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Was I wrong to refuse sale at work urgent advice needed

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LemonBlueberryX · 22/05/2025 18:56

So this morning at work (I work in retail - but not a supermarket, think along the lines of b&m), someone came in and tried to buy an item. I was working on the till. When they came to the till I felt frozen on what to do as I didn’t feel comfortable selling this item in these circumstances (based on a stereotype of what this person looked like). I asked for ID (it’s a look25 item) hoping they wouldn’t have it so I could refuse sale but they did. After that I felt I had to make a choice and so I refused sale. Because of things that have happened in my area recently I felt that by allowing this sale I would be personally contributing to bad things.

They kicked off and asked for the manager who came over and asked me why I refused the sale and I just froze and couldn’t answer. Manager took over the till and served the person. The rest of my shift went on as normal but Managers just whatsapped me an hour ago asking me to come in at 10 tomorrow for a chat. I don’t work saturdays so not usually in. What do I say?

I dont really want this getting back to my manager so have tried to be vague about said item

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Neweverything25 · 22/05/2025 19:32

What a bizarre comparison, condoms are absolutely nothing like knives! I’m with you OP and I hope your manager sees sense and apologises to you. Precisely this issue was on the news today with the teacher that survived the Southport attach launching a campaign to get people to swap pointed knives with ones that have round ends. While I personally think that is a bit over the top, I am also horrified and saddened by the issue with knife crime in this country and so many youngsters including children killing each other. I would be scared to raise a child in a community where this is prevalent. Is your store part of a chain? If so, I would campaign for stricter policies on the sale of knives. Good luck!

Condoms are nothing to do with knives. That's not the comparison I am drawing. The key point is about the difficulty of anyone working in retail taking responsibility for things they cannot possibly control ie what is done with a product post-sale.

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