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To think Starmer has shot himself in the foot.

289 replies

TheQuickRobin · 13/05/2025 20:17

This isn’t about my own opinion but political strategy.

So he does this Island of strangers thing wanting to appeal to Labour heartlands who have gone to Reform. But.

I just think Reform voters won’t believe him?

Tories hate him becaus he’s Labour.

Middle class Labour lefties will be put off by the message.

Who does he think he’s winning over?

Anyone on here had their opinion of him changed?

IABU - I thought he was a prat now I think he’s on my team

IANBU - EITHER I thought he was a prat, still think he’s a prat OR I liked him now think he’s a prat.

Very unscientific poll here!

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Upstartled · 14/05/2025 09:47

Illegal crossings are higher than ever at this time of year, apparently.

TheNuthatch · 14/05/2025 09:51

Upstartled · 14/05/2025 09:47

Illegal crossings are higher than ever at this time of year, apparently.

Yep, 600 just on Monday.
I don't think Starmer wants to talk about the boats.

Barbadossunset · 14/05/2025 09:52

I’m sure some tourists feel the same. It’s not pleasant anymore so I spend my money elsewhere and save myself the stress of being mugged, harrassed etc. I can’t be the only one and I believe money from tourism will dry up unless the gov get a grip it..

Of course tourists feel the same. If they are spending a lot of money to come and visit London only for their phones and wallets etc to be snatched when they go sight seeing, they’re hardly going to recommend it as a holiday destination.
I beg our friends from Korea and Japan to be really, really careful when walking about London, but as it doesn’t happen hardly at all in their countries, they don’t pay attention.
One woman had £1000 pinched from her bag and the other left her phone on the table in a cafe and of course that was gone in seconds.
Sadiq Khan just denies it’s happening.

EasternStandard · 14/05/2025 09:52

Upstartled · 14/05/2025 09:45

What happened to Smash the Gangs anyway, have they given up on that?

Looks like it. That was bound to fail.

Barbadossunset · 14/05/2025 09:54

Upstartled · Today 09:45
What happened to Smash the Gangs anyway, have they given up on that

I guess they’ve realised there’s nothing they can do about them.

User32459 · 14/05/2025 09:55

matresense · 14/05/2025 09:37

Honestly, I like KS more because of this and I’d never vote reform in a million years. I’m politically homeless. I voted Labour as a young woman in the new Labour days, voted Lib Dem in the coalition years and in 2015 in an attempt to keep them in the coalition. I voted Remain (what I really wanted was a future vote on further political integration and a level of reform of the UK system so that we actually used the rules available to us within the EU, which enabled us to send anyone workless home after 3 months, to reform our system to introduce contribution and residence elements for benefits, to ensure that we required appropriate qualifications for occupations where necessary in the same way other EU countries did to protect their own qualified people, and to stop benefits fraud that led to benefit monies being paid to Poland and Romania but no one offered me that option and I thought the status quo was ok if not amazing). I voted for Theresa May over Jeremy Corbyn (and I thought her “dementia tax” was and still is the fairest way to fund social care - no one else will touch this now), but spoiled my ballot rather than vote for Bojo (clearly unsuitable for power) or the alternatives (lib dems fully immersed in gender, wanting to rejoin the EU on any terms and saying they didn’t want a coalition with either party but wanted to win outright seemed to me to be a vote for total fantasy). I also spoiled my ballot last time around as I just didn’t feel like anyone had won my vote, the Lib Dems were still in fantasyland and a still a bit of a middle class protest vote that tells lots of people what they want to hear (yes, carers are great, publicity stunts are funny, but where are the hard choices?), Mr Davy’s explanation as to his stint as minister for the Post Office was pretty unconvincing to me and Labour wouldn’t win in my consituency anyway.

I feel as if I have always voted in a pretty centrist (sometimes centre left, sometimes centre right) way. I actually think that the liberal groupthink of the last 10-15 years has moved the centre ground and it has moved me to the right, rather than me moving much myself. I feel pretty disillusioned and frustrated.

I want a party who is capable of telling the truth and making hard choices. The “strangers” stuff isn’t really to my taste, but neither do I think it is full on Enoch Powell - there’s a truth in it, which is that we haven’t expected enough on integration and contribution within our immigration system and we’ve had open borders for the last couple of years despite people voting against it, so people are feeling as is there is a detriment and lack of cohesion to society which is what was meant.

Immigration is a series of hard choices and should be based on pragmatism and competence. I don’t think they should have made immigration harder for high earners and people making a strong contribution, but otherwise it’s a step in the right direction.

I don’t need my politicians to make me feel more virtuous and better about myself. I don’t care if they change their mind based on evidence. I need them to make a pragmatic decision as to what is best for our country in the long term and be competent running the country.

Agree. People have had their fill of liberalism and open borders. Particularly in a broken economy.

Goldenbear · 14/05/2025 09:56

Coolasfeck · 14/05/2025 09:41

I think very few people disagree with the need for immigration reform. What many people including myself disagree with is how Starmer sold it. The rhetoric used is dangerous and places individual immigrants and those perceived to be immigrants in the firing line.

There was an opportunity to say Labour will rebalance the economy, reduce net migration, reactivate some of the economically inactive Brits to fill the gaps without the sensationalist Daily Express headline rhetoric. It sounded more like Trumps America than Britain.

This is not a road any of us should want to go down. How will he announce benefit reform? Will it be a big statement accusing benefit claimants of being a ‘drain’, call Britain an ‘island of scroungers’ and set them up for attack when its previous policy decisions not the individual benefit claimants responsible.

Yes, this; the collective cultural neuroses is something they seem to be happy to entertain as valid and are responding to these extremes in an extreme way! It's just entertainment sinking to the depths of shamelessness that Reform do really well!

EasternStandard · 14/05/2025 09:57

Coolasfeck · 14/05/2025 09:41

I think very few people disagree with the need for immigration reform. What many people including myself disagree with is how Starmer sold it. The rhetoric used is dangerous and places individual immigrants and those perceived to be immigrants in the firing line.

There was an opportunity to say Labour will rebalance the economy, reduce net migration, reactivate some of the economically inactive Brits to fill the gaps without the sensationalist Daily Express headline rhetoric. It sounded more like Trumps America than Britain.

This is not a road any of us should want to go down. How will he announce benefit reform? Will it be a big statement accusing benefit claimants of being a ‘drain’, call Britain an ‘island of scroungers’ and set them up for attack when its previous policy decisions not the individual benefit claimants responsible.

Tbf he already used bloat for job losses.

User32459 · 14/05/2025 09:57

Upstartled · 14/05/2025 09:45

What happened to Smash the Gangs anyway, have they given up on that?

It's a slogan, not a policy. It's about as useless as the war on drugs because you can lock people up but it doesn't stop the supply because someone else will always step up when there's big money involved.

User32459 · 14/05/2025 09:59

Barbadossunset · 14/05/2025 09:52

I’m sure some tourists feel the same. It’s not pleasant anymore so I spend my money elsewhere and save myself the stress of being mugged, harrassed etc. I can’t be the only one and I believe money from tourism will dry up unless the gov get a grip it..

Of course tourists feel the same. If they are spending a lot of money to come and visit London only for their phones and wallets etc to be snatched when they go sight seeing, they’re hardly going to recommend it as a holiday destination.
I beg our friends from Korea and Japan to be really, really careful when walking about London, but as it doesn’t happen hardly at all in their countries, they don’t pay attention.
One woman had £1000 pinched from her bag and the other left her phone on the table in a cafe and of course that was gone in seconds.
Sadiq Khan just denies it’s happening.

The country is on the path of destruction. Visitors will just stop coming. We're in managed decline, yet still pay billions to put illegal immigrants in hotels. It's absolutely bonkers.

Barbadossunset · 14/05/2025 10:05

Visitors will just stop coming.

Yes they will. It’s such a pity as there’s so many interesting and beautiful things to do and see in London.

Goldenbear · 14/05/2025 10:07

Barbadossunset · 14/05/2025 09:52

I’m sure some tourists feel the same. It’s not pleasant anymore so I spend my money elsewhere and save myself the stress of being mugged, harrassed etc. I can’t be the only one and I believe money from tourism will dry up unless the gov get a grip it..

Of course tourists feel the same. If they are spending a lot of money to come and visit London only for their phones and wallets etc to be snatched when they go sight seeing, they’re hardly going to recommend it as a holiday destination.
I beg our friends from Korea and Japan to be really, really careful when walking about London, but as it doesn’t happen hardly at all in their countries, they don’t pay attention.
One woman had £1000 pinched from her bag and the other left her phone on the table in a cafe and of course that was gone in seconds.
Sadiq Khan just denies it’s happening.

How long have you lived in London? As someone who was born in and grew up in edgy part of West and South London, I don't recall these halcyon days of zero crime. My Dad and brother supported a London Football team and I was often dragged along by my Dad as a divorce activity for the weekends, I was largely quite scared of the experiences, even in the family seating areas! Outside of the grounds there would be rivalry and drunken fights brewing and organised fights, intimidating behaviour on the Tube. Equally, endless racism with the BNP aggravating it and institutional racism in the Police force highlighted by the awful death of Stephen Lawrence.

Things changed a bit in the 00s but it still wasn't a crime free Utopia, hasn't the crime just changed. I work in London as does DH and we don't see crime anything like I did growing up there.

Coolasfeck · 14/05/2025 10:14

Starmer on education sector reform:

‘Island of divvies! The damage is incalculable!’

Starmer on health sector reform:

‘Island of fat hypochondriacs! The damage is incalculable!’

Starmer on technology investment:

‘Island of thick Luddites! The damage is incalculable!’

Goldenbear · 14/05/2025 10:15

User32459 · 14/05/2025 09:59

The country is on the path of destruction. Visitors will just stop coming. We're in managed decline, yet still pay billions to put illegal immigrants in hotels. It's absolutely bonkers.

London was better when it wasn't just for visitors, when people lived in the properties sitting empty. This totally has changed the character of the place. It is happening in the city by the sea where I live, it is totally changing the vibe of the place, endless period properties that were once homes to people, sitting empty - the buy to leave or the endless Air BNBs!

matresense · 14/05/2025 10:15

@TheQuickRobin

But it’s not just the immigration, it’s the lack of expectations on integration on shared values and ongoing contribution too, which is I think that the “island of strangers” is intended to convey. I’m not saying I liked the wording - I don’t and would write it differently. But I think it’s not racist and xenophobic to say that there should be some expectations around shared culture, behavioural expectations and contribution to society. That shouldn’t be about villainising migrants, I totally agree, but about designing a system and a society that sets out its expectations better and in a compassionate way. It’s not compassionate to pretend that we don’t care at all about specific things and then be quietly or gradually more loudly resentful (or, in the case of wealthy liberals, privately grateful that they don’t suffer the consequences).

matresense · 14/05/2025 10:24

and @TheQuickRobini think we all do recognise that it is difficult to convey. The reality is that a set of bad choices have been made and quite a lot of people are feeling negatively about that. That doesn’t and should not imply disliking those people individually or specifically. But it does imply recognising the issues that have arisen and designing the system so that fewer people with identical profiles to those people settle and become citizens in future.

Barbadossunset · 14/05/2025 10:27

London was better when it wasn't just for visitors, when people lived in the properties sitting empty. This totally has changed the character of the place. It is happening in the city by the sea where I live, it is totally changing the vibe of the place, endless period properties that were once homes to people, sitting empty - the buy to leave or the endless Air BNBs.

I agree with you on this and the amount of properties in London and elsewhere bought as investments and left empty is shocking.
However, I suppose if tourists stop coming because of crime then the Air BNB owners will go out of business and the properties will go on the market.

Goldenbear · 14/05/2025 10:33

matresense · 14/05/2025 10:24

and @TheQuickRobini think we all do recognise that it is difficult to convey. The reality is that a set of bad choices have been made and quite a lot of people are feeling negatively about that. That doesn’t and should not imply disliking those people individually or specifically. But it does imply recognising the issues that have arisen and designing the system so that fewer people with identical profiles to those people settle and become citizens in future.

But your setting up this narrative of the “good” and “bad” migrant, that perpetuates racist ideas that harm everyone in society.

Zebedee999 · 14/05/2025 10:35

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 13/05/2025 20:22

Yanbu, I'm a leftie but I voted green and I'll never like him

Stuff like this, i saw coming. See also, disability benefit cuts. Didn't do it to PIP because of the middle clash backlash, but has decided to attack working class universal credit claimants claiming the disability element

Disgusting and unprincipled man. I know we'd never get a Jeremy corbyn again, but someone who at least cares about the poor and those who work all hours keeping our country going, would be great!

Labour deserted the working class decades ago. In fact I'd go so far as to say Labour despise the working class.

It started with Gordon Brown calling Gillian Duffy a bigot in 2010. Thornberry hating and mocking white van man / St George's Cross in 2014. Starmer blocking and mocking the working class for voting Brexit and being anti immigration due to the wage suppression the working class suffers etc. And so it goes on.

Labour have hated the working class for decades hence why they voted Tory in 2019 and Reform now.

Badbadbunny · 14/05/2025 10:36

Barbadossunset · 14/05/2025 10:05

Visitors will just stop coming.

Yes they will. It’s such a pity as there’s so many interesting and beautiful things to do and see in London.

There's more to the UK than London!

BeanQuisine · 14/05/2025 10:37

"IABU - I thought he was a prat now I think he’s on my team

IANBU - EITHER I thought he was a prat, still think he’s a prat OR I liked him now think he’s a prat."

What if you didn't think he was a prat, and your opinion of him hasn't changed?

I think he comes across as rather ineffectual at times, but is certainly a big improvement on the various cartoon characters the Tories have installed in recent years.

I also think there's been unjustified over-reaction to his "island of strangers" speech, which was a lot more balanced than some are claiming.

Badbadbunny · 14/05/2025 10:40

Zebedee999 · 14/05/2025 10:35

Labour deserted the working class decades ago. In fact I'd go so far as to say Labour despise the working class.

It started with Gordon Brown calling Gillian Duffy a bigot in 2010. Thornberry hating and mocking white van man / St George's Cross in 2014. Starmer blocking and mocking the working class for voting Brexit and being anti immigration due to the wage suppression the working class suffers etc. And so it goes on.

Labour have hated the working class for decades hence why they voted Tory in 2019 and Reform now.

Nail on the head. Brown really did set the scene with his bigoted woman comment all those years ago. It's a line in the sand, date wise, which proves that the immigration problem isn't even a recent thing, it goes right back 15-20 years or more. Yet the London centric elite politicians just won't accept it's a problem, because they're the ones benefitting from top end ethnic restaurants and cheap quality labour (private nannies etc). They don't see the reality of Just Eat drivers in uninsured cars, money laundering barber shops, modern slavery, gangs of young adults abusing women in the street, etc out in the more disadvantaged regions which they've ignored for decades. It's taken a long time, but now the problems are so widespread across the country, that the politicians can't get away with pretending the problems don't exist and that anyone who says anything is a rabid extreme right racist. Finally they've woken up, but it's taken Farage to galvanise enough voters to make an impact.

BIossomtoes · 14/05/2025 10:44

EasternStandard · 14/05/2025 09:52

Looks like it. That was bound to fail.

Just like “Stop the boats”, that went well too.

Barbadossunset · 14/05/2025 10:47

There's more to the UK than London.

Oh definitely - that’s why I recommend to our friends and acquaintances from East Asia to go to the countryside and cities like Bath and Cambridge - though maybe crime is rising in those cities.
We’ve got a friend who is a guide and apparently some people think UK is smaller than it is.
“We’d like to go to Edinburgh and maybe Islay or Skye, then York which I think is near Chatsworth so we want to go there too, and then Cambridge and Oxford colleges, and of course the Cotswolds are a must, including Blenheim Palace, and to end up with Salisbury Cathedral and the Eden Project. Oh yes, and my grandmother was born in Brighton so I’d love to have a quick look round there.
Can we fit that in a long weekend?”

Sorry, that’s completely off topic.

Toootss · 14/05/2025 10:47

Barbadossunset · 14/05/2025 09:54

Upstartled · Today 09:45
What happened to Smash the Gangs anyway, have they given up on that

I guess they’ve realised there’s nothing they can do about them.

There’s nothing they can do about it because we are such nice law abiding people the illegal imigrants can take the p.
There are warehouses full of inflatables in Germany - manufactured in Turkey. We could send in an SAS type raid and destroy the lot.

Somehow other countries are bending the rules and controlling stuff but our judges are on the side of the immigrants.