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AIBU to cancel interview due to COVID?

370 replies

Sexisthairdressers · 24/04/2025 07:21

I have a job interview this morning but have COVID. Didn't sleep. Work up feeling crap and did a test. Just emailed to cancel. Feel terrible that it's last minute and really want the job. Have asked to reschedule. Did I do the right thing? AIBU? For info, it was a 4 hour interview (tests etc then face to face interview - just don't think I could have got through it - quite apart from not wanting to infect everyone).

OP posts:
Coastingtohell25 · 24/04/2025 10:50

ARichtGoodDram · 24/04/2025 10:50

When was the last time someone was hospitalised for covid?

February for my Dd.

My daughter ( 11 ) march 9th just gone.

MrsSkylerWhite · 24/04/2025 10:52

My husband was in hospital twice earlier this year, 6 weeks in total. Covid was running rife among staff and patients alike (hospital was testing patients who required admission).

LoveMeLoveMyDawg · 24/04/2025 10:54

RampantIvy · 24/04/2025 07:41

I'm sorry, but you are wrong. Two people I know have just had covid and both were very seriously unwell with it.

Yes, my DP came down with “something” first week in February… he’s still suffering with “something” now! It’s been 12 weeks!

Not like him at all, he’s now constantly tired, snuffly, headachey, and got no energy at all. Doctors aren’t interested, so he just carries on🤷‍♀️
There is still some sort of virus around.

Azureshores · 24/04/2025 10:57

Who the HELL is still testing for covid? Where do you even get the tests?? 😂

Magnastorm · 24/04/2025 10:57

You absolutely did the right thing. I would be far more annoyed with someone coming for a meeting or interview who was visibly ill than with someone who has the good manners to let me know.

Interviews can be rescheduled and any decent organisation will have no issue in doing so.

lunaswand · 24/04/2025 10:58

HelenWheels · 24/04/2025 07:28

i often wonder in what circumstances people test

I do if i'm feeling particularly bad, out of interest as much as anything else & because I have a few boxes of old tests left in the cupboard

MrsSkylerWhite · 24/04/2025 10:59

Azureshores · 24/04/2025 10:57

Who the HELL is still testing for covid? Where do you even get the tests?? 😂

People who have consideration for others less robust than themselves.

Most high street pharmacies carry them.

Calliopespa · 24/04/2025 11:00

lunaswand · 24/04/2025 10:58

I do if i'm feeling particularly bad, out of interest as much as anything else & because I have a few boxes of old tests left in the cupboard

I think you’d actually have to have a profound lack of basic curiosity not to test in those circumstances.

MrsSkylerWhite · 24/04/2025 11:00

Coastingtohell25 · 24/04/2025 10:50

My daughter ( 11 ) march 9th just gone.

How is she doing?

NestOfWipers · 24/04/2025 11:02

Lanzarotelady · 24/04/2025 10:18

What does taking your temperature tell you, does it make you feel better or worse, if it was normal, would that make you feel better?

oh do stop pretending to be a nurse.

Given your comments, it's just not credible.

Widowerwouldyou · 24/04/2025 11:02

It’s probably a good time to stop selling them to the public in pharmacies and only test in medical facilities if it really is clinically necessary, so that people who feel like a day off work don’t have that as an excuse.

NestOfWipers · 24/04/2025 11:04

Azureshores · 24/04/2025 10:57

Who the HELL is still testing for covid? Where do you even get the tests?? 😂

If you had bothered to read the thread, you'd know the answer to both of those stupid questions.

NestOfWipers · 24/04/2025 11:04

Calliopespa · 24/04/2025 10:41

I hope it’s not a biology essay.

I agree with both of you!!

Over40Overdating · 24/04/2025 11:05

That you think mine and any others direct experience with the long term impact of Covid is brainwashed hysteria @Mumoftwo52 doesn’t prove you to be the freedom fighting voice of sanity you clearly think you are.

Quite the opposite.

feelingbleh · 24/04/2025 11:07

Widowerwouldyou · 24/04/2025 11:02

It’s probably a good time to stop selling them to the public in pharmacies and only test in medical facilities if it really is clinically necessary, so that people who feel like a day off work don’t have that as an excuse.

Edited

Covid gives me really bad breathlessness and really effects my asthma if I hadn't of tested for covid I would of assumed something bad is going on and gone to the drs and sat in a waiting room with lots of vulnerable people. Testing meant I didn't have to do this. It would be like saying you can no longer do pregnancy tests at home or test your blood sugars. Drs don't have time for this stuff when people can check themselves

PhatGurlSlim · 24/04/2025 11:16

bigvig · 24/04/2025 07:24

You won't get the job. I'd think you were flaky OP.

She's got covid!!!

ilovesooty · 24/04/2025 11:16

Theunamedcat · 24/04/2025 09:42

No one owes you access to medical records someone died and your "making them think" how fucking rude are you? were you dragged up or raised correctly are you going to start using the word "sheeple" next because someone somewhere has the audacity to believe a doctor

The rude people on this thread are you and the poster who delightfully referred to "covid bedwetters".

Apologies @Theunamedcat .i meant to agree with you that @Lanzarotelady is indeed rude and have quoted the wrong post.

PhatGurlSlim · 24/04/2025 11:17

MrsSkylerWhite · 24/04/2025 10:59

People who have consideration for others less robust than themselves.

Most high street pharmacies carry them.

I agree. I still test for COVID when I feel very ill. I think it's important.

Some people are so selfish.

Calliopespa · 24/04/2025 11:19

ilovesooty · 24/04/2025 11:16

The rude people on this thread are you and the poster who delightfully referred to "covid bedwetters".

Apologies @Theunamedcat .i meant to agree with you that @Lanzarotelady is indeed rude and have quoted the wrong post.

Edited

The batshit comment was unnecessarily aggressive too.

ilovesooty · 24/04/2025 11:22

Lanzarotelady · 24/04/2025 09:32

haha rude, so anyone who challenges people and encourages them to think is rude?

That's what I meant to quote. You are rude.

lunaemma · 24/04/2025 11:22

Azureshores · 24/04/2025 10:57

Who the HELL is still testing for covid? Where do you even get the tests?? 😂

People eligible for antivirals? I get tests from the pharmacy free of charge
My dad also tests so he doesn’t give it to me

ilovesooty · 24/04/2025 11:26

Mumoftwo52 · 24/04/2025 10:04

Because we cannot always shut ourselves away from society at the smallest sign of a sniffle.

Kids have to go to school, they mix germs, they come home to parents, parents go out to work, viruses and bacteria spread. This is life. If YOU want to stay home and shut yourself away from ‘the germs’, go ahead. But you can’t seriously expect people who have to continue to earn money and go to school to stay at home because they have a runny nose.

Most people carry viruses - including Covid - and don’t show symptoms. So viruses spread even if ‘sick’ people stay home.

You're minimising by speaking of sniffles and runny noses, doubling down on your "bed wetter" comment. Why is "sick" in inverted commas?

NestOfWipers · 24/04/2025 11:27

Widowerwouldyou · 24/04/2025 11:02

It’s probably a good time to stop selling them to the public in pharmacies and only test in medical facilities if it really is clinically necessary, so that people who feel like a day off work don’t have that as an excuse.

Edited

I just don't have the words

Well, not ones that wouldn't get me banned anyway

Over40Overdating · 24/04/2025 11:31

@NestOfWipers the one I’m thinking starts with T and rhymes with sick, and not in inverted commas, either.

You can’t argue with the great freedom fighters and free thinkers of the internet. All self proclaimed epidemiologists and experts in individualism.

Same people who are as likely to tell you cancer treatment is a scam pushed big pharma and you just need to stop eating sugar and shove coffee up your arse like all the enlightened medical experts of facebook.

Calliopespa · 24/04/2025 11:38

ilovesooty · 24/04/2025 11:26

You're minimising by speaking of sniffles and runny noses, doubling down on your "bed wetter" comment. Why is "sick" in inverted commas?

Also some of these posts are getting a little confused in their desperation to be derisive.

There is lots of derogatory talk about “hiding away” from germs; but the situation under discussion pertains to having already caught it. They aren’t hiding: they’ve got it.

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