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To ask why the media seems so fixated on missing white women?

146 replies

TheGreyShark · 24/04/2025 15:03

It feels like every time a woman goes missing, the amount of media coverage she gets depends heavily on her race. When a young, attractive white woman disappears, it’s headline news, with rolling updates, public concern and extensive investigations. Meanwhile, countless missing women of colour - many from vulnerable backgrounds - barely get a mention.

Of course, every missing person case is tragic but the disparity in coverage is glaring. Is it just about what gets views or is there a deeper bias at play?

AIBU to think the media has an obvious preference when it comes to whose stories get told?

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JHound · 24/04/2025 15:57

Kitchensnails · 24/04/2025 15:48

From the US census website, probably more reliable than Wikipedia...

Wikipedia shared the data from the US census data. Loads of places report the approx 61% figure for white Americans (including white Hispanics).

This is the source they pulled from:

www.census.gov/library/visualizations/interactive/racial-and-ethnic-diversity-in-the-united-states-2010-and-2020-census.html

(I know people mock Wikipedia but they make it easy to check their sources.)

It hits over 70% when counting everybody who put “white” but that includes Hispanic and those who put white in addition to another racial option.

White alone not hispanic or latino is just under 60%
www.census.gov/quickfacts/fact/table/US/PST045224

NeringaCS · 24/04/2025 16:00

wizzywig · 24/04/2025 15:55

Did you mean that when the missing person/ victim is not white, then the media gives the profession so that the majority of readers will feel more for the person?
I'm a WOC and do completely agree with the racism. 1 Iraqi school having a shooting attack would not make the news, but this happening in America or the UK? It'd make world wide news.

Do you think American school shootings or the Southport stabbing last year made the news in Iraq, Sudan or Myanmar?

CruCru · 24/04/2025 16:00

wizzywig · 24/04/2025 15:55

Did you mean that when the missing person/ victim is not white, then the media gives the profession so that the majority of readers will feel more for the person?
I'm a WOC and do completely agree with the racism. 1 Iraqi school having a shooting attack would not make the news, but this happening in America or the UK? It'd make world wide news.

Yes. The media is more likely to report on the disappearance of a black or Asian woman who has a professional role than one who hasn’t - possibly because readers and viewers are more likely to identify with them.

Words · 24/04/2025 16:01

Less about race, more about attractiveness.

An attractive, professional middle class woman of any skin colour generates clicks.

''Twas ever thus.

Whippetlovely · 24/04/2025 16:02

TheGreyShark · 24/04/2025 15:35

Yes. There’s often a real reluctance to see non-white people especially young black boys as victims in the same way. When it comes to things like grooming, exploitation or vulnerability, they’re so often framed as “troublemakers” or “streetwise” rather than as children being failed by systems. It really shows how bias doesn’t just get who gets media attention, it shapes who people are even willing to feel sympathy for in the first place.

I'd just like to add there are a lot of white working class boys that get coerced into county lines. No one cares about those boys either. There is a lot of issues with white working class boys being let down in this country but that's a seperate issue. I think there are racial issues and also class issues (no one cares when a prostitute is murdered)

CruCru · 24/04/2025 16:03

NeringaCS · 24/04/2025 16:00

Do you think American school shootings or the Southport stabbing last year made the news in Iraq, Sudan or Myanmar?

In fairness, I remember the reporting of a bomb in a market in Iraq (many years ago) and the BBC reporting was that x number of westerners had been killed. It was weird - presumably many people had been killed but the reporting only focused on how many westerners had.

JHound · 24/04/2025 16:03

Lavenderflower · 24/04/2025 15:56

Apparently, the phrase came from America. It quite a silly term.

It’s absolutely stupid as a term and meaningless too as most crime is intraethnic. I was just giving it as a counter-example for when people claim the media never cares about crimes when the perpetrator and victim are the same ethnicity.

VimesandhisCardboardBoots · 24/04/2025 16:04

CarmellaSopranosKitchen · 24/04/2025 15:50

Newspapers seem to like talking about the job, and wealth of the person, and their £600k house etc, or the fact that their parents are doctors..etc. It is as if certain strands of society are more newsworthy. And I'd like to say I'm shocked by this - but sadly not.

The fact is that it is more newsworthy.

The rarer something is, the more likely it is to be interesting to people, so the more likely it is to make the news.

"Homeless drug addict goes missing" isn't all that rare. "Doctor goes missing" is. Hence one makes the news and one doesn't, and why the news plays up the factors that make the case more unique.

Vodkamartini3olives · 24/04/2025 16:04

You are not unreasonable at all. It's a problem the world over. For example missing and murdered Indigenous women and girls in North America.

JHound · 24/04/2025 16:05

NeringaCS · 24/04/2025 16:00

Do you think American school shootings or the Southport stabbing last year made the news in Iraq, Sudan or Myanmar?

Why do American school shootings get reported in the UK?

Lavenderflower · 24/04/2025 16:05

CruCru · 24/04/2025 16:00

Yes. The media is more likely to report on the disappearance of a black or Asian woman who has a professional role than one who hasn’t - possibly because readers and viewers are more likely to identify with them.

I suspect this isn't the case. I may be wrong but I suspect most readers are not from middle class or professional backgrounds. However, I suspect people do find more educated and mobile people interesting. Similarly, people are probably more interested in hearing news about a celebrity as opposed to unknown person.

SmegmaCausesBV · 24/04/2025 16:06

This was the case about a decade ago but it's supposed to be getting better.
Also I strongly suspect they know localities where sexually deviant men have escaped on probation and attacks are often same race.

CruCru · 24/04/2025 16:08

JHound · 24/04/2025 16:05

Why do American school shootings get reported in the UK?

School shootings are horrifying and therefore get reported. Most are in the US, although there have been some (like that terrible shooting on an island in Norway) elsewhere.

Kilroyonly · 24/04/2025 16:09

I agree with you wholeheartedly. Middle class white women are considered ‘good women’ by the press, politicians, society. There is absolutely disparity. It’s shocking

NeringaCS · 24/04/2025 16:10

JHound · 24/04/2025 16:05

Why do American school shootings get reported in the UK?

Why was the horrific Peshawar school shooting in Pakistan that killed 250 boys reported in the UK?

Why are the horrific Nigerian school attacks and mass abductions reported in the UK?

Because they are inherently newsworthy events.

Also, the vast majority of American school shootings do not make the news in the UK any more - because they’re too common to be truly newsworthy. It’s only if there’s a significant number of fatalities that we hear about it.

NeringaCS · 24/04/2025 16:12

CruCru · 24/04/2025 16:03

In fairness, I remember the reporting of a bomb in a market in Iraq (many years ago) and the BBC reporting was that x number of westerners had been killed. It was weird - presumably many people had been killed but the reporting only focused on how many westerners had.

When there was a school shooting in Santa Fe, Texas, and ten people were killed, do you think Pakistani news focused on the 9 American victims or the Pakistani exchange student who was killed alongside them?

Playing up the local angle is incredibly normal.

SmegmaCausesBV · 24/04/2025 16:12

OP you want to watch Times Square Killer on Netflix - prostitutes in 70/80's weren't even considered human when their corpses turned up and sometimes not recorded. It is slow progress sadly.

2024onwardsandup · 24/04/2025 16:13

The daily mail and the Sun love it because it almost always gives them a chance to show a pic of a woman in a bikini

hehehesorry · 24/04/2025 16:13

It's a white british country, in other countries it will be different. People care more about people similiar to them so it garners more interest. Not saying I agree, that's just how it is.

dottiedodah · 24/04/2025 16:14

There was relatively little interest in young student missing while running.i had to google to see what happened white girl

SipandClean · 24/04/2025 16:19

JHound · 24/04/2025 15:49

Black women don’t appear in nearly every advert in the UK.

Edited

Actually they pretty much do.

Springadorable · 24/04/2025 16:20

This is a goady post because it's well known that there is a racial and gender bias when reporting missing people.

Agrumpyknitter · 24/04/2025 16:20

PaddingtonBearStare1 · 24/04/2025 15:05

Stop looking for racism where there is none. I’m so sick of this.

It’s not racism it’s biased reporting and happens to be true. Just like outcomes for black women during pregnancy and Labour are around 3x worse for mortality rates than for white women in this country. It’s not racist to be aware of these facts but there is an underlying bias whether you choose to believe it or not.

Legomania · 24/04/2025 16:21

Judging by the Missing People Facebook page the overwhelming majority of people that go missing are white working-class men

TrainersSpotter · 24/04/2025 16:22

Whippetlovely · 24/04/2025 16:02

I'd just like to add there are a lot of white working class boys that get coerced into county lines. No one cares about those boys either. There is a lot of issues with white working class boys being let down in this country but that's a seperate issue. I think there are racial issues and also class issues (no one cares when a prostitute is murdered)

Agree with this, that it is both racism and classism and sometimes both intersecting.

I think the classism angle is not solely that the media expects people to relate more to middle class victims, but more that a degree of shit is expected to happen to working class people. Perhaps that's at play with the racism too?

They're both horrible symptoms of an unfair society where inequality isn't just tolerated, it's woven into the very fabric of the system.

To add, I don't think white middle class victims should get less publicity, I think others should get the same.