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To not understand all the obsession with footbaall

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Thomasina79 · 17/05/2025 19:14

Live and let live and I understand people love it, but it’s a mystery to me? DH has been glued to telly today watching Crystal Palace!

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TheSleepingGiant · 19/05/2025 16:13

MyKingdomForACat · 19/05/2025 15:56

That’s it

I've been attending my league 2 teams matches for years, seems I missed the memo that I should have been at home in front of the soaps instead Confused

Redpeach · 19/05/2025 16:26

Soaps and sports both boring, but at least soap fans don't dominate everything

zingally · 19/05/2025 16:39

It's boring as hell.

Very glad that DH isn't interested at all, and nor is DS.

JackGrealishsCalves · 19/05/2025 16:52

TheSleepingGiant · 19/05/2025 16:13

I've been attending my league 2 teams matches for years, seems I missed the memo that I should have been at home in front of the soaps instead Confused

I started supporting a team when they were in the old League 2 (before the Premier League was dreamt up by Sky) but according to one here I am a glory hunter as they are now in the PL.
Don't remember much glory when we were losing away to York City 🤷‍♀️

FlorbelaEspanca · 19/05/2025 16:52

Yanbu - I have no time for football at all, or any other sport. But I think there is a distinction to be drawn. It is one thing to be interested in football, another for there to be a general assumption that everyone is. If it's your hobby, fine. But we might well all be better off if discussion of it was confined to the sports pages. Then those who like it can be assured of informed reporting while those who don't can keep away.

murasaki · 19/05/2025 16:53

FlorbelaEspanca · 19/05/2025 16:52

Yanbu - I have no time for football at all, or any other sport. But I think there is a distinction to be drawn. It is one thing to be interested in football, another for there to be a general assumption that everyone is. If it's your hobby, fine. But we might well all be better off if discussion of it was confined to the sports pages. Then those who like it can be assured of informed reporting while those who don't can keep away.

You do know it's not compulsory to read every article in the news section?

MyKingdomForACat · 19/05/2025 16:59

TheSleepingGiant · 19/05/2025 16:13

I've been attending my league 2 teams matches for years, seems I missed the memo that I should have been at home in front of the soaps instead Confused

Well naughty old you. 🤣

Calmdownpeople · 19/05/2025 18:58

Kirbert2 · 18/05/2025 23:08

Ridiculous amounts of money aren't involved in all levels of football. Not everyone is a Man City glory supporter (Man City is a bad example this season but generally).

People not into football don't see the many great things that football does too.

Exactly. It’s a pretty narrow minded view. My kids play at the highest level and I value the fact they aren’t on screens, travel country wide and internationally, fit and healthy, great friendships, great communication skills, teamwork etc

Stereotyping is pretty boring and petty.

TizerorFizz · 19/05/2025 19:03

Sky didn’t dream up the Premier League! It was a breakaway league that left the EFL!

Itsjustgonenoonhalfpastmonsoon · 19/05/2025 20:01

TizerorFizz · 19/05/2025 16:00

@Itsjustgonenoonhalfpastmonsoon Bill Shankly actually was asked if football was as important as life and death to him. He said “listen, it’s more important than that”. It’s been twisted a bit but that’s the original quote.

Yes that’s it. I missed that bit out. 🤣

Whatsgoingonherethenagain · 19/05/2025 20:12

I don’t get it. But then I don’t like watching sport in general, despite being a reasonably high standard at a couple of sports in my life.

ds doesn’t get it either. But he’s a swimmer, and has said it’d be very odd if random people who didn’t actually swim started showing up at the pool dressed in club swimsuits and hats, and started telling him what he did wrong in his races. Despite not being coaches or having swim at any sort of level. Going down the pub after a gala to analyse who did the best 50m butterfly 😂

UName38 · 19/05/2025 20:57

Whatsgoingonherethenagain · 19/05/2025 20:12

I don’t get it. But then I don’t like watching sport in general, despite being a reasonably high standard at a couple of sports in my life.

ds doesn’t get it either. But he’s a swimmer, and has said it’d be very odd if random people who didn’t actually swim started showing up at the pool dressed in club swimsuits and hats, and started telling him what he did wrong in his races. Despite not being coaches or having swim at any sort of level. Going down the pub after a gala to analyse who did the best 50m butterfly 😂

Agree but it’s amazing how just for a few days a country become experts on curling or shot put or swim strokes when someone might win - generally at the Olympics because the specific European or World Championships for different sports attract fans that do actually know about that sport.

x2boys · 19/05/2025 22:28

UName38 · 19/05/2025 20:57

Agree but it’s amazing how just for a few days a country become experts on curling or shot put or swim strokes when someone might win - generally at the Olympics because the specific European or World Championships for different sports attract fans that do actually know about that sport.

This is so true I have never played tennis in my life but I do like watching it and get very frustrated when my favourite can't just break a serve 😂

User32459 · 21/05/2025 18:21

Do people still watch the soaps lol. You'll be telling me people still read newspapers next.

TizerorFizz · 21/05/2025 18:26

@UName38 There’s a difference between taking an interest in a sport you don’t see often and coaching someone doing it. Of course you don’t watch swimming and think you can coach it. However many football fans have been watching football all their lives. The pundits are often ex professionals. They do have valid opinions. In most sports a keen observer can spot mistake or superb skill.

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 21/05/2025 19:11

User32459 · 21/05/2025 18:21

Do people still watch the soaps lol. You'll be telling me people still read newspapers next.

My husband does both 🤷🏼‍♀️

Oblomov25 · 22/05/2025 05:38

I completely disagree with the criticism of general public criticising.
People are allowed opinions. Most of us know a bit about sports. Most of us know a bit about biology, PE, the psychology of sport, both individual and team events. We also may have played it ourselves, be a coach or a referee. I can comment knowingly (well, a little bit!) on football, hockey, gymnastics. I've played tennis. I enjoy watching a lot of sports.

Other sports you don't need to be an expert to enjoy. Or comment.

I know a good shot in tennis, I can track it back to the many shots before that made one player gain advantage. You don't need to be an expert to know eg Radacanu wasn't in tip top health when she lost yesterday.

True I'm not a swimmer, but I've read enough about professional sports to know the sacrifices they make, yes I may not know the stroke reason why someone lost, but I can still enjoy watching the old clips of Phelps, or watch Peaty etc.

And yes, I'm allowed to watch football and be complementary of amazing one-off's of skill, good goals, and also the criticism of the other side of how the lead-up play and the errors of the other team partly allowed that goal. Surely that's part of the analysis?

JudgeJ · 22/05/2025 16:38

ACLtrouble · 19/05/2025 13:05

Yes, well done - you seem to be grasping basic fact now. I am glad I had a DD as with a girl the chance of ending up stuck beside a rainy football pitch every Saturday morning watching them kick a ball around is far less than if I’d had a boy. Again, not sexist, just fact that football is far more popular amongst males. Frankly I’d rather stand and watch paint dry

You do realise that England's most successful teams at the moment are the women's football and rugby union and that lots of devoted parents spend a lot of time on windy pitches and/or training grounds making that happen! You may be lucky and your 'DD' will not be good enough to take part!

TizerorFizz · 23/05/2025 21:15

@Bluevelvetsofa Why aren’t footballers role models? It’s ludicrous to say they aren’t. They have dedicated themselves to fitness and developing skills for many years. They must cooperate with teammates. They have to stick to strict diets. They come through against adversity. They are all as fit as fleas and have to stay that way. No beer belly for them. They are quoted if they say something out of place and told they aren’t good enough frequently by pundits without answering back. I think modern footballers are amazing - and not just to look at.

Bluevelvetsofa · 23/05/2025 22:54

@TizerorFizz I said that some footballers aren’t great role models. Some are, of course. I suppose that points up those who have behaved in a manner that you wouldn’t want fans to emulate.

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