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To think this isn't great for £55?

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SilverPicnicHead89 · 01/05/2025 20:18

We ordered 20 cupcakes from a local cake shop for my child's 6th birthday to give to her friends at the end of the day at school. Paid when ordering (no images available or book to choose from and the staff member serving just told us to go online to look at examples on their social media profile, but we were in a queue and didn't even have WiFi). Picked them up today. I'm not going to complain and I'm sure they're going to taste nice but at £55 for 20 of these, were my expectations not reasonable?

To think this isn't great for £55?
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BusyExpert · 01/05/2025 22:02

cup cakes are the simplest things to make and every supermarket sells icing and cake decorations if you did not want to make them yourself.

fgwcam · 01/05/2025 22:02

More fool you for ordering cupcakes when you hadn't seen examples of the products and apparently ordering them without knowing how much they cost either.

I'd never have paid 55 quid for 20 cupcakes in the first place, no matter how good they looked and yes, I know the shop has to make a profit and ingredients are expensive and the time to make them has to be taken into account and all the rest, but still I don't think they are worth it even if they are fancy and look better than the ones you got.

helpwillalwayscometothosethatneedit · 01/05/2025 22:03

Too much frosting which my DC hate.

Guavafish1 · 01/05/2025 22:04

My local cake shop sells 6 for £17

To think this isn't great for £55?
AllTheChaos · 01/05/2025 22:05

IHaveAlwaysLivedintheCastle · 01/05/2025 20:43

Well there speaks some one who isn't a baker.

Yep! I proved up the last batch of brownies I made - one batch worth of ingredients was £14!!

MermaidMummy06 · 01/05/2025 22:12

Cupcakes are time consuming to make lovely ones worth a baker's price tag. I've looked maybe once at buying them & said nope ... I buy some of the little basic ones from the supermarket for a few dollars. The kids don't care. It's cake. DD & I made the last batch and used packet cake mix & supermarket decorations.

Pieceofcakes · 01/05/2025 22:14

That is the price you pay for these things. You could have make them for £10 yourself probably

Sunshine1500 · 01/05/2025 22:14

Yes I think I’d be a bit disappointed at £55 on those, they aren’t really personalised cakes just pretty standard .

Norugratsatall · 01/05/2025 22:18

Now I want a cup cake….sorry nothing more helpful to add.

Speckyfourfries · 01/05/2025 22:19

I get the cheap packs of 12 iced buns from Morrisons/Tesco for kids parties and to take in when it's a birthday at school...Cheap and cheerful 😁

GlomOfNit · 01/05/2025 22:21

Right. I think YAB a bit U because: £2.50 a cupcake. What would one cost in a cafe? Someone professional has made these so you don't have to. The icing looks pretty ok/professional. Nothing to scare the horses but what on earth were you expecting for the price?? 'More luxurious' how exactly? Hand-carved sprinkles? Pound coins stuck in the frosting? Grin

I also think YABU because WHO DOES THIS? For a 6 year old?? FFS just make a batch of basic fairy cakes, do a glace icing, stick on sweeties or sprinkles, get your DD to help, job done. 6 year olds don't care, OP. They just want the cake with lots of icing and crap on top. You are trying to impress the parents.

Stravaig · 01/05/2025 22:22

Bizarre. It's hard to see clearly with the lids on the boxes, but they look lovely to me! Charming, wholesome, and not too large. Much more appealing than the Lola's brand linked, which are overdone, with pyramids of garish UPF icing and decorations drowning the actual cake.

Six year olds certainly won't care about the fine detail of decoration either, they'll just cram them in their wee faces. Just as we did with home baked fairy cakes topped with plain icing and maybe a few sprinkles. Which is what I'd do if worried by cost, and wanted to ensure wholesome ingredients. They'll vanish just as quickly.

Sounds like you move in circles which use their children's parties for social one-upmanship and flaunting wealth/success.

I'll eat them if you don't want them ...

Numberfish · 01/05/2025 22:28

titchy · 01/05/2025 20:26

Who on earth pays £2.25 per cupcake for a kid’s party bagConfused

£2.75 each?!?

Epidote · 01/05/2025 22:30

2.75 per cup cake, made fresh and by order sound about an ok price. Although they look very average and I would expect a more refined pipping because I like baking and I can do something like that. Cupcakes are expensive unless you buy it in the supermarket. The buns are about 1.30 in Greg's and 2 quid the muffins and they are chain produce.
I would think that for about 15 quid someone who knows can make them buying all the package and decorations The rest is the time the person put doing it and a bit of profit what you are paying. It will take me a few hours to do it. So yes, the price is OK.

IberianBlackout · 01/05/2025 22:31

That works out £2.5 a cupcake so it doesn’t seem unreasonable, imo.

I’d probably just get them from the supermarket, to be honest.

Hdjdb42 · 01/05/2025 22:35

I think that's okay, they look nice and you got 20 for that price. My friend paid £30 for 12, in a similar style, so I don't think you were ripped off. If you wanted to save money, you could have bought them from a supermarket?

FunMustard · 01/05/2025 22:37

They look a bit shit to be honest.

What the fuck are people on. £2.75 per handmade cupcake, I'm sorry what are people expecting? They look perfectly fine?

YABU OP, first of all for spending that amount of money on cupcakes for 6 year olds and second for bitching about perfectly normal cakes from a shop you admit you never even saw an example in.

BellesAndGraces · 01/05/2025 22:41

SilverPicnicHead89 · 01/05/2025 20:44

OK thanks for posting about Lolas.. This is a great example of what I'd hoped to see/get to choose from before the woman who served us just told us to go online to see what they do (while we didn't have any wifi..): https://www.lolas.co.uk/products/assorted-classics-mini-cupcake-box?_gl=11264ka9_upMQ.._gaMTM2NTE3ODUyMS4xNzQ2MTI4MzY3_ga_2V2RNL1XXP*MTc0NjEyODM2NC4xLjAuMTc0NjEyODM2NC4wLjAuMA..

So.. i've read the replies and what i'm taking from this is "not great, they're ok" and in some parts of the country this is more than ok for the cost.

But lesson learned, never buy something like a cake you haven't seen - and next year I'll be baking the damn things.

Thanks all. this has been helpful - while i'm still disappointed, i feel slightly less stupid at what happened.

The Lola’s link you have provided is not a fair comparison as that’s for mini cupcakes vs the standard sized cupcakes that you received. The standard sized Lola’s cupcakes are £3.95 each, whereas you paid £2.75 each. You get what you pay for!

I say this as someone who orders Lola’s cupcakes and large cakes for special occasions when I (a professional baker in a past life) can’t be arsed to bake.

DinoLil · 01/05/2025 22:43

Next time, buy a cake mix and a can of frosting and make your own. Probably cost you a tenner.

LimitedBrightSpots · 01/05/2025 22:51

Guavafish1 · 01/05/2025 22:04

My local cake shop sells 6 for £17

These are very exciting, @Guavafish1.

Cupcakes are mostly a visual thing. Why go to the effort of making a decent cake and icing them, just to cop out at the decorating part and show them absolutely no love? It's not even about effort - you don't need lots of fancy piping and fondant work, just some more visually appealing toppers.

Back21970 · 01/05/2025 22:59

They look ok, marginally better than supermarket cupcakes I suppose.

i would have said you were slightly overcharged but its in the ballpark.

They might taste amazing though!

StrawberrySquash · 01/05/2025 22:59

BottleBlondeMachiavelli · 01/05/2025 21:14

Nations? HARIBO.

If I don't get my own nation in my goody bag I'm not going to your party. 🙄

ladyofshertonabbas · 01/05/2025 23:01

YANBU- you ordered for a 6th birthday and they've put a 9!

BottleBlondeMachiavelli · 01/05/2025 23:02

StrawberrySquash · 01/05/2025 22:59

If I don't get my own nation in my goody bag I'm not going to your party. 🙄

😁

Sleepington · 01/05/2025 23:03

I think they look fine for what you paid tbh.

Hopefully they taste very nice if they're homemade.

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