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AIBU to think why don't Harry and Megan invite Charles to come stay with them?

18 replies

DenholmElliot11 · 03/05/2025 14:53

Am I missing something? If Harry and Megan want to see family why don't they just invite them to stay with them in California? For a holiday, or a few days break?

I genuinely don't get it.

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MissMoneyFairy · 03/05/2025 14:54

Maybe they have, it's not our business.

angelikacpickles · 03/05/2025 14:54

How on earth do you know that they haven't?

Allwillbewell2 · 03/05/2025 14:56

I expect if they had and he'd refused, Harry would be telling everyone about it, he's not exactly known for keeping things private.

VickiFromAmsterdam · 03/05/2025 14:58

Would you want them in your home?

No more stupid Harry threads. Leave Harry alone!

Worryabouteverything · 03/05/2025 14:58

Don't know for sure but as he is the king of a different country.
Charles would need to be invited by the USA government.

BreadInCaptivity · 03/05/2025 15:00

angelikacpickles · 03/05/2025 14:54

How on earth do you know that they haven't?

If they had and such an offer had been declined, I think it’s very likely we would have known about it.

H&M have hardly been shy about making public any perceived slight from his side family.

Then again they may been keeping their powder dry on this one for the next book…..

ExpressCheckout · 03/05/2025 15:18

Because...

...it wouldn't be a drama worthy of orchestrated media.
...it wouldn't portray H&M as heroic victims and wonderful parents.
...it might involve a public apology, because everything must be in public.

As far as I'm concerned, H. and his kids are welcome in the UK anytime, I'd be happy for him and the kids to live here permanently.

He could stay in Buckingham Palace for a while - remember, this was offered to him last time he came, but he refused. I wonder who ordered him to do that?

BallerinaRadio · 03/05/2025 15:20

You're missing a lot of things. Not least the plans of all the people involved. Unless you're guys friends with Harry and Meghan or the king?

NutellaEllaElla · 03/05/2025 15:20

God why would they accept such an offer when Harry and Meghan sell every text, hint and utterance to the media? The royal family are trying to keep some remnants of privacy. Those two are a liability.

Moveoverdarlin · 03/05/2025 15:21

Because they are a tad pissed off that they slagged off their entire family in a book.

Imagine telling every family member what you thought of them. Telling the world that you physically fought your brother and then saying two years later ‘Hey wanna come to LA and visit us?’

I’d be telling him to get fucked too. Harry knew TV interviews and books wasn’t the done thing. There is no going back once those things are out there.

Mydadsbirthday · 03/05/2025 17:35

Worryabouteverything · 03/05/2025 14:58

Don't know for sure but as he is the king of a different country.
Charles would need to be invited by the USA government.

Of course he wouldn't. He's allowed to go on a private visit. Do you think the government of Switzerland formally invites him when he goes skiing at Klosters?

BoudiccaRuled · 15/05/2025 06:33

Maybe they have invited him but maybe KC3 has watched Netflix and isn't impressed by the hosting on offer and doesn't want weeds sprinkled all over his breakfast.

CurlewKate · 15/05/2025 07:14

I’m sure on a previous thread someone explained that there is protocol about a HofS visiting other countries. But even if there wasn’t, or it was ignored, can you imagine the media uproar? And, ironically, the security nightmare. I wonder if he could go secretly? Where’s John le Carre when you need him!

HarryVanderspeigle · 15/05/2025 09:57

Maybe even the king can't afford the travel insurance for going to America while having cancer treatment. Just like all the other poor sods priced out who live there.

smallglassbottle · 15/05/2025 10:02

NutellaEllaElla · 03/05/2025 15:20

God why would they accept such an offer when Harry and Meghan sell every text, hint and utterance to the media? The royal family are trying to keep some remnants of privacy. Those two are a liability.

This ^

They'd probably have covert recording and surveillance installed everywhere to gather info for the next book. They're in no way trustworthy.

CurlewKate · 15/05/2025 10:28

BoudiccaRuled · 15/05/2025 06:33

Maybe they have invited him but maybe KC3 has watched Netflix and isn't impressed by the hosting on offer and doesn't want weeds sprinkled all over his breakfast.

I have an image of the King, like my late Fil, muttering under his breath about “bloody rabbit food-and bloody sparkly rabbit food at that!”

Serpentstooth · 15/05/2025 10:31

Oh come on, they've got a houseful of Beckhams, apparently, to who they are giving advice on maintaining good family relations. Or something like that.

CurlewKate · 15/05/2025 14:50

I’ve been amusing myself wondering Charles could travel incognito. I’m thinking sequestering himself to grow a beard. A new haircut. A wardrobe of M&S casual/cruise wear. Voice is difficult because it’s very distinctive, even among the posh, so maybe laryngitis? His travelling companion-maybe very chic American? Maybe a little younger, but not very.

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