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To ask why the media seems so fixated on missing white women?

146 replies

TheGreyShark · 24/04/2025 15:03

It feels like every time a woman goes missing, the amount of media coverage she gets depends heavily on her race. When a young, attractive white woman disappears, it’s headline news, with rolling updates, public concern and extensive investigations. Meanwhile, countless missing women of colour - many from vulnerable backgrounds - barely get a mention.

Of course, every missing person case is tragic but the disparity in coverage is glaring. Is it just about what gets views or is there a deeper bias at play?

AIBU to think the media has an obvious preference when it comes to whose stories get told?

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NeringaCS · 24/04/2025 15:37

They also talked about Sarah Everard being a marketing executive. What’s your point?

JHound · 24/04/2025 15:38

SipandClean · 24/04/2025 15:32

It is normally the families who work so hard to keep it in the public eye. Families of any colour or race can do that.

The families all work hard to put things in the public eye but they cannot choose what the media and police choose to prioritise.

TheGreyShark · 24/04/2025 15:39

Megifer · 24/04/2025 15:29

I get what you're saying, and I see it too, but I find it a bit uncomfortable when people express it.

Like I can't really get worked up about any missing person getting coverage of any amount if it helps find them. It feels a bit spiteful to be bothered about it, but I get it.

I'd imagine missing white women tend to be less common too?

The discomfort often comes from realising that some cases get massive support and visibility, while others - often involving marginalised people - barely register. It’s not about saying “they shouldn’t get help” but more like “why don’t others get the same chance?” And that question becomes really important if we care about fairness in how people are treated, protected and remembered.

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surreygirlzz · 24/04/2025 15:39

Black people are 5% pf the uk population
Ergo there are far more missing white people than black people
One could ask why the media is obsessed with back women who appear on nearly every advert on TV

Smallmercies · 24/04/2025 15:41

PaddingtonBearStare1 · 24/04/2025 15:29

How am I ignorant? This isn’t North Korea, I’m allowed to have my views. I say it as I see it.

Bore off.

Smallmercies · 24/04/2025 15:41

surreygirlzz · 24/04/2025 15:39

Black people are 5% pf the uk population
Ergo there are far more missing white people than black people
One could ask why the media is obsessed with back women who appear on nearly every advert on TV

You feel there are too many Black faces on TV?

Kitchensnails · 24/04/2025 15:41

TheGreyShark · 24/04/2025 15:39

The discomfort often comes from realising that some cases get massive support and visibility, while others - often involving marginalised people - barely register. It’s not about saying “they shouldn’t get help” but more like “why don’t others get the same chance?” And that question becomes really important if we care about fairness in how people are treated, protected and remembered.

There are plenty of white women and especially men who go missing and don't recieve any media coverage also if that makes you feel better?

CruCru · 24/04/2025 15:42

JHound · 24/04/2025 15:37

It seems to be “hey - so you can care about these ones!”

Yes, that was my point. I expect that many women go missing but because they don’t have these sort of qualifications, the media don’t cover them in the same way.

Much was made of Sarah Everard having gone to Durham.

Smallmercies · 24/04/2025 15:42

NeringaCS · 24/04/2025 15:37

They also talked about Sarah Everard being a marketing executive. What’s your point?

The point is unconscious bias coupled with institutional racism.

Megifer · 24/04/2025 15:44

CruCru · 24/04/2025 15:36

I have also noticed that when a non white woman goes missing or is murdered, the media makes a point of their professional background. I’m thinking of Zara Aleena, who was a law graduate, and Sabina Nessa, who was a teacher.

I was pretty sure I remembered those two ladies you mention, I thought one was Doctor though. Just Googled and headline after headline does/did refer to their professions tbf.

PaddingtonBearStare1 · 24/04/2025 15:44

Smallmercies · 24/04/2025 15:41

Bore off.

I feel like I’ve been promoted to MN Royalty now I’ve got someone obsessed with me. Do you want an autograph or something?

MattCauthon · 24/04/2025 15:44

Of course there's bias. In the same way that, overall, attractive, profesional, middle class white women being murdered by her husband/father/brother/son are far more likely to get a lot of media coverage than young, unemployed black women.

It's becuase the more "surprising" t is, the more newsworthy it is. And inherently, when a workign class, unemployed black woman is murdered by her husband/father/brother/son it's not considered as "surprising"

I find it horrifying. I'd like to make it law that any woman murdered by a man she knows should be in the headlines across all newspapers for at least 2 days.

NeringaCS · 24/04/2025 15:45

Smallmercies · 24/04/2025 15:41

You feel there are too many Black faces on TV?

An argument can certainly be made that black people are overrepresented in the UK media landscape relative to Asian people, despite the Asian community being twice as large.

Not saying there are too many black faces - it’s just interesting that black people are generally much more represented than a much larger minority group, and probably at least partially a result of American cultural influence (black people are at least 13% of the population there).

JHound · 24/04/2025 15:46

Kitchensnails · 24/04/2025 15:35

Over three quarters of Americans are white. I personally don't find it surprising (rightly or wrongly) that people who resemble the majority in a country often recieve a disproportionate amount of media coverage.

Where did you get three quarters?

It’s just over 60% including white hispanics and just under 60% for white non-latino.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/DemographicsoftheUnitedStates

It’s a majority but the media coverage for missing white women still is disproportionate. Hence why I was more surprised with this in the USA than I am in the UK.

Demographics of the United States - Wikipedia

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demographics_of_the_United_States

CarmellaSopranosKitchen · 24/04/2025 15:47

I think it is sadly racism. Additionally, I'm sure attractive younger people going missing etc will get more coverage ...Im sure there's research on this - particularly in America. I think also the status and family will also make more newspaper 'news' too, then those who are missing and alienated from family.

Kitchensnails · 24/04/2025 15:48

JHound · 24/04/2025 15:46

Where did you get three quarters?

It’s just over 60% including white hispanics and just under 60% for white non-latino.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/DemographicsoftheUnitedStates

It’s a majority but the media coverage for missing white women still is disproportionate. Hence why I was more surprised with this in the USA than I am in the UK.

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From the US census website, probably more reliable than Wikipedia...

TheGreyShark · 24/04/2025 15:48

Kitchensnails · 24/04/2025 15:41

There are plenty of white women and especially men who go missing and don't recieve any media coverage also if that makes you feel better?

It’s not about feeling better, it’s about recognising patterns. Of course there are white people who go missing without coverage too and that’s also a part of the conversation about who the media pays attention to. The point isn’t to rank tragedies - it’s to ask why some stories consistently get prioritised, while others don’t, and what that tells us about visibility, bias and public empathy.

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JHound · 24/04/2025 15:49

surreygirlzz · 24/04/2025 15:39

Black people are 5% pf the uk population
Ergo there are far more missing white people than black people
One could ask why the media is obsessed with back women who appear on nearly every advert on TV

Black women don’t appear in nearly every advert in the UK.

Megifer · 24/04/2025 15:50

TheGreyShark · 24/04/2025 15:39

The discomfort often comes from realising that some cases get massive support and visibility, while others - often involving marginalised people - barely register. It’s not about saying “they shouldn’t get help” but more like “why don’t others get the same chance?” And that question becomes really important if we care about fairness in how people are treated, protected and remembered.

No my personal discomfort is definitely that it feels a bit churlish for people to be bothered by it. I know others/you aren't saying that, it just makes me wince a bit 😔

CarmellaSopranosKitchen · 24/04/2025 15:50

Newspapers seem to like talking about the job, and wealth of the person, and their £600k house etc, or the fact that their parents are doctors..etc. It is as if certain strands of society are more newsworthy. And I'd like to say I'm shocked by this - but sadly not.

JHound · 24/04/2025 15:51

AzurePanda · 24/04/2025 15:37

I certainly agree that the lack of interest in crime committed against people of colour when the perpetrator is the same race / ethnicity is apalling.

You don’t live in London - definitely not the case with the press down here!

For example they even have a term “black on black crime” which is very unique. I don’t think I have ever heard “brown on brown”, “white on white” for example used outside of comedy!

Lavenderflower · 24/04/2025 15:54

I don't think the question should be why do white women get so much coverage but rather why don't other ethnicities get the same publicity. My take is that people tend to be only concerned about issues that relate to them thus white people may be more concerned about issues that affect them. Or perhaps stories about white people are more relatable.

Lavenderflower · 24/04/2025 15:55

I would like add that it seems that wealthy and middle class people seem to be more deserving of coverage than poor people.

wizzywig · 24/04/2025 15:55

CruCru · 24/04/2025 15:36

I have also noticed that when a non white woman goes missing or is murdered, the media makes a point of their professional background. I’m thinking of Zara Aleena, who was a law graduate, and Sabina Nessa, who was a teacher.

Did you mean that when the missing person/ victim is not white, then the media gives the profession so that the majority of readers will feel more for the person?
I'm a WOC and do completely agree with the racism. 1 Iraqi school having a shooting attack would not make the news, but this happening in America or the UK? It'd make world wide news.

Lavenderflower · 24/04/2025 15:56

JHound · 24/04/2025 15:51

You don’t live in London - definitely not the case with the press down here!

For example they even have a term “black on black crime” which is very unique. I don’t think I have ever heard “brown on brown”, “white on white” for example used outside of comedy!

Apparently, the phrase came from America. It quite a silly term.