Been with oh 12 years this year. Hasn’t always been good , he’s spoke to women behind my back before, we got through it it was hard but silly me forgave him. Fast forward to now he has this silly friend at work, he is single and slot younger than him. He is VERY obsessed with women and is always on TikTok live getting women in with him etc. I caught my partner in his live last night talking to a few women now I know he’s allowed to talk to women that’s not the issue. The issue is 1. If I was talking to another man, he would not like it at all and 2. He can’t just talk and wasn’t just talking , he was flirting . Like this girl was talking and my partner was responding. For example she said oh is this your friend to my ohs friend and my oh said yes I’m his friend I can be your friend too which is fine but then she asked if he was single and he said depends who for . Before all this , his friend said about how much he can tell my partner wanted him to get someone to join. Now this persons TikTok live I am FORBIDDEN to watch he literally says I am not allowed to watch it if I do I’m stalking him. At first I thought he was paranoid. Now I know why.
I’ve literally had to narrow it down in layman’s terms why this is an inappropriate way to talk to other women. But he’s just saying I’m being controlling and trying to rule his life ? Sorry what ? A grown man should know how to act in a relationship ???
as I said if this was me he would kick of so bad!
so Aibu? Or is he🤷🏽♀️