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To Think That Archaeology Proves That Men Cannot Be Women

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MrsMappFlint · 23/04/2025 08:31

A burial site has been found in Cardiff. It dates from the 6th or 7th Century.
The skeletons are all women.

In death, when all genitals have gone, the skeleton retains the truth about the simple fact-it is either male or female.

There is no third way. That's science and hundreds of years after death, the truth of biology is retained in the bone.

Your sex is in your very bones-male or female-that's it. In the end, that's all there is.

Men can pretend to be women but skeletons tell the truth.

The story is on the BBC website.

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proximalhumerous · 23/04/2025 09:26

RhaenysRocks · 23/04/2025 09:03

Intersex people have asked repeatedly not to be drawn into the trans debate, which this clearly is about. Those with DSD are not "both" or "neither". They are xx or xy.

Your second statement is incorrect. Some DSDs arise precisely because an individual's chromosomes do not fit the typical XX or XY binary.

ThatOpenSwan · 23/04/2025 09:26

Came on to say what @Archymum and @SummerFeverVenice said. Skeletons are not always crystal clear because humans are not actually that dimorphic, and there's a good deal of interesting gender stuff in the archaeological record (as well as the historical record).

The strict gender binary is culturally, geographically and chronologically specific.

countrysidedeficit · 23/04/2025 09:27

Archymum · 23/04/2025 09:15

I'm not weighing in on whether gender identity is bollocks. I am trying to answer the question posed by the original post, as an actual trained archaeologist and anthropologist. The archaeological record, and anthropology as well, clearly demonstrates that in societies around the globe, and for tens of thousands of years, individuals have had gender identities that do not always conform to their biological sex. It's nothing new, and in most of these non-western and prehistoric societies, these individuals were accepted, and even celebrated. A few examples: Quariwarmi (Incan culture), Yuta shamans of Japan, there are 5 recognised genders within the Bugi culture of Indonesia, Anarya (ancient Scythian clergy).

individuals have had gender identities that do not always conform to their biological sex

That's a modern cultural construct. I'm surprised that a trained archaeologist is making the basic mistake of using their own culture's beliefs and values to interpret past societies.

SummerFeverVenice · 23/04/2025 09:32

No, gender identity is really not a modern construct. Archaeology spans from modern to medieval to ancient to prehistoric. For all periods and most cultures/civilisations where we have contemporaneous written records (modern, medieval and ancient) we DO find gender identities albeit often called by another name than “gender identity” which do not always match the biological sex. Different cultures and civilisations had different third gender concepts and values but they did in fact exist before modern times.

Archymum · 23/04/2025 09:36

countrysidedeficit · 23/04/2025 09:27

individuals have had gender identities that do not always conform to their biological sex

That's a modern cultural construct. I'm surprised that a trained archaeologist is making the basic mistake of using their own culture's beliefs and values to interpret past societies.

That is absolutely not at all what I was doing. Historical, written documents from past civilisations, as well as eyewitness interactions with living, non-Western cultures (i.e. anthropology and archaeology) demonstrate that gender identity is anything but a modern, Western cultural construct.

SummerFeverVenice · 23/04/2025 09:38

Archymum · 23/04/2025 09:36

That is absolutely not at all what I was doing. Historical, written documents from past civilisations, as well as eyewitness interactions with living, non-Western cultures (i.e. anthropology and archaeology) demonstrate that gender identity is anything but a modern, Western cultural construct.

Yeah we are not the ones imposing our own beliefs on all of past human history!

Chersfrozenface · 23/04/2025 09:40

A woman buried with weapons was not necessarily a warrior. She could have belonged to a warrior caste or free class, with the weapons denoting status rather than indicating that she actually took part in warfare.

In pagan Anglo-Saxon graves children, even young ones, are sometimes found with adult sized weapons. They could hardly have used them, so the weapons most likely denote membership of the free class

animalculous · 23/04/2025 09:41

BallerinaRadio · 23/04/2025 09:07

Jesus Christ we're going back to the 6th century now to try and prove a point.

You've got your court judgement, you've 'won' is that not enough? Do we need this continuous stream of posts?

Go away and shut up you mean? We've had several years of threats made against us, countless battles, violence and lies, damn right we're going to celebrate the moment that sense finally prevailed.

BMW6 · 23/04/2025 09:42

KimberleyClark · 23/04/2025 09:26

Humans are Mammals. Mammals can't change Sex.

Is it time to repost the Human Beings Aren't Clownfish" video? 🙄

SummerFeverVenice · 23/04/2025 09:43

Chersfrozenface · 23/04/2025 09:40

A woman buried with weapons was not necessarily a warrior. She could have belonged to a warrior caste or free class, with the weapons denoting status rather than indicating that she actually took part in warfare.

In pagan Anglo-Saxon graves children, even young ones, are sometimes found with adult sized weapons. They could hardly have used them, so the weapons most likely denote membership of the free class

Yes well, I trust the PhD level archaeologists and osteologists that have examined these finds to be able to tell the difference between a woman that died in battle as evidenced by perimortem bone trauma then buried with her weapons vs a woman or child buried in a settlement graveyard with a ceremonial dress sword.

SixtySomething · 23/04/2025 09:46

SummerFeverVenice · 23/04/2025 09:12

What sex a skeleton is doesn’t really tell us about gender roles and gender nonconformance. Since DNA testing for sex was folded in and already excavated remains began to be tested en masse, what we have found is way more evidence of women living as men and vice versa through history. In many graves, the grave goods were used to sex a skeleton as much as morphology so if you found a burial with a mirror, jewellery worn by women, and household items like a yarn spinning distaff associated with women the skeleton would be sexed as a woman. Same if you found the grave of a warrior, sword, shield, perhaps buried with a chariot and four sacrificed horses, almost always sexed as male.

DNA has shockingly found many of these were the opposite sex expected by historical gender roles. So we know now that around 20% of Viking warriors for example, were women. Whereas before DNA the Viking “shield maiden” was accounted a myth and it was thought perhaps only the elite ruling women sometimes dressed up as warriors to give stirring speeches to their 100% male army…but didn’t really fight nor command units of fighters.

The same sort of realisation with many graves where the person was buried as a woman but most definitely was a male.

So skeleton male or female tells us nothing about how strict the gender role were enforced on the basis of sex or how many of each lived as the opposite sex, or even if it was viewed as that back then.

I find your post very interesting.
Please correct me if I'm wrong. However, isn't the gender roles a slightly different point?
IMO the discovery that 20% of Viking warriors were women isn't so surprising and points to the fact that we tend to make things black and white in interpreting the past.
In my entirely amateur dabblings in much more recent history I have regularly come across women following supposedly male occupations, normally when a husband/father died.
A woman doing a 'man's job' is a little different from a man living as a woman or vice versa.
Of course, there have also been examples in modern history of woman living as men eg as soldiers.

SummerFeverVenice · 23/04/2025 09:50

SixtySomething · 23/04/2025 09:46

I find your post very interesting.
Please correct me if I'm wrong. However, isn't the gender roles a slightly different point?
IMO the discovery that 20% of Viking warriors were women isn't so surprising and points to the fact that we tend to make things black and white in interpreting the past.
In my entirely amateur dabblings in much more recent history I have regularly come across women following supposedly male occupations, normally when a husband/father died.
A woman doing a 'man's job' is a little different from a man living as a woman or vice versa.
Of course, there have also been examples in modern history of woman living as men eg as soldiers.

Yes it is, but gender roles get to the heart of what does it mean in human society to be a man or be a woman?

The impact our sex does or does not have on the gender roles assigned or open to us varies through time, location and culture.

So it’s only the tiniest scratch on the surface to say XX skeleton = female and XY skeleton = male. It doesn’t tell us what it then meant in that society to live as a woman, a man or any third option and sometimes as a pp pointed there were several third gender options.

For a woman doing a “man’s job” vs living as a man, we tend to rely on the contemporaneous accounts of the people living in that society then as to what the meaning behind the outward gender nonconformance meant.

MrsMappFlint · 23/04/2025 09:52

BallerinaRadio · 23/04/2025 09:07

Jesus Christ we're going back to the 6th century now to try and prove a point.

You've got your court judgement, you've 'won' is that not enough? Do we need this continuous stream of posts?

Yes. We Do.
Yes. We Do.
Yes. We Do

Keep Shining a Light On It.

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TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 23/04/2025 09:54

MrsMappFlint · 23/04/2025 09:52

Yes. We Do.
Yes. We Do.
Yes. We Do

Keep Shining a Light On It.

Thank you for this @MrsMappFlint

You're quite right.

KimberleyClark · 23/04/2025 09:55

BMW6 · 23/04/2025 09:42

Humans are Mammals. Mammals can't change Sex.

Is it time to repost the Human Beings Aren't Clownfish" video? 🙄

I was replying to the comment that sex in living creatures has been around for millions of years. And saying it’s not true for all living creatures.

MrsMappFlint · 23/04/2025 10:57

BallerinaRadio · 23/04/2025 09:07

Jesus Christ we're going back to the 6th century now to try and prove a point.

You've got your court judgement, you've 'won' is that not enough? Do we need this continuous stream of posts?

Thinking about this breathtaking post of yours, @BallerinaRadio

Have a little think.

When the judgement was announced, that all the Trans Activists say, "We have had our court judgement, We Lost. That is enough?"

NO THEY DIDN'T

What did they do?

THEY TOOK TO THE STREETS CARRYING PLACARDS WISHING DEATH TO TERFS, PISSING IN THE STREETS, DEFACING STATUES AND VOWING TO TAKE NO NOTICE OF THE JUDGEMENT

But was that just their last gasp, their dying yelp?

NO. THEY HAVE AT LEAST 15 OTHER MASSIVE DEMONSTRATIONS PLANNED FOR THIS WEEKEND

Well, at least the MP's accept it and that's what counts?

NO. SEVERAL HIGH RANKING MPS, INCLUDING DAME ANGELA EAGLE HAVE BEEN FOUND OUT DISCUSSING HOW TO REVERSE THIS JUDGEMENT IN REAL TERMS.

So, is this the moment for women to take your advice say, "We've won. That is Enough" and quietly slink off while powerful voices unite to undo the judgement?

No. IT IS NOT. IF WE MAKE THIS MISTAKE, WE LOSE. THE JUDGEMENT HAS BEEN MADE BUT IT HAS NOT BEEN DELIVERED. WE LOOK THE OTHER WAY AND WE WILL BE BACK TO SQUARE ONE.

So, @BallerinaRadio we could only say 'we've won' and quietly wait only if all the activists supported that we have won and shut up. They Don't and They Won't.

Why don't you have a word with them, telling them we've won and that is enough?

I'm guessing your advice is only given to women and I'm guessing I'm right in coming to that conclusion.

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BallerinaRadio · 23/04/2025 12:12

You read quite a lot into that (wrongly I might add) when really I'm just fed up of all the posts about it

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 23/04/2025 15:15

BallerinaRadio · 23/04/2025 12:12

You read quite a lot into that (wrongly I might add) when really I'm just fed up of all the posts about it

Really? That's all?
But not bothered about the violence the TRAs have planned for us? And the violence already perpetrated against us? No?

You've got your priorities wrong.

BallerinaRadio · 23/04/2025 15:21

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 23/04/2025 15:15

Really? That's all?
But not bothered about the violence the TRAs have planned for us? And the violence already perpetrated against us? No?

You've got your priorities wrong.

Who is us?

There is no place for violence, I'm against that just as much as I'm against violence against trans people many of whom have been dragged into this unwillingly. In the real world these subjects are only a lived experience for a tiny minority of people.

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 23/04/2025 15:24

Who is us?

GC women.
Who did you think I meant?

TeaAndStrumpets · 23/04/2025 15:37

BMW6 · 23/04/2025 09:42

Humans are Mammals. Mammals can't change Sex.

Is it time to repost the Human Beings Aren't Clownfish" video? 🙄

Perhaps, instead of identifying as women , men could start identifying as fish.

Problem solved.

pointythings · 23/04/2025 15:37

I'm opposed to violence against anyone by anyone. I'm also opposed to what has already happened to me once, before this judgement: aggressive questioning by the self appointed bathroom police. I'm worried for my transgender son who, due to a physical health condition has a full beard and presents as male. Fortunately (this is dark irony) he is a wheelchair user, so can use the disabled toilets which are unisex.

I'm worried that this ruling isn't going to be a victory for anyone because of the practical real world consequences.

I'm also laughing at those who refuse to look at the archaeological and anthropological record when it doesn't support their fully binary view of the world. The world isn't simple. People still haven't learned that.

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 23/04/2025 15:39

In the real world these subjects are only a lived experience for a tiny minority of people

I wouldn't call the whole of womankind a "tiny minority of people".

This ruling affects all women.

BallerinaRadio · 23/04/2025 15:51

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 23/04/2025 15:39

In the real world these subjects are only a lived experience for a tiny minority of people

I wouldn't call the whole of womankind a "tiny minority of people".

This ruling affects all women.

Edited

How many women have been directly affected by a trans person using a bathroom? Directly affected. Not that many, it can't be

Dotjones · 23/04/2025 15:54

Well no, the Cardiff graveyard proves nothing of the sort. There's no evidence of people changing gender at that point in history, that is more of a late 20th century thing. Before that people might dress up in the opposite sex's clothing but that was about the limit.

More to the point, the discovery doesn't need to prove something that is bloody obvious.

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