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Winter fuel payments

420 replies

dearydeary · 21/05/2025 07:14

I have just heard on the news that this is being discussed again and they are considering reinstating them.

While I think that people who are on a lower income (pension credit for example) may need additional help I do not think this should be a universal benefit any more.

It appears the government is still looking for votes. What about everyone else in society? Younger people at universities or just starting out? Individuals with disabilities?

Surely we need to be moving to a more means tested approach as the finances need rebalancing?

Where pensioner need help, I am happy to support but many older folk have benefited from good pensions, valuable house price increases and a stable employment market. This is not the situation for many of us any more.

Have I lost the plot?

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PhilomenaPunk · 21/05/2025 15:15

caringcarer · 21/05/2025 15:07

By not spending £145 per night to put illegal immigrants into 4* hotels is one way. To cut out wasteful Quangos where MP's are voted in yet contract the work out to the Quangos is another way. KS said he'd cut these yet they have gone up since he's been in power. By cutting out the wasteful crap. Where I live local Labour council was paying £43k to pay for taxi to get 1 DC to special school. Common sense would dictate a taxi firm coming from either town DC lived in or town they were going to. No local Labour got taxi firm over 35 miles away to come for DC then took him to school then drove almost 45 miles back to their base. DC lives 20 miles from school. Local taxi firms who take other DC available but no Labour love wasting tax payers money. This has been reported to newly elected Reform councillor who will look into business case and auditing.

Urgh here we go. A rational conversation becomes derailed again.

caringcarer · 21/05/2025 15:15

Goldenbear · 21/05/2025 14:59

Goodness, you sound very unhappy, why don't you try and reframe things in your mind to think you don't have to be a victim.

I'm not a victim. I'm not a pensioner so not missing out. Just found it strange a person would say their parents let them go hungry because couldn't afford food yet kept on having more kids. I think thos kids are the victims here.

caringcarer · 21/05/2025 15:18

Dontknowwhattocall13893 · 21/05/2025 15:13

Sounds to me like they'll look at raising the threshold not making it universal again as they're saying ensuring more pensioners are eligible. They're not saying all. Surely this seems to be what most people want.

This sounds sensible, providing they raise it higher enough. If think £20k is sensible. Cuts out the wealthy getting it but ensures many struggling do get it.

Goldenbear · 21/05/2025 15:19

caringcarer · 21/05/2025 15:15

I'm not a victim. I'm not a pensioner so not missing out. Just found it strange a person would say their parents let them go hungry because couldn't afford food yet kept on having more kids. I think thos kids are the victims here.

I didn't say you were a pensioner, you are a victim of something though as you seem very angry, angry enough to be quite cruel about someone's parents on the internet! You can choose how you look at things and perceive things.

caringcarer · 21/05/2025 15:20

PhilomenaPunk · 21/05/2025 15:15

Urgh here we go. A rational conversation becomes derailed again.

Previous poster asked me how Farage would fund paying WFA to pensioners. I answered her. What is irrational about that? Not answering would be irrational.

caringcarer · 21/05/2025 15:22

Goldenbear · 21/05/2025 15:19

I didn't say you were a pensioner, you are a victim of something though as you seem very angry, angry enough to be quite cruel about someone's parents on the internet! You can choose how you look at things and perceive things.

I'm angry about Labour and their kids EU ass policies whilst screwing fisherman.

genesis92 · 21/05/2025 15:24

2dogsandabudgie · 21/05/2025 10:46

Shall we go further and cull pensioners when they get to 70, that would save even more money.

Honestly, all the young people on this thread will be pensioners one day (if they're lucky). Be careful what you wish for.

It must be annoying when we make valid points.
My parents are boomers and my mum always admits things were easier for them than they are for young people now. It’s refreshing when pensioners actually can see this.

It doesn’t mean we don’t think you didn’t graft or experience hardship at any point. We all work ridiculously hard now and won’t get the same pay offs unfortunately. If you conceded a bit you’d see a lot less resentment.

treetopsgreen · 21/05/2025 15:31

Not all pensioners are rich. Many are in poverty. Some of them are feckless but a lot worked hard & experienced hardship.

However the average young person today will not end up with the same wealth as the average boomer today.

With regards to inheritance it's far more beneficial in terms in building wealth to get on the housing ladder in your 20s as opposed to waiting for a deposit in your 50s.

treetopsgreen · 21/05/2025 15:34

Labour love wasting tax payers money

Tories don't?

SilentForestTrees · 21/05/2025 15:36

ButteredRadishes · 21/05/2025 14:43

I don't know, why don't you go and ask my mother why she allowed herself to be raped by my father...

The pill became available on the NHS for married women in 1961 and unmarried women in 1967. Opting for birth control after the first two or three children have been the sensible and compassionate response given your parents dire financial position. Many women now limit the size of their families because they cannot afford to support more children. It isn’t ideal, but it is sensible.

For this to have not been available as a choice for your mother, you would be - at a minimum - 67 years old now.

I think this unlikely.

Coupled with your assertion that your parents-in-law received £600 WFA which was never possible as the WFA was a maximum of £300 per household if at least one of the couple was over 80 years old. You would know this if, as you claim, you really are so knowledgeable about your PILs financial affairs.

I smell a rat.

Allthings · 21/05/2025 15:37

genesis92 · 21/05/2025 15:24

It must be annoying when we make valid points.
My parents are boomers and my mum always admits things were easier for them than they are for young people now. It’s refreshing when pensioners actually can see this.

It doesn’t mean we don’t think you didn’t graft or experience hardship at any point. We all work ridiculously hard now and won’t get the same pay offs unfortunately. If you conceded a bit you’d see a lot less resentment.

Things may have been easier for them, but not necessarily easier for everyone. There will be differences between individuals within a generation including differences between those born at the start and those born at the end. The younger baby boomers are still working and will be working until 67, whereas the older women retired at 60. The list of possible differences between a cohort is endless for any generation. And there are also commonalities between generations. Divide and conquer is seldom a good way forward.

treetopsgreen · 21/05/2025 15:38

Many women now limit the size of their families because they cannot afford to support more children. It isn’t ideal, but it is sensible.

It's one reason birth rates are so low.

Locutus2000 · 21/05/2025 15:55

PhilomenaPunk · 21/05/2025 15:15

Urgh here we go. A rational conversation becomes derailed again.

Don't give them the satisfaction of your annoyance.

Shwish · 21/05/2025 16:01

C8H10N4O2 · 21/05/2025 14:32

Most of them didn’t go to university and were at work from 16, 15 or even 14 depending on exactly when they were born. Most of them had living standards which young adults now would consider “developing country” at best but then were entirely the norm.

Availability of public services wasn’t so rosy either. Class sizes of 40-50 were the norm at least in urban areas from the late 50s through to at least the late 60s in very poorly equipped schools often with outside loos and generally non existent facilities. There was a chronic shortage of teachers, especially for early years.

Things change, some for the better, some for the worse. One of the “worse” I see a lot here is younger women sneering at older women and saying they didn’t work because they were merely SAHMs.

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What a load of rubbish. You realise schools still have outside loos? Or that the reason 50% go to uni now is because they have to just to get a basic admin job even though it will likely leave them with £40k debt

ERthree · 21/05/2025 16:02

Koalafan · 21/05/2025 07:22

Or just added it to their growing bank balance while pleading poverty.

There are plenty of pensioners that don't have a growing bank balance.

Koalafan · 21/05/2025 16:06

ERthree · 21/05/2025 16:02

There are plenty of pensioners that don't have a growing bank balance.

There are also plenty who do.

LuvACustardCream · 21/05/2025 16:11

It should be means tested, 100%. This ridiculous narrative that all pensioners are poor comes up again and again, mostly by Reform voters.

PandoraSocks · 21/05/2025 16:14

Dontknowwhattocall13893 · 21/05/2025 15:13

Sounds to me like they'll look at raising the threshold not making it universal again as they're saying ensuring more pensioners are eligible. They're not saying all. Surely this seems to be what most people want.

Well it is what most people want, but some are criticising him for (allegedly) u-turning, even though they flamed him for restricting the WFA in the first place. 🤷‍♀️

Everyothernamewasalreadyinuse · 21/05/2025 16:24

The threshold for means testing should be higher.

They should also scrap free prescriptions for over 60's and bring it in line with the actual pension age

PandoraSocks · 21/05/2025 16:25

Just wait until disability payments are cut, Labour will be even more hated

Well that will be a tricky one for some right wing MN posters @caringcarer given so many rage on about PIP fraud and "mobility" cars. I guess there will be name-changing and tune-changing if the proposed the cuts go ahead.

treetopsgreen · 21/05/2025 16:27

They should also scrap free prescriptions for over 60's and bring it in line with the actual pension age

certainly won't be free when im 70

treetopsgreen · 21/05/2025 16:27

60!

TheBlueUniform · 21/05/2025 16:27

@C8H10N4O2

Something like a fifth of them are millionaires apparently so there you go….

It’s funny you say that about older single women because I gave the exact example of my MIL who is an older single woman. Worked part time in a admin type roll in the NHS, retired at 60 has over 50k in her account. She also bought her council house.

Yes my mother absolutely did get it done in the NHS. Would have been over 40 years ago. She must have said about it affecting her confidence and she got one.

Soon it won’t be 40% of people the go to uni because the cost of everything else is astronomical, so it’ll only be for the wealthy families very soon, like what you’re describing. Yes I acknowledge that men would have had the most advantages however, women got to retire early by 5 years and now it’s all work to the bone until you drop, regardless of sex. Men still have the top jobs in general so it’s not perfect now either. Plenty of women these days would love to work part time and spend more time with their children, but it’s almost impossible for many now so it’s peaks and troughs.

The governments were wrong for not building more houses but that’s irrelevant to the point that that generation absolutely benefited above any generation since.

As I said, perhaps they could make the threshold higher but there is no way it should be available for all. Much in the same way CB isn’t.

SilentForestTrees · 21/05/2025 16:28

TheBlueUniform · 21/05/2025 10:02

I completely agree. The pensioners these days have it easer than any generation imo.

They benefited from more readily available housing, particularly council housing then they could buy it. which messier it up for the next generations… not their fault but they absolutely benefited.

If they were buying their own house that was much easier as they were significantly cheaper than what they are now.

The supply and demand for housing made it much easier to find a house compared to now where you have to bid and fight to even get a rental view and then you still might need a guarantor… to rent! 25 years ago it was easier to rent and I started out then so know from experience

My mam used to get GP appointment on the day no bother. I remember years ago you were almost guaranteed an appointment on the day, now no chance.

My man even got a boob job on the NHS years ago. No way would that happen now and quite right! She didn’t have cancer, she just didn’t like the way they were after birth. You can’t even get an emergency appointment now!

There were better benefits and perks at work and double pay for bank holidays/weekends, now it’s expected. Everything is open 24/7 which means staff have to work.

University was free

Women could retire at 60!

Our generation will be lucky if the state pension exists in 30 years time…

There are just a few things that spring to mind. Life is harder now than it was for my parents generation.

The most poor pensioners are still eligible.

My MIL worked as a part time admin assistant for years, was able to buy her council house, then retired at 60 and now lives comfortably. If I believed everything I read, I would assume that my MIL is penny less but she’s got thousands in savings. How can that be? It’s because she’s been careful with her money. Yet my own dad moans and groans he hasn’t got enough money and he’s not entitled as he’s just over the threshold, but he used to buy top of the range cars and all the gadgets so from what I can see, we all need to budget accordingly.

Perhaps the threshold should be increased but no way should all pensioners be eligible, just by virtue of age.

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The last time women’s state pension age was 60 was in 2010.

Assume a woman born in 1950 was able to buy a house at 25 years old with her husband, that would be 1975.

In 1975 average house price in London was £12,000 and £10,000 outside, average salary for a manual worker was £48 a week for men and £27 a week for women - that works out at £2496 pa for men and £1404 for women.

Interest rates were around 13% in 1975.

Assuming a typical 25-year mortgage, someone buying in 1975 would pay off their mortgage in 2000. They would have been paying throughout the uncertainty of the late 1970s, the high interest of the 1980s and the recession in the 1990s.

What was different was the ratio of houses to population.
In 1975 there were 19,000,000 households to a population of 56 million - roughly one house per 3 people. In 2024/5 there are 29,500,000 houses to 69.5 million people - roughly one house per 2.3 people.

Are you really sure they had it easier??

Anedina · 21/05/2025 16:33

How does everyone know how much is in their MILs bank account, DS doesn't know about ours and we don't know about his

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