I'm so confused

[pinkglitter12]

So when I was 7 I had a massive crush on a 7 year old lol. When I'm 70 will I find 70 year olds attractive?
Do we start seeing past the creaks and the wrinkles?

I hope you aren't still crushing on 7 year olds.

Let's say you are 30 now. Did you really find 30+ yo people attractive when you were 13-14?

Do you find 13-14 people attractive today?

What a strange question. How old are you now?

You what now 🤔

My niece is 24 and she thinks Tom Selleck is the most handsome man she's ever seen. I think you can have a crush on anyone who's an adult.

MIck Jagger, Al Pacino, Cher & Madonna clearly haven't seen through the wrinkles.

I recently saw a clip of Jane Fonda saying she was single and would remain so because she didn't like 'old skin'

She has very good taste. I ❤️ Tom Selleck and have done since Magnum

Yeah, even as a kid when my mum fancied him, I could see he was handsome.

It's fine to be single but she's 'old skin' as well!

She wasn't denying that she was old, just saying she didn't like old skin and didn't seem to be wanting 'younger'

What is to be confused about?

We were watching Dave Gilmore at Pompeii last night after watching an earlier video of pink floyd at Pompeii when they were youngsters. I realised I was actually more attracted to the old Dave Gilmore than the young one.

But then I quite fancy Anthony Hopkins - I’m 45 😂

Yes as the older you get the younger everyone around you looks. I'm in my 30s and I would never look twice at anyone more then about 5 years younger then me as to me they look about 12. This is how brains work or should work and stops people being paedophiles. This is why I get a bit grossed out when people have relationships or even fancy people much younger then them.

I'm in my 50s and although I can appreciate a younger man eg 30s and younger is good looking I do not fancy them at all.
Everyone in their 20s now looks about 15 anyway, kids.

I do notice men in their 40s to early 60s and identify with them more certainly. I'm happily married though so not looking!

I think you can have a crush on whoever and whatever age as long as you're both adults.

As for 70.... My DM & her friends are in their 70's, mostly single, and not crushing on anyone. Too busy having a life!!

Jane Fonda might have been slightly tongue in cheek anyway.

I definitely notice the difference now I'm middle aged, a youngster tried to chat me up this week and I thought he was too young. I think late 20s.

Yes you will! But with broadening range.

I am old enough to see men in their20’s as children.