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I need a British eye - what do you think of my Indian bridal outfit

241 replies

Vlonk · 07/05/2025 18:45

I’m getting married in July. The ceremony will take place in a church (Fiance is white Christian) followed by a reception in a country house known for its gardens. We will have a Sikh blessing at the temple the following day (I am borrowing a cousins outfit for that).

I will wear a white Saree to honour both my cultures (“white dress” plus Saree) for the church ceremony. I will then change into an Indian outfit called a lehengha. I plan to drink, dance and so lehenghas are considered easier to
manage than a sari.

So for Indian sensibilities the outfit I have fallen in love with (pic 1) is very plain and not “heavy”
enough for a bride. BUT I will be the only woman in Indian clothes. Everyone else will be in summer dresses (well maybe my mum will wear an Indian outfit).

So I have fallen in love with the colour and the fact that it is lighter and less fussy appeals somewhat. As does the price…

What do you think from an English or non Indian perspective? Would you be wowed

Just for reference the second image is more typical of Indian reception bridal wear.

I just don’t want to feel like a disco ball compared to everyone else. My hair will be very glam (luckily I’m blessed in that dept) and I think I have chosen a pretty make up look.

Indian jewellery is obviously quite extravagant so that will dress it up.

My cousins and sister think the first outfit is a complete no go.

I need a British eye - what do you think of my Indian bridal outfit
I need a British eye - what do you think of my Indian bridal outfit
OP posts:
DillyDallyingAllDay · 07/05/2025 18:47

I think it will be fantastic. If you love it, go for it. No one can outshine the bride anyway!

Toooldtopretend · 07/05/2025 18:47

I have never been to an Indian wedding but I think it is absolutely beautiful.

Evilspiritgin · 07/05/2025 18:48

you will look amazing, have a wonderful day

Greenglades · 07/05/2025 18:48

Gorgeous!

brettsalanger · 07/05/2025 18:48

Absolutely beautiful ❤️

bridgetreilly · 07/05/2025 18:49

You are the bride. You literally can’t go over the top. Plus they look sensational and that first one is so pretty. Perfect for England in the summer.

NorthFaceofthelaundrypile · 07/05/2025 18:49

Absolutely beautiful!!!

Nannyfannybanny · 07/05/2025 18:49

Fabulous

MarkingBad · 07/05/2025 18:49

I think the Sari is a beautiful choice whatever the colour although I love the muted blue/greens on your images, I'm sure you will look fantastic on the day.

Netcam · 07/05/2025 18:49

It's stunning, it's your special day, wear whatever you like.

Vlonk · 07/05/2025 18:50

I’m only 5 for 4 so a lot of embroidery and material will just look silly imo

It is true the first outfit is probably what a normal guest would wear to a wedding. Close relatives would probably wear something even more extravagant

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SuperNameChanged · 07/05/2025 18:50

Stunning 😍

LennyBalls · 07/05/2025 18:50

Beautiful. Stunning x

Wigtopia · 07/05/2025 18:51

I love the 2nd one

minnienono · 07/05/2025 18:51

From a British perspective the first dress is also highly decorative and very Indian wedding! I used to live in an area which was 50% Asian so I’m very familiar with wedding attire from your culture but also that many modern couples (even if both Asian) opt for fusion dresses. Would be a shame to change out of it.

go with whatever your heart is telling you, don’t worry about white British sentiments.

strawlight · 07/05/2025 18:51

It’s absolutely stunning and I’d be delighted to see a bride turn up in that! I’d love to go to an Indian wedding!

Thiswayorthatway · 07/05/2025 18:52

You will look beautiful 😍

TheEasterPangolin · 07/05/2025 18:52

If you can’t go all out on your wedding day then I’m not sure when you can. It’s stunning . I don’t see OTT. It’s beautiful , elegant and if it’s comfortable then that’s perfect. Wear and enjoy

Splendud · 07/05/2025 18:52

I thought at first that you wanted to wear this in the church - which would have perhaps raised an eyebrow or two - but having re read I can see that this is your reception outfit in which case it's an absolutely beautiful choice.

DeafLeppard · 07/05/2025 18:53

They are both utterly gorgeous! Edited to say I’ve just realised they aren’t for the church but.

Goody2ShoesAndTheFilthyBeast · 07/05/2025 18:53

It is beautiful.

CurlsLDN · 07/05/2025 18:53

Both are stunning, and you should wear what makes your heart sing.

I just saw pics of this gorgeous UK wedding where Amber, the bride, wore an outfit that was a similar mix of cultures

www.instagram.com/p/DJRAaCPs1Iy/?img_index=2&igsh=MTI4NXZpajZiZTJ4NQ==

NuffSaidSam · 07/05/2025 18:55

Wear whatever makes you feel like your best self. Don't worry about what anyone else thinks.

strawlight · 07/05/2025 18:55

CurlsLDN · 07/05/2025 18:53

Both are stunning, and you should wear what makes your heart sing.

I just saw pics of this gorgeous UK wedding where Amber, the bride, wore an outfit that was a similar mix of cultures

www.instagram.com/p/DJRAaCPs1Iy/?img_index=2&igsh=MTI4NXZpajZiZTJ4NQ==

She looks amazing! OP are you having something like that for your church dress?

Allseeingallknowing · 07/05/2025 18:57

The first one is the best imo.