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To want Brexit be reversed

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BeKookySheep · 05/05/2025 10:59

I don’t normally post about politics, but this has been playing on my mind for a while. I wasn’t super political before the referendum — just a mum trying to do her best for her family. But now, years later, I really feel like Brexit hasn’t delivered what we were promised. And I think we should seriously start talking about reversing it.

My eldest is 16, really bright, and had dreams of studying languages and maybe doing a year abroad. We looked into Erasmus a while ago, but that’s gone now. And the cost and hassle of studying or working in Europe is so much higher now. She asked me, “Why is it so much harder for us than it was for you, Mum?” And honestly, I didn’t know what to say. It hit me hard.

Everything’s more expensive — our food shop has gone up loads, and don’t even get me started on getting certain things for school packed lunches! Little things, but they add up. My brother runs a small business and he's drowning in paperwork just to send stuff to Ireland. And a friend of mine left the NHS because she felt so overstretched — they can’t recruit enough staff anymore, especially from Europe.

Brexit hasn’t made anything better. It’s just made life harder in so many small but important ways. And if something clearly isn’t working — and is limiting our children’s futures — why shouldn’t we talk about changing it?

We tell our kids it’s okay to admit when something’s not right and make it better. Maybe it’s time we took our own advice.

Would love to hear if others are feeling the same. Has Brexit made life harder for your family too?

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blindblinds · 05/05/2025 12:11

We have high housing costs, because we don’t build enough homes and import nearly one million immigrants a year and then wonder why more people and same housing means more expense.

Nothing to do with low interest rates? Nothing to do with the fact we turned housing into an asset?

But your food shop has gone up because everyone was squealing for furlough during covid so they could sit in their garden and watch Netflix. The £1 trillion borrowed and printed and during covid so healthy people could sit at home is why we have had inflation.

Yep, it would be better if they all lost their jobs. That would have been great for civil order and also have resulted in zero financial consequences...

Your energy bills have gone up because we don’t produce energy at home like those countries who are largely immune from it due to producing their own energy. The net 0 scam means that we are shutting down oil fields, not allowed to produce our own gas and get taxed billions so government cronies can get their ‘green subsidies’.

Nothing to do with privatisation for a quick buck?

You are paying more than ever in tax because more than half the population is net contributors and nearly 10 million people of working age are claiming benefits rather then working full time or at all.

Are you including pensioners in this? It's not unusual to have a high % of net contributors it's the demographics that matter. And a large majority of that 10m are people who retired early, students & sick/disabled

Grantanow · 05/05/2025 12:11

DoYouReally · 05/05/2025 11:19

Brexit was an arrogant vote by the unintelligent and is a damning indictment of the UK education system, IQ levels and critical thinking abilities.

Edited

I don't think it was arrogant but certainly badly misinformed. Our failure to train people in school to think critically and to raise educational standards (especially in relation to modern history and economics) is partly to blame.

OnlyTheBravest · 05/05/2025 12:15

I think even if the current Government tried to 'reverse' Brexit we would not get the same deal as we had before.

It was a democratic vote and if Labour goes back on the vote's outcome then that will fall nicely into the hands of Reform.

The issues that are effecting the UK were there before Brexit, which only enhanced them. The root of the problem is simply the rich are too rich and money that should be going into the public purse is going to foreign investors instead who have zero obligation to make things better for people living in the UK. e.g. Thames Water being sold off and then the expectation that the public purse will help them out of their financial woes despite taking huge salaries.

ClareBlue · 05/05/2025 12:15

Keepingthingsinteresting · 05/05/2025 12:10

Your posts would make me laugh if I wasn’t crying first.

All those idiots who voted for brexit we told you all this would happen and you still voted for it. Serves everyone right & why on earth would Europe have us back, and certainly not on the favourable terms we had.

You all fucked it up for the rest of us by being selfish racists, so excuse me if I don’t feel sorry for you now you’ve noticed your kids have fewer opportunities. You’ve made your beds so time to lie in them.

I’m so angry with you all.

Stop referring to the political union of the EU as Europe. That's the propaganda that EU leaders spout to make the Union seem like all encompassing. It's not, and insulting to the rest of Europe. Don't abcuse people of being stupid and show your self to be ignorant in the same sentence.

blindblinds · 05/05/2025 12:16

This country is cooked

I agree with that point

BisiBodi · 05/05/2025 12:16

Keepingthingsinteresting · 05/05/2025 12:10

Your posts would make me laugh if I wasn’t crying first.

All those idiots who voted for brexit we told you all this would happen and you still voted for it. Serves everyone right & why on earth would Europe have us back, and certainly not on the favourable terms we had.

You all fucked it up for the rest of us by being selfish racists, so excuse me if I don’t feel sorry for you now you’ve noticed your kids have fewer opportunities. You’ve made your beds so time to lie in them.

I’m so angry with you all.

I concur with your sentiment, but not your choice of language.

I also felt that watching the Brexit debacle unfold was like watching a library being burnt down by people who can't read, but these days I'm more muted in my view, and belittling people is never constructive.

Your desire, presumably, for everyone is for those who voted for Brexit to realise their mistake, to educate themselves on the reasons behind - and the destructive results of - Brexit and to worth with, rather than against, us in doing what's best for the country. We won't get that by telling people who made a stupid mistake that they are stupid. Many aren't, many were hoodwinked, others voted out of desperation, or a misplaced desire to 'stick it to the man' in government.
I think we best achieve that with understanding. Yes, Brexit was a massive mistake that was very obvious to half the country, but it happened. And now we need to fix that, and to better help this country by leading by example and forging closer ties with mainland Europe, especially in the light of Trump's pound-shop fascism.

Thisisittheapocalypse · 05/05/2025 12:17

Brexit has been a disaster unless you're in the top 5% essentially.

Going back would be great, but if anyone thinks EU will draw some harder lines the UK ever does ask to go back is deluding themselves. It will be more proof that we need them more than they need us ... which our economy has definitely proven to be true imo.

Let alone the nightmare unfolding on the other side of the Atlantic ... which the far right and uneducated here seem to be gleefully joining in on. There's a reason Teslas are still selling here and nowhere else ...

Keirawr · 05/05/2025 12:18

blindblinds · 05/05/2025 12:11

We have high housing costs, because we don’t build enough homes and import nearly one million immigrants a year and then wonder why more people and same housing means more expense.

Nothing to do with low interest rates? Nothing to do with the fact we turned housing into an asset?

But your food shop has gone up because everyone was squealing for furlough during covid so they could sit in their garden and watch Netflix. The £1 trillion borrowed and printed and during covid so healthy people could sit at home is why we have had inflation.

Yep, it would be better if they all lost their jobs. That would have been great for civil order and also have resulted in zero financial consequences...

Your energy bills have gone up because we don’t produce energy at home like those countries who are largely immune from it due to producing their own energy. The net 0 scam means that we are shutting down oil fields, not allowed to produce our own gas and get taxed billions so government cronies can get their ‘green subsidies’.

Nothing to do with privatisation for a quick buck?

You are paying more than ever in tax because more than half the population is net contributors and nearly 10 million people of working age are claiming benefits rather then working full time or at all.

Are you including pensioners in this? It's not unusual to have a high % of net contributors it's the demographics that matter. And a large majority of that 10m are people who retired early, students & sick/disabled

If you understood anything about anything you would know that supply and demand determines pricing, even for housing - shock horror.

The way to avoid pissing up a £1 trillion in furlough and other largesse would have been to…..oh I don’t know, not shit the economy down, keep healthy people, 99% who were never at risk working. What a novel idea. But hey, you wouldn’t have been able to bake mediocre banana bread the whole time then.

Private energy companies don’t produce energy. They just issue your bill. Energy production is a completely different sector. Supply and demand again, notice?

And no, 10m people or working age are 10m people of working age. You can make all sorts of excuses for people to not work, but then don’t expect the magic money tree to keep shedding £ notes. Smaller pie means smaller share.

Dangermoo · 05/05/2025 12:18

DoYouReally · 05/05/2025 11:19

Brexit was an arrogant vote by the unintelligent and is a damning indictment of the UK education system, IQ levels and critical thinking abilities.

Edited

🙄 never learnt to curb your misplaced arrogance with Brexiteers and you won't with Reformers. You then wonder why they are successful. Look in the mirror.

SilviaSnuffleBum · 05/05/2025 12:20

Ah, Brexit.
The referendum that was not actually legally binding, contrary to what most of the ill informed electorate believed.
Fucking lemmings blindly accepting whatever was fed to them by the politically biased media.
It was less a case of 'The people have spoken' and more a 'The people have played right into the hands of the Government'.

blindblinds · 05/05/2025 12:20

@BisiBodi I actually did use to think like you & have said similar on here many a time. However after the Reform vote, I'm truly baffled that people are so quick to believe Farage again & can't get my head around many thinking Reform will improve their lives.

IfYouPutASausageInItItsNotAViennetta · 05/05/2025 12:20

Whilst I have no doubt that racism and xenophobia was uppermost in a large amount of Brexiteers' minds, I think it's disingenuous to completely ignore the desire of many for UK sovereignty - even with the knowledge that it would be a painful process, at least to begin with.

The huge ongoing desire for independence from the UK amongst an extremely sizeable minority of Scots hasn't been denounced as xenophobia, bigotry or pure lunacy. I'm sure most of those in favour are fully aware that it would be a very rough ride to begin with; but - for wise or for foolish, or for anything in between - they see it as a price worth paying for long-term gain in their overriding desire for freedom and independence from the current status quo that they are deeply unhappy with, whatever their own reasons.

TooBigForMyBoots · 05/05/2025 12:21

Keirawr · 05/05/2025 12:10

I see that the progressives and enlightened are out in force calling Brexit voters stupid and idiots. Did you smart people notice that Reform had massive electoral success just a few days ago.

Do you ever learn?

Are you prepared to laugh on the other side of your face when Reform holds the balance of power in parliament? Because that’s what happens when you keep calling the electorate stupid. The joke always ends up being on you, yet you never learn.

Seriously? Your vote is based on whether or not a random on the internet called you "stupid"?🤯

Can you not see how stupid that is? How easily manipulated it makes you?🤦‍♀️

Azdcgbjml · 05/05/2025 12:22

Swiftie1878 · 05/05/2025 11:43

I said they are to unfold. They have started to unfold, but we aren’t anywhere near full benefits yet.
We’ve stopped paying money to the EU - given the state of the public purse at the moment, that’s a huge gain.
We can now control our own taxes - VAT on private school fees, and removing VAT on sanitary products would not have been allowed had we been in the EU.
We have stopped free movement of people - the immigration crisis across Europe would be far worse for us without this door closed.
We are deep in trade agreement negotiations with a number of countries, including the U.S., (which will protect us from the tumult of Trump’s tariff whims). Our non-EU membership has already kept our tariffs lower than those being put on EU goods and services.

There are more to come, and we won’t fully know what Brexit Britain looks like for some time due to other world events.
And Brexit was democratically decided upon.
It is unreasonable to revisit such a major decision so soon.

Tell that to Nigel:
The question of a second referendum was raised by Mr Farage in an interview with the Mirror in which he said: "In a 52-48 referendum this would be unfinished business by a long way. If the Remain campaign win two-thirds to one-third that ends it."

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-eu-referendum-36306681.amp

...the working assumption of the Office for Budget Responsibility (OBR), external, the government's independent official forecaster, is still that Brexit in the long-term will reduce exports and imports of goods and services by 15% relative to otherwise. It has held this view since 2016, including under the previous Government.

And the OBR's other working assumption is that the fall in trade relative to otherwise will reduce the long-term size of the UK economy by around 4% relative to otherwise, equivalent to roughly £100bn in today's money.

To want Brexit be reversed
blindblinds · 05/05/2025 12:23

If you understood anything about anything you would know that supply and demand determines pricing, even for housing - shock horror.

Why do you think I'm unaware supply and demand isn't important? It isn't everything though but if you can't understand that 🤷🏻‍♀️

I don't even understand the rest of your ranting.

Keirawr · 05/05/2025 12:23

TooBigForMyBoots · 05/05/2025 12:21

Seriously? Your vote is based on whether or not a random on the internet called you "stupid"?🤯

Can you not see how stupid that is? How easily manipulated it makes you?🤦‍♀️

Enjoy a Reform government. You will soon have one, you’re going exactly the right way about it.

OonaStubbs · 05/05/2025 12:24

SilviaSnuffleBum · 05/05/2025 12:20

Ah, Brexit.
The referendum that was not actually legally binding, contrary to what most of the ill informed electorate believed.
Fucking lemmings blindly accepting whatever was fed to them by the politically biased media.
It was less a case of 'The people have spoken' and more a 'The people have played right into the hands of the Government'.

How could people play right into the hands of the government when the government put out leaflets encouraging people to vote Remain, the PM was an ardent remainer who resigned after Brexit won? Most of the media was pro-remain.

Keirawr · 05/05/2025 12:24

blindblinds · 05/05/2025 12:23

If you understood anything about anything you would know that supply and demand determines pricing, even for housing - shock horror.

Why do you think I'm unaware supply and demand isn't important? It isn't everything though but if you can't understand that 🤷🏻‍♀️

I don't even understand the rest of your ranting.

You don’t understand basics like supply and demand. It’s clear.

TooBigForMyBoots · 05/05/2025 12:25

SilviaSnuffleBum · 05/05/2025 12:20

Ah, Brexit.
The referendum that was not actually legally binding, contrary to what most of the ill informed electorate believed.
Fucking lemmings blindly accepting whatever was fed to them by the politically biased media.
It was less a case of 'The people have spoken' and more a 'The people have played right into the hands of the Government'.

Yeah, the government in the Kremlin.

Russia invested a lot in the Leave Campaign. Wonder why?🤔

Azdcgbjml · 05/05/2025 12:26

Whippetlovely · 05/05/2025 11:56

You've hit the nail on the head, middle class belittling the working class as usual. Sorry Matilda can't study abroad but the majority of us have real world problems. It's a nice idea to welcome mass migration but it puts a strain on schools, NHS and housing but these issues they don't have to worry about they can probably pay private and send thier kids to nice schools. They think it's lovely migrants come over and work in care because it's beneath them to do such jobs (patronising or what). Mass migration keeps wages down, construction pay has increased a lot since brexit, money in the pockets of hard working people. I don't know anyone that regrets voting to leave.

You understand that immigration has increased and not decreased since Brexit?

To want Brexit be reversed
PermanentTemporary · 05/05/2025 12:26

There's minimal public UK appetite to rejoin the EU - what about the surge in support for Reform makes anyone think that there is?

And the EU as a whole would make welcoming noises but would take years to finalise a deal with us that would look nothing like the 'jam today and jam tomorrow' deal that we had and pissed down the wind. They'd want to take their time to be sure that we wouldn't just stomp off again.

I'm about as Remain as can be, mainly because of the European wars i believe it prevents, but I'm not that eager to join the euro, and if I don't want to, you can bet a majority don't.

A chunk of Leave voters I believe were motivated primarily by wanting to see upward pressure on wages. That has definitely happened, so it's a bit daft to think that nothing people want came with Brexit. It's just that - surprise! - we now have much more inflation as well, so in general unless you have unusually low outgoings, you don't feel better off.

blindblinds · 05/05/2025 12:26

Many posters here really aren't trying hard enough to show that they are not misinformed, gullible, narrow minded, ignorant, etc 😆

Genevieva · 05/05/2025 12:27

Our government could have delivered Brexit and kept free movement of people. It was their choice not to and it’s so central to the European project that it shut off other opportunities too. I don’t think it was the hill to die on, but it’s the one they chose.

Dangermoo · 05/05/2025 12:27

blindblinds · 05/05/2025 12:26

Many posters here really aren't trying hard enough to show that they are not misinformed, gullible, narrow minded, ignorant, etc 😆

No, we are letting you show us how it's done.

Itseatingmeup · 05/05/2025 12:27

The loss of freedom of movement is what upsets me. Retiring abroad is now only for the rich. Young people living and working abroad is much more restricted now. I feel we've massively let them down.

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