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To ask what your best investment in yourself has been?

604 replies

HeyItsPickleRick · 04/05/2025 23:08

Come on mumsnet, creep my lifestyle!

Inspired by the personal stylist post - I’m wondering what is the best thing you’ve bought for yourself?

Mine has 100% been my peloton and all the dumbbells. First exercise I’ve ever stuck to!

OP posts:
notadrift · 05/05/2025 09:20

hobbledyhoy · 05/05/2025 09:08

Students get loans from the government which they pay back and the likelihood of a better wage post degree means that they are likely to pay more tax, which in turn could benefit the bus driver who may need support further down the line from the benefits system or the work that the graduate does i.e. doctor

It’s about balance and benefiting all in society where possible to reach their potential and access opportunities and help when needed.

They also get grants, in some cases.

User5783457 · 05/05/2025 09:24

Elective c-section
Braces
Veneers

godmum56 · 05/05/2025 09:24

All the plants, pots and so on I have bought for my garden....exercise, pleasure and good for my mental health.

Divebar2021 · 05/05/2025 09:25

For me a tennis coach - I discovered tennis in my 50’s and I’d play every day if I could
A private consultation with a GP for HRT as mine was refusing which has improved my life
Mounjaro - 4 stone down and my knees thank me

YawnSoTired · 05/05/2025 09:25

NoTouch · 04/05/2025 23:19

Weight loss injections, life changing.

Helped me lose a significant amount of weight over the last year, off two medications I no longer need, blood pressure normal, more mobile and starting to exercise again.

Same

NeedToChangeName · 05/05/2025 09:28

Hwi · 05/05/2025 08:57

I love how people proudly say 'University'. Aye, right. Please remember that bus drivers were taxed so you could get your degrees. Investment, my arse.

It's in the interests of society to have a well educated workforce

The bus driver needed teachers to educate his children

And his own children could attend university without incurring debt

101Nutella · 05/05/2025 09:28

Upgraded my every day handbag to a more expensive leather one- few hundred pounds at the time. I have done the same with a brown one for summer and a decent ish work bag.
they go with everything, are comfortable and stylish. And no more mental load about what to wear.

also a good quality electric blanket. I have joint pain and it really helps to relax it which helps me sleep.

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Picklepower · 05/05/2025 09:31

I saw a nutritionist for a few sessions last year and had some private and expansive blood tests done and discovered I had insulin resistance and learnt loads about it. Also discovered a gluten intolerance. I knew there had been something not right for years, struggling to lose the same bit of weight, had to starve myself to get any results which I couldn't maintain. Costs just over a grand but a year later I'm finally consistently a healthy weight and on the road to controlling my autoimmune disease

hobbledyhoy · 05/05/2025 09:32

notadrift · 05/05/2025 09:20

They also get grants, in some cases.

Good. An educated workforce is what we need and access to learning shouldn’t be the preserve of the wealthy.

Hwi · 05/05/2025 09:34

MrsJoanDanvers · 05/05/2025 09:05

Don’t be ridiculous. We need people who are educated. My dad was a bus driver and if he were still alive he would be very pleased his daughter had a good job. My brother worked in a factory for years and he shines with pride when he talks about his son who landed a great job.

Of course we do! I also have a BSc and an MSc, but at least I realise it is not MY investment, it was courtesy of all those people who heavily subsidised my degrees in the 1990s - I paid miniscule home fees and was shocked to find out what our American friends paid - now, they DID invest in their own education, because they did not receive charity via taxes.

MonsteraDelicious · 05/05/2025 09:35

WendyWagon · 05/05/2025 08:24

Definitely therapy for alcohol dependancy.
I gave up drinking three years ago.
I had tried AA but I found it too cliquey so I sought someone just for me.

As time went on I also bought any food I fancied. Seafood, posh fruit etc. I'd put on a huge amount of weight during my drinking years. I'm now six stones lighter and eat what I please.
I am also selling some investments so I can retire.

Edited

Amazing, what a change!!

Hwi · 05/05/2025 09:36

MayaPinion · 05/05/2025 09:06

You do realise that people pay for their degrees, do you? At least in England. Most people take out loans of £9.5k a year in fees plus another £7-8k living expenses. Most students leave uni with debt of around £50k unless they have family help or they work. Many will have a job throughout their course and even support their families, so take that massive chip off your shoulder.

Of course I do! UK people pay a fraction of what it actually costs - if you compare domestic fees to international student fees. So any degree for a fee-paying UK person is hugely subsidised by the 'state'.

Hwi · 05/05/2025 09:38

hobbledyhoy · 05/05/2025 09:08

Students get loans from the government which they pay back and the likelihood of a better wage post degree means that they are likely to pay more tax, which in turn could benefit the bus driver who may need support further down the line from the benefits system or the work that the graduate does i.e. doctor

It’s about balance and benefiting all in society where possible to reach their potential and access opportunities and help when needed.

Fact remains, degrees are heavily subsidised, students pay a fraction of what it really costs - ask any international student what they pay and then realise that the 'investment in myself' was a massive charity donation on the part of tax payers.

notadrift · 05/05/2025 09:39

hobbledyhoy · 05/05/2025 09:32

Good. An educated workforce is what we need and access to learning shouldn’t be the preserve of the wealthy.

Precisely my point.

I agree 100%.

Shcolarships, bursaries, grants are open to all.

TweetingHurricane · 05/05/2025 09:39

Finally realising that food brings comfort but it’s temporary, the unhappiness and low confidence it makes me feel is not worth it. Life changing revelation

Stuffedbysparky · 05/05/2025 09:39

Being taught how to do self hypnosis. Got me through a life-threatening illness 16 years ago and have used it constantly over the years since.

Nomoreidea · 05/05/2025 09:40

TheChosenTwo · 05/05/2025 09:17

My first one was around £130 and subsequent ones get more expensive the stronger the dose. Mine are about £180 every 4 months. There are cheaper suppliers if you can be arsed to chop and change providers but I can’t so I’m sticking with the same ones I’ve used since the beginning as the offer a variety of maintenance options for afterwards.
If you want to know more there is a whole board for it, go and have a nose about on there, you might find it answers other questions you have.

Surely this should say "£180 every 4 weeks"?

Hwi · 05/05/2025 09:41

Justforthisoneithink · 05/05/2025 08:57

Studying for my professional qualification (paying the course fees myself).

Whilst on that first course module I met a woman who I used to discuss answers to the questions with. After a couple of months she invited me for an interview as they had a vacancy in her department. I got the job and part of the benefits was the company paying for my course and exams - worth many thousands over several years. The job also came with a big pay rise which increased a lot as I passed more exams and I’ve been there for 15 years.

Now, this is a genuine investment - paying for yourself.

LoveWine123 · 05/05/2025 09:41

Hummussapiens · 05/05/2025 08:43

Do you mind if I ask what degree/job, please?

It’s a business/accounting degree.

MonkeyTennis34 · 05/05/2025 09:42

University.
The ability to regularly practise gratitude.

Hwi · 05/05/2025 09:43

NeedToChangeName · 05/05/2025 09:28

It's in the interests of society to have a well educated workforce

The bus driver needed teachers to educate his children

And his own children could attend university without incurring debt

Absolutely! Can't agree more! Only be honest and say 'the investment of the society into me', rather than 'my investment'. All degrees are subsidised by the state to such an extent, that a domestic student should forever bow to the ground every time they meet an international student or the said bus driver.

TUCKINGFYP0 · 05/05/2025 09:43

Hwi · 05/05/2025 08:57

I love how people proudly say 'University'. Aye, right. Please remember that bus drivers were taxed so you could get your degrees. Investment, my arse.

I think you will find that bus drivers like their kids to be taught by teachers with degrees , their teeth drilled by dentists who have been to university, their heart bypass / knee replacement surgery done by qualified surgeons and anaesthetists, their statins or beta blockers developed by pharmacologists and the planes they fly in to be built and maintained by aeronautical engineers.

Sunbeam18 · 05/05/2025 09:44

Working 4 days instead of 5, with a Friday off.

JamieCannister · 05/05/2025 09:44

HeyItsPickleRick · 04/05/2025 23:08

Come on mumsnet, creep my lifestyle!

Inspired by the personal stylist post - I’m wondering what is the best thing you’ve bought for yourself?

Mine has 100% been my peloton and all the dumbbells. First exercise I’ve ever stuck to!

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