To think that the less you rely on friends, the easier it is to make them?

[MyAmusedOpalCrab]

It seems like friendships come more naturally when there’s no pressure or expectation attached. When you don’t need anything from someone - whether it’s emotional support, validation, or constant contact - people seem more drawn to you.

But is that really true? Does independence make friendships easier or does it just keep them superficial? Do deep, lasting friendships require a level of reliance or is that what drives people away?

A degree of of independence yes, though being Teflon and impermeable probably doesn’t help either!