiRen · 27/05/2025 13:54

Not cool. Would you say "And he's black. Which is normally not an issue, but he's black"? Stop it.

After 5 years of following this couple closely, I'm pretty sure the reason MM said this is to counter ("clap back at", people call it) the accusation she only married him for his status.

Totally agree on both your points, HiRen.

Why would anyone think hair colour is something to mock people about? Pathetic of that poster.

TakeMeDancing · 27/05/2025 14:06

CoffeeCantata · 27/05/2025 14:05

Totally agree on both your points, HiRen.

Why would anyone think hair colour is something to mock people about? Pathetic of that poster.

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mydogisthebest · 27/05/2025 14:09

Harry is not unattractive and is definitely more attractive than William

Delphigirl · 27/05/2025 14:11

Golly if a guy’s wife can’t say he’s handsome without getting screeched at and accused of narcissism… madness

Canopies · 27/05/2025 14:13

Hasn't Harry said something to the effect his family were impressed a ginger could land someone like Meghan, and also something about his ginger gene being strong in regards to his his kids.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 27/05/2025 14:15

Well they say that beauty is in the eye of the beholder but personally I'd recommend a trip to Specavers for Meghan.

JaneJeffer · 27/05/2025 14:19

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 27/05/2025 14:15

Well they say that beauty is in the eye of the beholder but personally I'd recommend a trip to Specavers for Meghan.

Edited

Who’s that you’re holding hands with Harry?

NotUsually · 27/05/2025 14:25

Sooooooo many posters missing my point!🙄

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Spacehop · 27/05/2025 14:28

She's like a lot of people who fortunately have no clue their partners don't look like film stars and say things like he's the spit of Brad Spit/Harry Styles etc when he's actually an average looking guy. I think it's rather sweet and some of you are just mean girls.

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