We’re both 41, DD is at university. DH has asked if we can try for a 2nd child. When we had DD in our early 20s I was adamant we’d be one and done, as was he. Now all of a sudden as we’ve had friends having kids later he’s now thinking it would be good to do it again. I have no desire to do this. For me I feel done with this chapter of my life. I also see how tired our friends with toddlers are. I'm the main warner (run my own business) and happy doing what I want when I want, and just having to worry about getting the dogs sorted. He thinks I'm being unreasonable becuae I've just said no and wont discuss it any further.