Dishonest husband

[AlexisAlexis]

So… my husband has previously cheated with a work colleague. This was over a decade ago, but I only found out in the last couple of years. Although I always had my suspicions. There have also been several inappropriate messages to several women, and he has visited a sex worker at least once but I suspect several times. Since the big reveal he’s vowed to change.
Most days he’ll come home from work and vent to me about his day, mentioning the same names.
I have now discovered that he has been arranging to meet and drive a colleague to work. He has never mentioned her name before or anything about giving her lifts. Previously he has picked up a male colleague but has always told me about that. This feels sneaky and suspicious. Am I being unreasonable? Or a complete fucking mug?

He's relying on the fact that you're financially reliant on him. He basically thinks he's got you trapped and he can do what he likes and you won't leave. Is that any way to live OP? If you need practical advice the women on here are amazing.

So he had an affair with a colleague, and he pays to exploit women… I’m struggling to understand what you could possibly see in a man like that. He has no regard for you, or women at all if he’s paying for sex.