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To ask why the media seems so fixated on missing white women?

146 replies

TheGreyShark · 24/04/2025 15:03

It feels like every time a woman goes missing, the amount of media coverage she gets depends heavily on her race. When a young, attractive white woman disappears, it’s headline news, with rolling updates, public concern and extensive investigations. Meanwhile, countless missing women of colour - many from vulnerable backgrounds - barely get a mention.

Of course, every missing person case is tragic but the disparity in coverage is glaring. Is it just about what gets views or is there a deeper bias at play?

AIBU to think the media has an obvious preference when it comes to whose stories get told?

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JHound · 24/04/2025 17:29

PaddingtonBearStare1 · 24/04/2025 16:22

I agree with @SipandClean DH and I comment on it all the time. It’s not just black women either, it’s all the other minority groups.

I think it’s a good thing that lots of different groups are represented but it needs to be representative of real life. Thats where I do this 🙄 🙄

I always find it baffling that people sit down and comment on the different ethnicities featured in ads - It strikes me as such an odd thing to dwell on! 😹

JHound · 24/04/2025 17:31

TenaciousOne · 24/04/2025 16:41

As if you needed to out yourself more. This is such a dog whistle. A quick Google search shows it to be 19% of adverts have a person from the global majority in up from 5% in 2015.

Thanks, I will look that up. It seems it’s fair to say it’s “slightly disproportionate” but “nearly all” is wildly incorrect!

JHound · 24/04/2025 17:34

Ablondiebutagoody · 24/04/2025 17:24

They kind of do according to a Channel 4/YouGov study from 2019.

37% of TV ads feature black people vs 3% of population

12% South Asian vs 7% of population

8% East Asian vs 1% of population

So not “nearly all adverts have a black woman in them then?”

Cyclingmummy1 · 24/04/2025 17:37

I think class pays a big part.

Kbroughton · 24/04/2025 17:37

NeringaCS · 24/04/2025 15:16

Can you give some examples of women of colour in this country whose disappearances you do not feel garnered enough attention relative to the cases of white women?

Biba henry and Nicola smallman

menopausalfart · 24/04/2025 17:38

@JHound Some people would love to go back to the days when our TVs only represented white people. I've also come across people complaining about accents being represented.

CalicoPusscat · 24/04/2025 17:41

Kbroughton · 24/04/2025 17:37

Biba henry and Nicola smallman

I so felt for them - it was in the press at first then disappeared. Their mother seems lovely. Police officers horrid.

They were only trying to enjoy themselves.

sofasoda · 24/04/2025 17:46

it's class more than anything

sofasoda · 24/04/2025 17:49

Biba henry and Nicola smallman

I genuinely don't think this was just racism, I think it was played down because it was so shocking & people would panic.

sofasoda · 24/04/2025 17:50

The most obvious case of this in the UK in recent times was the tragic disappearance of Nicola Bulley, an attractive young-ish middle class blonde woman. People go missing all the time, but this particular case created a huge media circus. Why? Because people kept on clicking.

Too many think they are armchair detectives and many didn't want to hear the obvious answer and for whatever reason preferred the idea of a murderer.

doodleschnoodle · 24/04/2025 17:55

If you really don’t believe race of a missing person affects the tone and volume of media coverage, you’re living in a fantasy world. Educate yourself.

To those who want names, look up Owami Davies, student nurse missing for over a month with very little media coverage, Joy Morgan, Sabina Nessa, Bibaa Henry, Nicole Smallman, Elizabeth Ogungbayibi. All black women and children who have received very little media coverage (Bibaa and Nicole eventually managed decent media coverage when a police officer took photos of their dead bodies and shared them on WhatsApp. Their mother has spoken about how hard it was to get any sort of media coverage and how much she tried).

Sometimeswinning · 24/04/2025 17:56

Kbroughton · 24/04/2025 17:37

Biba henry and Nicola smallman

They were found within a day. It received a lot of attention for other reasons I believe. I remember the story. It was heartbreaking and frightening.

As someone said previously. Family and friends bring missing people to the attention of the press. It’s then the readers/clickers who keep the stories going.

Beesareourdfriends · 24/04/2025 18:07

I also think that it’s not all white women. It’s conventionally attractive middle class white women who get the most coverage.

Years ago a class mate was murdered age 15. She lived in a very socially deprived area of a socially deprived Northern town. She was average looking. It made the local press but not the nationals .

Are white working class girls seen as more valuable than black working class girls ? I’m not sure?

I agree that some disappeared people of either sex including children seem more newsworthy than others. And that’s disgusting. We should care about missing people regardless of their sex, class or ethnicity.

Scentbird · 24/04/2025 18:07

its definitely is a ‘thing’.

However as a mixed race woman I am not sure its just as easy as the media is racist.

There’s so many layers to this. A lot of of the cases that get a lot of attention usually get the attention because the family or friends have pushed for media involvement. Sarah Everard, as an example, worked at digital media company and her friends (with media contacts) are the ones that made sure her disappearance got lots of attention.

Class and background have a lot to do with it. I live in an ex mining town. We have had quite a lot of women go missing, from here and the surrounding area, in recent years. All white (predominantly white area)The women have unfortunately been found dead and non have made the national news. Even when missing for several days. One was missing for a good few days, left her house in the middle of the night and her husband said she had PND. She was found dead several days later, which is when there was small mentions on news websites. Her husband was arrested and turns out her murdered her. Again, his arrest was on websites. Not the national news. His sentencing did make the news.

several women have gone missing and found days later after committing suicide. Locally they are stories on Facebook, local police pages, sometimes local newspapers Facebook. But not national. Only last weekend a young girl went missing. Again, all over Facebook but never made news. A young white girl. Thankfully she was found after a few days.

Most missing people, do not make the news.

Racism and classism within the police has an impact. How quickly they react. Their initial decisions, their opinions on what happened etc

Theres cultural aspects. If I went missing my mums family would be trying to get as much attention as possible. My Dads family (Indian) would not. They are far more private. As are most of their friends of a similar back ground. Whilst I am sure many families would, there’s a culture of privacy that I see far more in my Dads family than in my mums. And I see that in my friends families as well.

Of course there’s racism included in the reasons it happens. But let’s be honest, it’s not white women. It’s a certain type of white woman. Usually middle class, whose family probably have better resources available. The women usually are considered attractive. Usually from affluent areas. And so on.

Any missing women from areas considered to be rough or poor aren’t treated the same missing women from affluent areas and families. The colour of their skin is another layer in this though. It’s actually quite a complex issue.

Shessweetbutapsycho · 24/04/2025 18:11

PaddingtonBearStare1 · 24/04/2025 15:05

Stop looking for racism where there is none. I’m so sick of this.

In 2019-2020, over 150,000 people were reported missing to police in England and Wales. Of those whose ethnicity was known, about 80% were white, and 14% were black. The rate of black people reported missing was far higher than their percentage in the total UK population (3%). During the same period, white people accounted for 61% of missing person publicity appeals while 22% were for missing black people, according to the charity Missing People.

sofasoda · 24/04/2025 18:12

I think Sarah Everard was an outlier though in that where she lived there are thousands of women exactly like her so people really did see themselves as her & the fact a policeman did it. The majority of women are murdered by people they know, getting "kidnapped" off a busy street is very unusual.

The police were definitely racist in their response to a missing Bibi and Nicole but I think the media played it down as they didn't catch the killer straight away.

sofasoda · 24/04/2025 18:14

Class and background have a lot to do with it. I live in an ex mining town. We have had quite a lot of women go missing, from here and the surrounding area, in recent years. All white (predominantly white area)The women have unfortunately been found dead and non have made the national news. Even when missing for several days. One was missing for a good few days, left her house in the middle of the night and her husband said she had PND. She was found dead several days later, which is when there was small mentions on news websites. Her husband was arrested and turns out her murdered her. Again, his arrest was on websites. Not the national news. His sentencing did make the news.

Exactly, if you are lower class you don't matter as much and more so if murdered by someone you know.

hattie43 · 24/04/2025 18:14

I’m not sure this is true, certainly not the missing persons advert from the police all over FB. I’ve seen many ethnic monitories featured

menopausalfart · 24/04/2025 18:32

@hattie43 It's the media frenzy that surrounds a certain type of woman.

Scentbird · 24/04/2025 18:34

doodleschnoodle · 24/04/2025 17:55

If you really don’t believe race of a missing person affects the tone and volume of media coverage, you’re living in a fantasy world. Educate yourself.

To those who want names, look up Owami Davies, student nurse missing for over a month with very little media coverage, Joy Morgan, Sabina Nessa, Bibaa Henry, Nicole Smallman, Elizabeth Ogungbayibi. All black women and children who have received very little media coverage (Bibaa and Nicole eventually managed decent media coverage when a police officer took photos of their dead bodies and shared them on WhatsApp. Their mother has spoken about how hard it was to get any sort of media coverage and how much she tried).

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I think this is another layer.

It’s very specific cases that media report on.

Owami Davies is an unusual case because it appears that for the first half of her disappearance police believed she was alive. Then believed she was murdered. It was when they believed something had happened to her coverage did ramp up.

Joy Morgan was reported missing on 7th February and her murderer was arrested on 9th February. She had been missing a while but the media or police wouldn’t have reported it as she wasn’t reported missing. There wasn’t long between the missing persons report and the initial arrest. If they are quite sure someone is dead and they know who did it, it’s not going to become a missing persons case.

Sabina Nessa wasn’t ever reported missing. Her body was found before any reported her missing.

Racism does play a part. Bibaa Henry and Nicole Smallman and their families were failed by the police. I believe because of racism.

The case of Elizabeth Ogungbayibi is didn’t get the coverage say Madeline McCann got. Is that because of her skin colour or because they still believe her father took her? Or both. But oddly nothing appears online about her father.

But I don’t think the first 3 cases mentioned here would have made the news if they were white women.

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