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To think it’s actually really unfair to be charged for bank holidays at nursery?

282 replies

bouncinround · 20/05/2025 18:08

And no, I’m not going to complain about it because I don’t want anyone to think I begrudge the staff a day off. I don’t. But I do resent paying for a service I’m not receiving.

OP posts:
modgepodge · 20/05/2025 22:22

The classic answer to this has come up numerous times already - ‘I assume you are paid for bank holidays?’ No, actually im
not. I’m self employed and no work = no pay. so can I not pay the nursery or at least have the right to moan about it?

One of the things I do is run a club for children, including on a Monday. On the May bank holiday I couldn’t run it cos the school I run it in was closed. So, I didn’t charge the parents for that week. I can’t imagine many of them would have been happy to pay for it if I had tried to do that! Does everyone pay out for their kids football/ballet/gymnastics or whatever when it falls on a bank holiday? Or do you find that the activity provider doesn’t bill
you for that week?

Fragmentedbrain · 20/05/2025 22:22

Small business owners raking it in from nurseries are immoral creeps.

Ditto small business owners raking it in from elder care.

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 20/05/2025 22:24

You pay for all the staff's holidays, 5.6 weeks a year, not just the bank holidays. It's part of your fees. Why get upset about the bank holidays only?

Fruitbat99 · 20/05/2025 22:28

TVWife · 20/05/2025 18:15

If they didn't charge for bank holidays they would have to charge more for the other days in order to cover costs but I do think it would be fairer on parents.

It seems unfair that a place for a child attending Monday, Tuesday and Friday costs the same as for one attending Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday when most bank holidays are on Mondays/Fridays

No, they don't have to, they could take it out of profits.

jannier · 20/05/2025 22:39

Rememberwhatthedoorknobsaid · 20/05/2025 21:40

It is outrageous that you are charged for a service when it is closed. Lots of people slating your viewpoint and then in the same breath conceding that they have opted out of Mondays to avoid paying it themselves! How many people would be happy to pay their cleaner/builder/tutor for not attending on a bank holiday? You do not employ the nursery staff directly so if their employer wants to give them the day off, this needs to come out of a central fund and be budgeted for in a way that does not adversely affect a small proportion of clients.

Are you aware of the nursery funding crisis?

Elektra1 · 20/05/2025 22:41

Change your working days if you don’t like it. “They should pay from their profits” is an absurd statement. Everyone knows that nurseries are on their knees and barely make a profit.

ACynicalDad · 20/05/2025 22:44

This pissed me off so much when we had kids in nursery, especially if not full time as those on MT&W lost much more to BHs than say a TW&T booking. Yes, they should be paid, no you should not be billed when no service is available, even if you pay a tiny bit more a day to cover it, this is not reasonable.

SpicyWater · 20/05/2025 22:46

I completely agree.

My dc goes to nursery Mon, Tue and Thu. My friends dc goes to nursery Tue, Wed and Thurs.

We both pay the exact same fees however they receive an extra 5+ days to what I get as they don't attend on a Monday.

I still work on bank holidays so I'm then left to fork out even more on additional childcare.

They need to increase the fees so the bank Holiday bill is split evenly between everyone that attends. This way the staff can be paid for their days off (although I don't get paid for bank holidays off.) This way, one group isn't being penalised for attending Mondays.

Not everyone has the choice to not use nurseries on a Monday to avoid the fees without getting the service.

YesThatsATurdOnTheRug · 20/05/2025 22:48

CopperWhite · 20/05/2025 18:08

Do you get paid for bank holidays?

The company should cover that though, not the customers!

SpicyWater · 20/05/2025 22:48

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 20/05/2025 22:24

You pay for all the staff's holidays, 5.6 weeks a year, not just the bank holidays. It's part of your fees. Why get upset about the bank holidays only?

Because people that don't use nursery on a Monday get an additional 5+ days per year, compared to those that do use nursery on a Monday.

It should be split evenly between all parents or the Monday children should get reduced fees for the missed days.

Ponderingwindow · 20/05/2025 22:49

If my child attends part-time on particular days, it would be reasonable to expect my fees to be different depending upon which days my child attends.

So given the Monday frequency of bank holidays a Monday-Tuesday fee should be lower than a Tuesday-Wednesday fee.

it’s still easier if things are calculated by year or term instead of wasting time generating invoices.

gamerchick · 20/05/2025 22:49

bouncinround · 20/05/2025 18:14

Out of their profits.

The reason it annoys me is because if you send your child on a Monday then you get hit with a charge for a service you don’t get. But if you send your child on a Thursday you don’t.

Mine attend Mondays and Fridays so this is the fourth one this year.

And no, I don’t get paid if I don’t go to work. But I don’t mind them being paid. I just don’t feel it should be from my pocket.

You don't get paid bank holidays? How? Unless you're self employed. Soz.

SpicyWater · 20/05/2025 22:51

gamerchick · 20/05/2025 22:49

You don't get paid bank holidays? How? Unless you're self employed. Soz.

Edited

Most people don't. Most people don't even get them off.

It's more unusual to get them off and get paid.

doodleschnoodle · 20/05/2025 22:58

Plenty of people don’t even get the specific bank holiday days off. BHs are just included in our holiday entitlement because bank holidays are normal working days in my industry, as they are for a lot of people. Nursery being closed on a bank holiday would be super inconvenient for us as I would have to take a holiday day or pay for childcare somewhere else, so I’m very grateful our nursery doesn’t close for any of them. I assume they are same as me, they get the days included in their holiday allowance to take as normal holiday.

Whenever I take DD2 to nursery on a bank holiday, it’s just as full as usual. I don’t actually know of any private nurseries around us that close on bank holidays, just the school nurseries for 3+.

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 20/05/2025 23:07

SpicyWater · 20/05/2025 22:48

Because people that don't use nursery on a Monday get an additional 5+ days per year, compared to those that do use nursery on a Monday.

It should be split evenly between all parents or the Monday children should get reduced fees for the missed days.

That's not what she's whinging about. She thinks holiday pay should come out of profits and not from parents.

SpicyWater · 20/05/2025 23:11

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 20/05/2025 23:07

That's not what she's whinging about. She thinks holiday pay should come out of profits and not from parents.

No it's not. You need to re-read her posts.

This is exactly what she means and I agree because I'm also an unfairly penalised Monday parent that gets a weeks less childcare for the same price as others.

OrangeQualityStreetAreTheBest · 20/05/2025 23:14

YANBU. The nursery, a business, should factor this in to their pricing as part of their overheads.

It's why I didn't send my kids on a Monday - I was lucky to have family support that were flexible on which day they could have them.

Tumbleweed101 · 20/05/2025 23:19

We don’t charge bank holidays or our Xmas week closure. Costs are absorbed through yearly pricing so it is fair for all parents.

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 20/05/2025 23:23

SpicyWater · 20/05/2025 23:11

No it's not. You need to re-read her posts.

This is exactly what she means and I agree because I'm also an unfairly penalised Monday parent that gets a weeks less childcare for the same price as others.

Edited

It's not me who needs to re-read.

IwasDueANameChange · 20/05/2025 23:25

Yanbu, it would be fairer to ensure that the hourly rates across the board allow the nursery to pay staff on bank holidays, without charging parents of monday kids the same as everyone else but giving them less service.

If they have staff who don't work mondays, they are still entitled to pro rata bank holiday leave so why should monday/friday parents be disproportionately hit.

SpicyWater · 20/05/2025 23:26

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 20/05/2025 23:23

It's not me who needs to re-read.

If I had the energy I'd screen shot them all to prove you wrong, but I don't.

No doubt the op will clear that up for you later

nomas · 20/05/2025 23:29

bouncinround · 20/05/2025 18:09

I literally say in my post I don’t begrudge the staff a day off. That’s not what this is about.

She didn’t ask if you begrudge staff a day off, she asked if you get paid for bank holidays.

Which you avoided answering so you clearly do get paid on bank holidays.

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 20/05/2025 23:29

Poster: "So, how will they pay the staff if you don't pay for the day?"

OP: "Out of their profits."

Literally couldn't be clearer.

SpicyWater · 20/05/2025 23:29

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 20/05/2025 23:23

It's not me who needs to re-read.

Here's the OP's third post. Literally exactly what I was saying. She pays extra for Mondays when it should be equal between everyone and not penalise only the Monday users.

"Out of their profits.
The reason it annoys me is because if you send your child on a Monday then you get hit with a charge for a service you don’t get. But if you send your child on a Thursday you don’t.
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Mine attend Mondays and Fridays so this is the fourth one this year."
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And no, I don’t get paid if I don’t go to work. But I don’t mind them being paid. I just don’t feel it should be from my pocket.

SpicyWater · 20/05/2025 23:30

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 20/05/2025 23:29

Poster: "So, how will they pay the staff if you don't pay for the day?"

OP: "Out of their profits."

Literally couldn't be clearer.

Yes their profits from EVERY parent. Not just the MONDAY parents like the OP SMH.