to be angry I just met the man of my dreams in the wrong circumstances and there is virtually no chance I will ever see him again <sob> unless I stalk him...

[K20]

A French GP, mid 40's sexy, intelligent, nice smile, stylishly dressed ... just my idea of heaven

why why why did he have to the GP I had disclose far to many details about my health issues to in a formal medical interview today ....

It was a travesty - what should I do next ?

Help .....

Don't stalk him. Have a little dignity!

and did anyting at all make you think you are the woman of his dreams or did you just fancy him?

sadly he did nothing of the sort

He was just the first person in years who has made my heart race.

Tell him that and he'll probably just prescribe you some beta blockers.

Awwww

Cold shower and QUICK!

All I could think of when he lead me to his consulting room was "you are gorgeous"

oh dear I sound so desperate stupid

• but I never post this kind of stuff.

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Hee, hee!! This so made me chuckle!!

I went to see a gynaecologist about four weeks ago, I expected to see some middle aged old duffer with grey hair!! I nearly died on the spot when he walked in the door, he was absolutely gorgeous!! Talk, dark, handsome and only about 40, ideal! All I could think about was my hairy fango and he was going to want to see it!!

I think he could tell I was shocked that he was so gorgeous and young, but he had a wedding ring .......... oh and I suddenly remembered I'm married with a 9 month old!

We can dream though!!

lol at least I had no fango exposure to cope with.

By any chance, does anyone know the name of a French GP working for Atos Healthcare out of Stevenson House in East Croydon ....

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Enjoy the fantasy for a while

I'd like to believe that medical ethics are the only thing preventing him from declaring his undying love and lust ringing me .......

he wasn't wearing a wedding ring - I checked

Sorry he would not be able to date you very strict guidelines re "fraternising" with patients

OTOH if he was that gorgeous tell us so we can stalk him

K20, do NOT track him down.

Just hold onto to that gorgeous man as a delicious fantasy to dip into during quiet moments.

K20 - have you seen 'Waitress'? I highly recommend it.

Frenchmen, often don't wear wedding rings.

Don't go there.

Reminds me of the time I had to have laser surgery for abnormal cervical cells many years ago. Was nervous about the whole thing and specifically went to a female gynae. Day of op came along and I of course started period the day before and they tell you not to cancel if you have period as they can still do it.

So I trot along to Hammersmith Hospital. Nervous. Embarrassed. Etc.

Lying there ready and waiting for my nice female doc to arrive. No. She is stuck in traffic. In walks tall, dark and VERY handsome Frenchman who does the procedure. I was mortified.

My doc arrives but tells him to carry on and she sits with me and chats. Tells me she heard the Elkie Brooks song "Only Women Bleed" on the radio and thought of me as she was driving in. Then the tall, dark and exceedingly gorgeous French doc says "all finished now and I have just popped a tampon in for you". Very very very !

Buda!

K20 (and Buda) - this is not a coincidence. The fact you met someone in stressful circumstances and found them very attractive is a well-known psychological effect of stress.

Ok, I bet they don't really look like Quasimodo, but they're not as attractive as you think/remember.

Here:

Dutton and Aron (1974) had an attractive woman ask for interviews of young men both on a swaying rope bridge, 200 ft above a river, and also on terra firma. A part way through the interview, she gives them her phone number. Over 60% from the rope bridge called her back, versus 30% from terra firma. They had interpreted their arousal from fear on the bridge as attraction to the woman.

Oh yes he was NQC!!!

He was me? [deeply confused]